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Originally Posted by Staci Stacked
Gemma,
I thought this was a great post, thank you for writing it and for being so honest! 
I have also experienced this with previous clients who haven't visited with me for quite a while, but for some reason continue to use me as a reference.
I did help them out for quite a while, but eventually decided that not only would they have more recent references from all the other girls they'd been seeing since our visit, but they were taking advantage of my time and the fact that I'm nice. I also contributed this to the fact that maybe I'm more reliable and easier to get ahold of/quicker with a response for a reference than other girls they'd seen (especially if they frequent bp girls, who are here today, gone tomorrow).
I have a good memory, too, with no note taking, I might point out...but lately I've had a lot of verification requests or appointment requests from people that say "I haven't seen you in X amount of years, but we really used to have a lot of fun together", yet I have no number saved for them and my email/pm searches are fruitless. Needless to say, if I don't remember you for some odd reason, they YES, you will have to provide me with a recent reference!
As a side note, I can't tell you how many people write/call me that I haven't seen in ages and want to know if I can help them find a good provider in whatever location they are visiting. Quite frankly, I think that's just rude, especially if I don't know you well or haven't seen you in forever! Yeah, sure, why not...after all, I have nothing better to do with my time than research OTHER providers for you to have a good time with.  |
Thank you Staci, glad you enjoyed it.
And I couldnt agree more with you on your response! Im mad that your post said EXACTLY what my brain was thinking, and I couldnt put it into words quite like you LOL
