Details of a life of an escort

[Guest030817]

Originally Posted by vkmaster

Well, how would you like if she asked you "details of being a hobbist"???

Like how do you do this, and not let your wife/SO find out???

Do you ever feel guilty about playing in the hobby and having a relationship IRL...and how do you handle that??

How do you meet a lady...during your work day, and your boss doesn't find out??

How much do you make ($$$) professionally, in order to have enough money to hobby??

How do you skim your cash, in order for your wife/SO to not find out??

What would your kids think, if they found out you hobbied??

What were the details in your life, that made you to decide to start paying for "it"????

When did you learn...or when do you think you'll have to start... needing the blue pill, in order to play successfully????

I'm sure your questions were harmless...but quite frankly unless this whole subject is brought up by the lady...or she has been a regular of yours...it really isn't any of your/ours business

The hobby is about the ladies creating fantasies for the guys...and the ladies making a little juice. And hopefully all parties being safe and having fun.

Beyond that, why in Earth should we feel the need to probe...like they say in sports "show a little class, and act like you have been there before???

And finally and most importantly, why do you NOT DO any freaking reviews.....opppss sorry about that, wrong thread, on that last point!!!!

Hehe...you just made my day VK? Clients have asked me very pointed personal questions before and one of the above has popped into my mind (luckily not out of my mouth) as an equivalent question to respond with...I mean if you want to go there and all.

The fun is in the fantasy!

[lakecat]

Quick thread hijack. Glad to see you back Ari! Not only are you smoking hot and sexy as hell, but your contributions here are greatly appreciated. Please don't leave us unsupervised for that long again.

Back to this thread. I don't understand, how do you expect her to answer all these personal questions if her mouth is full?

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Saintliest

I've gotten to know a few providers personal details. For me, whether at a strip club or an escort, politeness rules. I've shared friends with one...grew up in nearby towns...and when negative things were happening in her life that was shared on this board...it affected me greatly. I had another who shared other personal details of her life and we stayed in touch for awhile....though I haven't heard from her recently. I'm not saying I know their life story...but on the flipside they trusted me with the info they gave me.

Turn this around. I know some guys I was in the Marine Corps with: they are totally crazy. I know them well, and respect them. I know their limits and their personal information is safe with me. When you know a lot of people recognize that it is because you don't reveal private information that you have those friends.

Thus, a lot of people have no idea that these guys are crazy because most of the time they don't show it.

JR

[mike2]

Wow and I thought wanting to spank you was too personal

[mike2]

Originally Posted by Dondo7

I saw a gal earlier this summer and I asked her about the details of her life in this hobby. She seemed shocked about this, like it was the first time she's been asked. Was this a weird question?

yes

[bartipero]

"Originally Posted by vkmaster
Well, how would you like if she asked you "details of being a hobbist"??? ..."

Didn't see a question I would mind answering, but I'm sure if one kept at it one would turn up. It might make for good "I'll show you mine if you show me yours"...to a point.

[Guest102513-1]

Perhaps none of those questions bothered you bartipero, which is cool....but I'm thinking that would not be the case with everyone.

Not meant as a slam at ya, really isn't, but here's that thinking, again..."well it is OK with me, therefore...." There are two parties in this equation, not just one.

Fire away with questions, when it is cool with the lady. Obviously there are some ladies, that with some guys, at some point time, may be totally open with that. Then fine...let the games begin

But my main point would be, for gosh sakes, be smart enough when/if you reach that point with the lady tor recognize it. If not, the guy is just probing where he shouldn't be.

Me thinks, way too many guys are not only missing that point...but don't even understand that point even exists, to begin with

Just being curious, and asking...when thinking the lady can always say no? I mean, come on, a big part of hobbyland is discretion. We all should
understand that the term "discretion" is different to different folks.

That's all, lol