Advice from the community/No good deed goes unpunished

[xpetx]

dear OP,
its been said about 37 times...so im quoting:

"no honey...no money"

its a business to the woman/its a hobby to the men...write your thread in alerts and announce who the skank is...grow a pair my brother...this sounded like you're going to tell your mommy next

[KenMonk]

At this point I don't believe the OP will post the information which seems laughable to me at this point. This isn't like a no call no show, but whatever. As I have stated there are only a few females I would ever loan money to and I would never loan money to a lady I've never met, which is what I believed happened. I don't even loan some of my friends money who I see several times per week because money does complicate things, even more so when it is owed to someone.

I think all that can be said in this thread has been said really. Nicely done folks.

[JS42]

I'm single, and no offense to the ladies here...but there is only one woman I would loan money to, actually I would just give it to her if she needed it...and that's my mother :-)

[BigDeal]

Based on info provided by Fritz as to the fact that she hasnt checked in over a month and based on the fact i aint got nothin to do and bored as hell

Heres the list of who it could be
behind Door #1

bella Companion
Daisy Carlton
Diamond Sparkle
Kelly capricorn
lacey may
michelle lovingood...hmmmm
sophia 1993
natasha hilton
naughty nicole rae
sweet sunshine kc

pick one

[shamrock55]

If its someone on that list I would bet on Bella cuz the op said well reviewed...

[royamcr]

I was thinkin lovinwood also, she has 1 'well' review...

[MsElena]

And now you realize someone will believe its one of the ladies on that list and start bad mouthing one of them if not all.

A list like that shouldn't be posted without evidence besides they haven't logged onto ECCIE in a while.


That would be like one of us ladies posting a list of guys who are potential time wasters. Ring a bell with anyone?

[KenMonk]

Originally Posted by MsElena

And now you realize someone will believe its one of the ladies on that list and start bad mouthing one of them if not all.

A list like that shouldn't be posted without evidence besides they haven't logged onto ECCIE in a while.


That would be like one of us ladies posting a list of guys who are potential time wasters. Ring a bell with anyone?

+1

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by MsElena

And now you realize someone will believe its one of the ladies on that list and start bad mouthing one of them if not all.

A list like that shouldn't be posted without evidence besides they haven't logged onto ECCIE in a while.


That would be like one of us ladies posting a list of guys who are potential time wasters. Ring a bell with anyone?

Ms E...you may or may not be right...I didnt say it was one of these ladies...I said these are the ones that havent logged in over a month....hell it may not even be one of them...I really think these ladies especially if they havent logged in in over a month really dont give a shit about ECCIE anyway..

Personally I think it would be great to list POTENTIAL time wasters.....but then again since your not here its hard for you to be able to tell who are time wasters or not unless youve discussed it in the spiderhole or infoshare...whatever.... I say post it....


I dont have a problem with it...hell I dont really even care if im on the list

So get the posse together my dear write down whos been naughty...I cant wait

[MsElena]

You need to reread what I said in my post. Someone will assume/think/whatever and start yappin. I'm obviously not the only one who thinks that.

There's no need for me to make a list public of time wasters, that's not the way I do business. I was just making a point of what a list such as this one could do. If I post an alert or make a list with a guys name, its for a good reason and worthy of an alert.

[BobWills]

Thanks for all the advice and coaching! This girl stole 200 dollars from me. My emotions range between bewilderment and anger. I'm 56 and have been working since I was 15 years old. I have never screwed anybody out of money, never shoplifted, never wiggled around with the IRS. I tithe at church, have given 2 thousand bucks a year to the United Way since 1986 and bought every trash bag, light bulb, and cookie sold by the scouts! Showing up at her door, making her uncomfortable, or being labeled a "stalker" will not matter to me one bit. I left damn near 200 dollars worth of lures in Table rock Lake last weekend. It is the principle, her lack of integrity, and my trusting nature that irritates me. I've know many herb dealers, salespeople, adult entertainers, etc. that operate with integrity and honor. Her behavior and lack of integrity regarding this issue casts a negative shadow on women in her profession. Oh, and Bella Charlatan . . . . Bella Non-Companion; shame on you!

[MsElena]

Showing up at her door isn't going to label you a stalker, but it could get you hurt. Plus, some ladies would put you on a DNS list. I know I would because what if something happens during our session and you don't like the outcome? Would I have to worry about you showing up on at my hotel door later or telling the hotel who I am?

You have no idea who she lives with or who would be at her house at the time you show up. What are you going to do if a child answers the door? Her parents? A sister or brother? You'd be no better than she.

Its a hard lesson to learn, but be the bigger man and walk away with your dignity. There are truly so many other ladies who would be more than willing to see you and put your faith back in knowing that there are providers out there who are trustworthy.

Just don't front any chicks money.

[shamrock55]

Sporty started a new thread and outed the provider as Bella.

[shamrock55]

If someone strange showed up at my sisters door they would be in big trouble and I'm nowhere near as scary as many people I know or boyfriends or fathers. Sounds like a good way to get hurt or even killed. Take it as a lesson. 200 bucks is way cheaper than a college class so you got off cheap.

[BobWills]

Thanks for the advice. I chalked it up as a lesson prior to today. I don't care if she lives with Genghis Khan. As James Brown sang in his song Payback: "I don't know Karate; but I know Krazy!"