Great topic

I've really enjoyed reading the responses.
I always write well because, quite frankly, I am a grammar / English nerd and I can't quite bring myself to write poorly. Additionally, I appreciate when someone recognizes and is appreciative of the way in which I write.
I only see a hand full of men, and all of them are people with whom I click. My friends view me as more of a professional girlfriend (their words, not mine) than anything else. And I find that I have a great deal in common with men who appreciate a well spoken and well educated woman.
When it comes to reading e-mails from potential friends, I don't choose to pursue poorly worded, error infused messages.
Having said all of this, I am BY NO MEANS a perfect person. Trust me! Nor do I expect others to be perfect.
I just don't find a lack of written effort to be appealing.