Why Close the Threads?

[Wakeup]

Who was the person who was out of line?

[dearhunter]

The retard who used the word "whore" on a board created for the purpose of chasing whores?

Lock this bitch up.......ijs

[Bloated Love Knuckle]

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Who was the person who was out of line?

Originally Posted by dearhunter

The retard who used the word "whore" on a board created for the purpose of chasing whores?

Lock this bitch up.......ijs

Surely you two have better reading comprehension than your post would suggest? He stated Annef, and the closed BP thread. This one is not locked down, one voice of dissension was squashed

[Annef]

Originally Posted by Bloated Love Knuckle

Surely you two have better reading comprehension than your post would suggest? He stated Annef, and the closed BP thread. This one is not locked down, one voice of dissension was squashed

That is ridiculous. Myself and a few other ladies had a question as to the content and intent of the thread. There was no name calling or intent (at least on my part) to get the thread closed. Was just an honest critique of something we took issue with. Wakeup, you made two comments on the thread and managed to insult and (tried to to at least) shame every woman on this board. Honestly, I thought you were drunk. When the conversation has reached the point of someone referring to women as all dumb whores are the same, whores rating each other...stupid whores, where exactly is the conversation supposed to go from there? You brought it down to the lowest common denominator. I am glad the thread was closed, but not because of the original post. There's no dialogue after someone tries to shame all the women on this board by lumping them into one pejorative category.

[Bloated Love Knuckle]

Wow Anne you really are easily riled. I was just messin' a bit. Only one way for these threads to resolve, Anne and Wake Up jello wrestling, purtybaby to referee.

[Austintatious Lilly]

Originally Posted by Bloated Love Knuckle

Wow Anne you really are easily riled. I was just messin' a bit. Only one way for these threads to resolve, Anne and Wake Up jello wrestling, purtybaby to referee.

Now That's An UNDERSTATEMENT!!!!!

[fun2come]

Quick, let's close this one before it gets out of hand ...

Where is that damn RTM button, ahhh here it is:

[Annef]

Originally Posted by Bloated Love Knuckle

Wow Anne you really are easily riled. I was just messin' a bit. Only one way for these threads to resolve, Anne and Wake Up jello wrestling, purtybaby to referee.

Thank you for trying to lighten the mood. I appreciate it. I am feeling a little battle fatigue, but unfortunately, I do have something else I need to say. Honestly, I could give a damn about the original post. I didn't realize when I commented that this would become such a clusterfuck. But at this moment, the issue tat really gets me is the fact that wake up gets on this board and makes those comments and only two women stepped up to field them. You guys are his peers and not one guy has said anything about it. Both putybaby and I at least admitted that perhaps we didn't handle as well as we would have liked to, but this guy is so gd cluessless that he gets on this thread and is like what, who are you talking about? Uhhh, you!! We are operating in a sea of men here, and not one of you called him out on thHat behavior. Is that what you all really think of us? Is that how you talk about us when we are not privy to the conversation? It's in my mind now, that's how you all really think of us. Sorry, I guess I'm dragging this out, but just felt I really needed to say it.

[dearhunter]

Annef, let me help you out before Wakeup comes in and wrecks the sides out of the place......and the thread gets locked.

Wakeup did not call you a whore unless you choose to receive it as such.......I will break it down for you and any modtard who wants to meet me in modtardville to discuss me quoting the comment.......

Wakeup:
Whores bashing other whores...you're all the same...get over yourselves...

"Whores bashing other whores" is a generic statement that whores bash other whores, and there is nothing new about that.......it can be inferred in the thread that he is referring to the OP bashing other whores......or........the pussy posse bashing the OP. But, it is not stated as such and left to you to decide how you want to interpret it.

"you're all the same" means exactly what is says.....he is saying you are all the same.

"get over yourselves" implies that you are making much to do about nothing.

You saw the word "whore" and went into a tailspin........I can only surmise that you self identified with the word in some demeaning way and understood he was referring to you.......and took offense.

Me, I like whores......I like to fuck them.....I like to give them my money (for time spent together only, of course)......I have no use for a librarian or a nurse.........a whore play acting like a librarian or a nurse is a different matter altogether.......ijs

[19Trees]

This Thread was opened with a good question: why we close threads?

First and foremost, we operate on the internet where cache and bandwidth are paid for. We have tens of thousands of concurrent threads, and if ALL were open "forever" it would come at significant expense and IT-overhead to do optimize the DB accordingly. It may also affect site performance.

Keeping threads open for 30 days gives them plenty of time (according to the Admins and owners) for peeps to read, comment reply but after that they close. ECCIE has not automated the closing of threads (closed by computer when they hit day 31). Rather they technically "stay open" but we ask peeps not to "bump" old threads.

Its fairly rare that Threads get closed down because they get out of hand, but if they devolve into shouting match or bring out angry retorts, we then veer away from information exchange and entertainment into (sometimes) back and forth insults. Sometimes those die an "early death" and get closed, but again rarely.

This particular thread has devolved. If it veers further into insults on particular provider's sensitivity level, it may become suitable for the recycle bin? Most often its best to let it be.

Hope this helps. Venus is not mars. Mars teasing and taunting Venus is not productive but we (mods) can't stop that. They are two different planets that can get along in the same constellation.

19Trees

[dearhunter]

More incorrect information is more like it........"we" ask peeps not to bump 30day review threads......welcome to the world of misinterpretation of the guidelines.........and you said this thread wasn't informative......ijs

[Bloated Love Knuckle]

If Eccie operates on limited bandwidth wouldn't shorter incorrect explanations be in order here? You offer more opinions than facts. You are speculating as to what people find informative and entertaining. My guess is all the people closing their accounts lately is due to finding this place neither informative or entertaining. Just an opinion from someone who likes being entertained.
Maybe Eccie should devise a credit system that gives each member including mods a certain amount of data to conserve bandwith?
Now that I would definitely find entertaining!

[Wakeup]

Whores are crazy sometimes...I forgive you...

Where you at Space?

[ATF Hobby]

Originally Posted by Annef

Thank you for trying to lighten the mood. I appreciate it. I am feeling a little battle fatigue, but unfortunately, I do have something else I need to say. Honestly, I could give a damn about the original post. I didn't realize when I commented that this would become such a clusterfuck. But at this moment, the issue tat really gets me is the fact that wake up gets on this board and makes those comments and only two women stepped up to field them. You guys are his peers and not one guy has said anything about it. Both putybaby and I at least admitted that perhaps we didn't handle as well as we would have liked to, but this guy is so gd cluessless that he gets on this thread and is like what, who are you talking about? Uhhh, you!! We are operating in a sea of men here, and not one of you called him out on thHat behavior. Is that what you all really think of us? Is that how you talk about us when we are not privy to the conversation? It's in my mind now, that's how you all really think of us. Sorry, I guess I'm dragging this out, but just felt I really needed to say it.

Annef, this, “the whore thing”, must have really hit a sore spot with you.

“Field” those posts you find that you NEED to “Field” for whatever reasons YOU have and let the “Sea of Men” on here decide to “Field” the ones we feel the NEED to address.

Now don’t take this wrong firecracker, I’m not barking at you. I think you already know this, but this board is going to attract a lot of different opinions/heated statements/poking fun/direct insults/useful info/supportive comments……etc. It just depends on whether or not you decide to engage any of those listed above by either letting it bring a tear to your eye, making a positive comment back, shooting back a shit storm of insults….etc….OR ignoring it.

I can only speak for myself, but more often than not I just IGNORE comments on this board because it would be a waste of energy to address them. I will let the MODS do the policing up around these boards while I enjoy the company of some delicious women.

To answer your questions:
Is that what you all really think of us? Some probably do.
Is that how you talk about us when we are not privy to the conversation? Some probably do.

Now, what was this thread all about again?

[playingnthedark]

Wakeup, when he puts you to sleep for a week or more. Your dreams will become a nightmare. Chill the fuck out.