HOW DO u pick your girls?

[clusterlizard]

A LOT SIR!

Originally Posted by malwoody

WTF....

WTF is the matter with you Dude.?

WTF is the matter with you?

[royamcr]

Looks, services, ease of scheduling. Reviews are great, just to kind of get a picture of how a session will flow. I like a girl that doesn't ask what you like, instead she just goes for what she knows most guys like and let things go from there.

[offshoredrilling]

I trick gals on eccie to go to a local hooker bar. Then watch how they act. When in Rome do as, I pass. If act like at a m&g maybe.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Angel in KC

is it based on pics?
her showcase?
her reviews?
her ads? and what about the ads? naughty talk? the pic? humor? long steamy stories? do the ads matter or can she say come f**k me...here are my days and times

Most guys have some type of preference: blonds, redheads, short or tall. So, you can't get around that. Once, I have found a lady I like, I look to see if I can learn something real about the lady first.

I am not into whips and chains, so I don't see anyone who lists them as an activity. I don't give women a hard time, and I don't receive it either.

I don't think making love is about domination of another, by either party. I think it is about sharing something very special and very nice. So, if the "I am in charge" idea comes across; I move on. I can be treated in a nice way without paying. So, if I am paying, I expect good treatment.

Too much cursing and dirty talk are an indication of a weak and uneducated mind; I move on.

Tattoos were not seen on women when I am young, so I still just "don't get it", and more than one or two, is just a wet towel on the selection of someone I want to be around.

I know that times have changed, a lot of the ladies have tattoos; and, I think I may be missing out by not seeing some nice ladies, some have given me some PM's. But, I haven't gone with a lady with a lot of tattoos, yet. I can remember when I was young, the State Fair had a side show when you could get in to see a lady with two small tattoos for ten cents. That was the height of weirdness in the early 50's; yes, times have changed.

So, what attracts a guy? It depends upon the guy, and the moment.

JR

[yugdlo]

Originally Posted by Gemma34

Oooohh, Fun topic Angel! I, too, would like to know what gets their attention. I try to keep my website and pics unique and fun but am always up for some new ideas!

Gemma, you would look sexy in a pair of sweats. You know how some women just exude sexuality. You are one of them.

[Johnny4455]

The ad is nice to see if it is a visiting lady, but for local ladies, i already know about them. For local ladies, if they are running a true special, that is an ad i will look at.

I choose by reviews. I can learn the truth about the appearance, and mor important, the performance of a provider through a review. It must be from a trusted author, or at least multiple authors saying about the same. Get a few no reviews, and i won't go.

[searchthelimits]

I like how this thread has been focused and on topic. I tend to agree with most. Pictures are a quick filter. If I am not physically attracted to someone why bother. But I could care less about the specific hair color or even breast size. Is it in a nice package. Would I want to be seen with her outside the call for a meal or other event. Normally after a few play sessions I prefer adding those activities. So that is where tattoos and piercing enter the picture. If they are not numerous or gaudy then they don't cause a further filter. Of course, if they are easily covered by street clothing, then the for all reality don't have them.

After looks the next filter is price. If they are out of my price range I won't check any further. I would never ask a provider to give me a special rate or introductory offer. I like mult-hour sessions so I don't want to go broke while having fun. I also secretly hope whenever I first visit a lady, that she wows me so that I move her to my preferred must see regularly list. If I got a special rate, I would not get to do that. And I have found even in the hobby, I feel the sex gets better as the number or encounters happen. We simply get to know each other better. Hell, I am normally nervous on the first session not knowing what to expect.

If look and price work, then I look for the activities that are provided through P411 or reviews. I love the providers that list the activities they enjoy in their private lives. Much easier than wadding through reviews. But the reviews can tell you a lot.

Several insights reviews can provide is their professionalism (easy to contact, easy to schedule, will she show, and her hygiene). But most reviews seem to be locker room BS as everyone is the greatest lover. I hope that they feel that way after all that is the mental aspect of the session. Why go to someone that is critical of your style or performance. I have an ego that likes to be stroked as well as my member.

Lastly, and this will swing my decision one way or another is the providers ability to communicate and her interest in things outside this hobby. I want to be with a complete and fairly open (with safety limits) person.

That is why I am a devoted GFE enthusiast.

[Nero Wolfe]

I like a specific type--cute and very slender so pics first. Then I look for reviews to make sure she is not LE (if she has been reviewed by someone with multiple reviews) and what her price points are and if she does outcalls.

I am constantly amazed, and somewhat in awe, of several of the guys who see so many unverified new women and who also seem to go for all physical types. Good for them but not for me.

And BTW--cutesy ads do nothing for me. Just the facts, ma'am--along with pics.

There was a thread earlier about why some escorts do not provide face pics which I understand. In that case, I judge from several reviews for the descriptions to see a pattern.

I rarely believe posted age or weight. I usually add 5+ years if they post 25 years old or more and add ten pounds.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

Most guys have some type of preference:

errrr just mmmm ahhhhh only two legs, and how they act.

[dirty dog]

I have a very complex formula which requires the use of advanced calculis that takes in account the size of the ladies butt and the width of my face.

[pyramider]

I look for taint and look at the way they post.

[Menthril]

I would have to say first is the ad. If I notice new ads I look them over if its someone I find physically attractive I then open their showcase/website and read over it. Looking for recent pictures and recent reviews. Second to that is activities and price. Reviews are the last thing I read through and see what I might expect during our encounter, and if it fits my tastes.

[Knight69Fun]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

It is worth noting that "non-smoker" auto fills in, and a provider needs to see it and change it in order for it to reflect that she is a smoker. It is really easy to skip right over that box without noticing it. My showcase read "non-smoker" for over a year without my being aware of it until someone pointed it out to me.

I didn't know that. Thanks for the info, I'll keep it in mind!
K

[lookingforsome]

How do I decide? Same way I decide outside the hobby. I let my dick decide.

My dick wants to see the potential looks of the provider. Only a blind man doesn't use looks to decide on a partner. I think all seeing men are wired that way.

I look at price point to gauge affordability. My willingness to pay for play slides up and down based on perceived value starting with looks first; and then reviews of their services. A well written ad comes after that. If it is sexy or clever, it can make a difference.

[Smoking Monkey]

1. Attractiveness/sexiness/hotness

2. Price

3. Menu

4. Reviews

5. Location...if it's Blue Springs, I'm probably not going to spend 45 minutes each way driving!

The ad....pictures, pictures, pictures! I like the provider to sound intelligent and clever. The little sexy vignettes are fun (Kudos Angel!) I like big fonts and colors. Information on specials are good and as much information on what I need to do to see this hot, sexy woman!