Welcome to ECCIE - Sign up today!

FishGuy13 · 11-06-2011, 08:51 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Amber Rain

Wow, Stick!!! When can I book with YOU for my massage. HEHEE... I'm all about the touching on me thruout my session. I like to make you feel my breast on you, whether it be on your head while going up and down the back or make the hand touch it while i'm doing your arms. (I love that!) The stretching of the arms is another technique to let you brush up against it. But, as far as the daty goes, I was wondering if it's uncommon for the provider to climb up on your face while in the supine position. (looking up) Do any providers offer that?

2nd time trying to reply, stupid internet!
As for me giving DATY while she is at that end, a few thought come to mind, can I breath, will the neck support break and then my neck break, & then WOW! sounds like fun and if something bad did happen what a way to go!
I too really enjoy touching a beautful woman and giving her a massage is almost as much fun as getting one!!
As for the original question, I've had one provider offer L1 Bookends on my next visit as an upsell. I did not take her up on the offer for a few reasons, we just did not click, and it just seemed like too much of an upsell. The hourly rate should cover everything in my mind.

ItalianaPrincess · 11-07-2011, 08:50 AM

I always offer the "ending" at the beginning and then another "ending" at the end. With LOTS of touching, face sitting, etc. throughout!! It's hard for the guys (pun intended) who get "excited" early- to lay on that thAng the entire time while I am doing my thing. So why not do the "ending" first, that way they can really relax, and then also have a nice "ending" at the end. It always works nicely this way, and I like them to be cumpletely drained......Mmmmm!

Happy Endings to all!!

Guest081013-1 · 11-07-2011, 09:24 AM

Well FISH... the answer to your question about the face cradle breaking while doing DATY would be a NO. As any real Licensed therapist knows to tell you when you turn over to scoot down OFF the face cradle. We are trained in school to prevent accidents from table malfunctions. I can't imagine someone being so relaxed and not expecting to need their neck for support and the face cradle break. That's a law suit waiting to happen. So, next time you're getting a massage... scoot down off of it.. and if you need some support behind your head, ask her to remove the face cradle cushion from it's frama and place it under your head.

Thank you Italiana. I'm getting some great feedback on this thread. Great ideas and reasoning.

Amber Rain

Survivor · 11-09-2011, 05:10 PM

Great thread Amber. Sorry I'm a little late with my .02. The fact that you brought up this up tells me two things that make me want to see you. You enjoy your work and you want to know what the client wants.

I've had a bunch of massages from ladies I've met through ECCIE, ASPD, Backpage, the FW Star Telegram and other sources. Been to a lot of studios and independents. I have rarely been offerred a before and after finish, in fact only a couple of times that I can remember and only one of those was a double L2. While I don't actively seek out that service, I do think it would be a great experience. What I do like are

- being rubbed by a lady that really enjoys the intimacy of our meeting. First she should be naked or just wearing panties (those thighs highs in your avatar would also do nicely). Then touching me, rubbing her hands either softly or firmly and deliberately over my back, butt and legs. Climbing on the table and sitting or laying on top of me while I am still face down, grinding her breasts and pelvis into my body. If she is moaning softly, breathing a little heavy or just not saying anything - I can sense she is enjoying what she is doing. Teasing me lets me know she isn't thinking about paying the water bill when she gets done. A sensual L1 finish is great, a passionate L2 even better. Almost all of the ladies I see are L1 only.

- A good massage. I do enjoy getting a good massage. It's always apparent when a lady has training in massage, especially compared to those that don't.

- Being able to touch you. I love giving massages to pretty ladies with nice bodies and hearing about how you enjoy it. Rubbing your butt and boobs while you are standing next to me is minimal. Giving you a full body massage that ends with my DATY is a session to remember.

- Good conversation. Make me feel that I am more than just a wallet by talking to me and not about your boyfriend, kids and money problems. And if I stop talking, then you stop talking.

- Good cleanup. I love having a lady who provides a hot towell cleanup - not shying away from, and even being proud of the gooy mess she caused me to make.

Of the ladies I have seen three times or more that are still active, none are ECCIE providers. They all provide sessions that include the 2nd, 4th and last items above and

One is always fully nude, has a great body, gives a great teasing massage, lets me massage her with DATY and shows and voices her enjoyment. She is primarily L1, very creative L1 though, and lately has engaged in limited L2.

One is always fully clothed and allows no touching, just a little ass grabbing over her jeans. She gives a fantastic massage, usually goes over the time, and provides a great extended teasing L1 finish.

The third is an older lady, late 40's, gives a very good massage fully nude. Provides L2 but not to completion. Will allow me to massage her and some DATY.

The final one gives me a great massage, fully nude, lets me massage her with DATY that she really enjoys and then we have a full out L2/L3 finish.

It all boils down to having fun. That's why the guys are here. We know the ladies are primarily here to earn a living, but we love it when we can tell you are having fun too. I encourage you to agressively pursue this idea of yours. Maybe someday we'll share an experience.

Survivor

FishGuy13 · 11-09-2011, 08:30 PM

IP made me think of having an erection and laying on a stiff table does kinda hurt.
*
Survivor just gotta agree.

Guest081013-1 · 11-10-2011, 09:53 AM

WOW... Survivor!... You are very correct. I do love what I do. It is a must for me to know if the client is happy. Even in my every day real massage business, I do "requests and advice" cards. I like to know what is appreciated and what else is needed. I want my clients to be ultimately relaxed but HAPPY when they leave. I want them to tell a friend and brag about their experience with me. The above described situations that you have encountered sound nice. I like mutual touching and grabbing. I was taught in school... that it is a MUST to be quiet if the client is quiet. So, I know how to "SHUT it" when you do. I like to personable until you are getting that "sleepy, relaxed tone" that slowly starts to fade into a whisper. lol.

So, whenever you're ready... let me know.
Be glad to see you and anyone else that enjoys a REAL LICENSED massage with a well reviewed Provider.

Amber Rain