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Originally Posted by bobbie michelle
- ...typical of the Midwest bible belt!..... not in new Orleans!
- ...i love a gang bang! .. my screening for this is waaay more rigorious
- ...safty is of the complete upmost importance
- ...i wanna relax and enjoy myself too!
- ...in this... part of the us providers are not allowed to have security.
- ...here that is referred to as a pimp. i have never ever had a pimp
- ...security ... is present at any multiple person event.
- ...im not YOUR girlfriend or YOUR wife
- ...but thats just what it truly is..... a fantasy!:
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Bobbie is correct on all points!
People can be fun,
but it takes only one
Jerk to turn
what could be good
into not so good.
With several people it is more difficult to evaluate the individual. It is easier to read one person at at time. Some guys want to control, and harm. Some think sex is about controlling another, taking what another has, or manipulation.
Something about group sex that involves other men just doesn't feel right to me.
In a way, it seems like
this could be a situation where the woman is being taken advantage of. No one, male or female wants to be used, that is not pleasure! Most people have an interest in fantasy about things they have never done. Beyond the fantasy is the development of the life goals about where we want to be at the end of our lives. In my case, I decided that I really needed women in my life.
I like the company of women for the relaxing moments in life. Women can be so great, when treated properly they want to: help you at home, clean the house, make a nest for the children. Treat a woman right and they seem to want to do everthing for you. It is easy to say let them help all they want; but never let them feel that they are being taken advantage of. What do they want? In the end it is security and safety for themselves and all the children.
JR