GFE or not to GFE......

[1Curiousguy]

One of the things that I forgot to add to my earlier post concerns repeat visits. I can see where it's difficult to achieve that feeling of a connection on a first visit, but some ladies are supremely talented at doing so. Nevertheless, it seems that achieving this fabled GFE would be easier on a second or subsequent visits after the ice has been broken.

I'm going to ask the question, even though the answer seems obvious, does the "GFE" tend to become more GFE over repeated visits? Or less?

I know that after seeing a few ladies repeatedly they are far more comfortable with me and we've progressed to having lunch and dinner at a restaurant before or after playing. (So far not in the middle, but maybe one day). Does it make the encounter more relaxing for you? (Ladies or guys).

Sorry, but I was just curious as to other opinions on whether this was one of the reasons that's its good to be a regular or at least frequent flyer.

[TiCobra]

GFE= Attitude...I've had some very good experiences since I started hobbying.yeah so all I've got so far is spa reviews...but I have spent time with FS providers before I joined eccie and had one bad experience with one (felt rushed and the session ended in disaster,on her part,not mine) and my other experience was awesome...she really knew how to treat a man and I left her with a huge smile on my face (found out she has recently retired) The attitude of the client can make a good/bad experience too...just because they are providers doesn't give any man the right to treat these ladies with disrespect,or treat them any different than the way you want to be treated...hey it's all about a good time and enjoying the experience on both sides...and I love a woman who enjoys what she does...and she will get back what she gives...

[DallasRain]

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hey it's all about a good time and enjoying the experience on both sides...and I love a woman who enjoys what she does..

[DATYMAN]

GFE, April and Nov24 pretty much sumed it up. Guys can tell. You can't fake GFE.

[April Cox]

Originally Posted by 1Curiousguy

One of the things that I forgot to add to my earlier post concerns repeat visits. I can see where it's difficult to achieve that feeling of a connection on a first visit, but some ladies are supremely talented at doing so. Nevertheless, it seems that achieving this fabled GFE would be easier on a second or subsequent visits after the ice has been broken.

I'm going to ask the question, even though the answer seems obvious, does the "GFE" tend to become more GFE over repeated visits? Or less?

I know that after seeing a few ladies repeatedly they are far more comfortable with me and we've progressed to having lunch and dinner at a restaurant before or after playing. (So far not in the middle, but maybe one day). Does it make the encounter more relaxing for you? (Ladies or guys).

Sorry, but I was just curious as to other opinions on whether this was one of the reasons that's its good to be a regular or at least frequent flyer.

Yes, It does for me, the more I visit with some one and get to know them, I think about them and miss them, It makes me feel happy to see them again... I dont see that there is any thing wrong with it, although Im sure there are some that will not agree. That is okay. Humans are social, and it is in our nature to bond with others. And to be cold and deny that is sad.

[galvbabeforu]

Originally Posted by DATYMAN

GFE, April and Nov24 pretty much sumed it up. Guys can tell. You can't fake GFE.

You my good man are a complete stool.. news flash.. they are ALL faking it, that's why you are paying them money, wow, seriously?? Far too many of you guys honestly fall for the act , while I commend the providers for their ability to ACT as tho you are a sexual dream to them, some guys take it wayyyyy too far. BTW when Chuck Norris got shot in Lone Wolf Mcquade.. he wasn't really shot, it was an act, just in case you weren't aware.

[baloo6878]

I think it was covered pretty well. I like to give as well as recieve when it comes to oral. I really enjoy kissing, but that isnt a must have. I have done enough reading and research tonever been with a provider that is cbj only. To me the gfe is about the quality of time spent. I frequent a girl that doesnt kiss and is no msog, but I knew that going in, but I feel like she is closer to gfe than some who advertise as "limited" gfe, but there is no kissing, no daty, and its a cbj. I PMed one and asked her what she called limited gfe and what were her rates. When she replied, I was polite and responded as so, but with all of the beautiful ladies who really are gfe, I refuse to pay 250 for an hour with no kissing, or daty. I respect a woman who choses to do cbj, and if her reviews show that she does it well, then I wouldnt be opposed to seeing her. Just my 2 cents. Thanks to everyone on this board for helping me have all good experiences in my short time in the hobby!

[Arverni]

Originally Posted by DATYMAN

GFE, April and Nov24 pretty much sumed it up. Guys can tell. You can't fake GFE.

Cuz April wrote the book on GFE!

November24? I haven't had a date with him yet so can't say!

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by DATYMAN

GFE, April and Nov24 pretty much sumed it up. Guys can tell. You can't fake GFE.

Sure they can. Hell, we believe the ladies when they tell you how big you are, how good a lover you are, and how you made them come. Granted no lady is a good enough fibber to even try those three fibs on me.

[Miss Dreams]

From my knowledge:
Girl Friend ExXxPerience!
Openminded lady whom enjoys what she does and provides an all about you session. It's like some ladies think just because they cuddle it is GFE. I believe you must kiss, a kiss is passionate, which is going to make any man feel relaxed and leave them wanting to explore more.
It's about doing the things you would do as if you were not married to a man and you were treating him as a date. I would consider myself GFE/PSE... Then again I am a Sugar Baby so I might think a little different than some on this board.


Miss Dreams

[Arverni]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Sure they can. Hell, we believe the ladies when they tell you how big you are, how good a lover you are, and how you made them come. Granted no lady is a good enough fibber to even try those three fibs on me.

Girlfriends "fake it" too. "Faking it" is one of the tools women have in their toolboxes. When they pull it out and use it - they're not doing it to cheat you out of something - they're doing it to enhance the experience for you.

Everyone's been there - you want her to have hers first so you keep plugging away like a mad man trying to hit every angle and tempo you possibly can.

But sometimes - it's just not going to happen for a woman no matter what you do. She realizes this and also realizes that your sense of chivalry will keep driving you to please her until it happens or you're totally frustrated with the attempt ... so she "fakes" one so you can concentrate on your finish. As a guy - sometimes I can tell and it's totally fine with me. All she did was facilitate a more rewarding sexual experience for the both of us (and particularly me) - in a politically nice way.

I've had girlfriends tell me I have a "big" one (I'm average). Now that ... well ladies ... especially for older men, we're over the whole "penis envy" thing so it's a bit overkill to tell us we're big when we've known our whole lives that we're not. One of my GF's, after I told her that I didn't need the ego stroke of "big" comments ... she resorted to ... "well you have a beautiful one then." LOL - okay.

My point is that even straight women "fake" things and tell their lovers little white lies to make the experience better for their men. Don't expect an escort to give up these little tricks. I daresay that if all women stopped "faking it" then sex would become a lot more frustrating for us men. Young men don't understand this concept generally - but older men who know women a bit better do.

As a guy - don't sweat it. My ATF makes me feel like I'm her man every time I see her. Is she faking a lot of it? Probably. However, I am a nice guy, I can be funny and entertaining, and I try to be generous and clean - so I do think when she opens the door she's happy to see me. I mean, I really don't think she goes into that by saying to herself ... "Oh god - I've got Arv next ... gotta really be a little actress for him!" Now, if you're a jerk and there's nothing enjoyable about you - then of course ... a lot of "faking" will ensue.

[SashaSweet]

GFE for me is the only way to go!
I'm affectionate sweet and pampering in my loving skills and love to be treated the same way yay for GFE!