Bad smelling client, gave him a HJ instead of BJ

[corona]

Originally Posted by DallasBella

If someone has unbearable odor in their privates: that points to a yeast or bacteria infection. like someone who habitually doesn’t wash.

A little Soap is not going to TREAT the problem and that’s not going anywhere near my mouth either!

The guys are trying to bash the girl for not kicking him out. If she was to do that, then you guys would still say that she was wrong. She took the time out of her day to accommodate this client: so why would it be fair of her to turn him away and the money that she worked to secure? Missing out on other appointments that she could have taken during that timeframe. Most likely having to drive across town to her location. I would have done exactly the same thing. In fact, I have several times!
So many wanna be frat boy trolls on here it makes me nauseous just to read. Good job, sassy!

devil's advocate here. So, how much should she have returned to him? This was an incall, so let's not confuse the issue.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

No Provider Should Have To Wash Any Man's Dick!
Unless you are at a AMP and that's what they do so just go there.
if it's that bad it's yeast or bacteria infection.

[DallasBella]

Originally Posted by corona

devil's advocate here. So, how much should she have returned to him? This was an incall, so let's not confuse the issue.

Exactly zero dollars. We pay for our incall whether it be a hotel, apartment, or an office. Personally I do not use hotels unless touring: so I deal with electric bill, Internet, renters insurance, TOLL fees….and this is ON TOP of my mortgage. To give you some perspective : I have my house, apartment , and now office that I am solely responsible for.
What do you do for work, corona? Let’s say you worked on cars and you rented a garage to do so. If you had to spend money every month and you had people continually booking appointments/service and not showing up, would you start requesting a deposit to make sure they are serious?

Let’s not get off topic here:
Rank hygiene(indicative of a yeast or bacterial infection) is absolutely inexcusable and unacceptable.

[Wile E Coyote]

This client has not responded to this thread. But perhaps he is taking the high road. He has multiple reviews and many of the providers that he has seen are well established, yet, none of them have reported that he was smelly and rank.

IF he had that bad of a smell, you would think he would notice it as well and take her up on the offer of taking a shower and scrub himself clean. But remember, this thread was posted well after the negative review of the provider.

What would be curious to note is whenever the hobbyist in question goes to see another provider in the future, let's see if she has the same issues with him. And, the provider gets another negative review in the future, let's see if she posts that the client had some kind of issue that she could not perform well again.

[LustyBustyGina38FF]

I had a guy few years go in Dallas who showerd and still had bad crust on his uncut Dick no way was I going to give him a BJ or CBJ and it smalled , I told him in a nice way and he acked like oh well, so all he got was CFS! Pull this shit back and scurb the hell out of it.
He was a younger guy maybe in his mid 30's.

What one guy does with a provider is not going to be the same with every provider.

[winn dixie]

I've been told mine smells like high karate and hoppes #9 gun oil

[slowmover]

I had a fairly new provider I like contact me after an appointment traumatized by an appointment with a client who had some physical condition she didn't know ab out when making the appointment, (I didn't ask the particulars). I hope the providers have a good support network that shares pertinent information.

On the other side I want to get the most bang for my buck so I show up clean, smelling fresh, but cologne free. Ass free of all Klingons. The one area I will not compromise on is pubic hair. I am not shaved and will not. I will take whatever the downside to that is. I will trim short, but no shaving.

[nobody_home]

there was a fairly popular provider in Louisiana that would insist you shower when you arrived at her place and would watch you shower before she got down to business. Her entire appeal was blowjobs. So not only would you have to shower, but she would apply antiseptic to your cock before starting. It really seemed like overkill, but to each his own.
Yes, hygiene is obviously important. What this thread SHOULD be addressing is EXPECTATION of services. If a provider isn't willing to perform the expected services, fine, express what you can offer clearly.

If a admirer shows up to a girl's in-call and is not 'agreeable', how much is she owed? What about when he has already given the full rate (or a tip included)? I'm sure no girl is even thinking about reimbursement

If a girl shows up to an admirer's suite (outcall) and is not the girl in the picture or is questionable, is someone owed money at this point for time & effort? I've had more than my share of girls that agree to a meet at my hotel suite (reserved just for their encounter), where they NCNS....

[Wile E Coyote]

Originally Posted by nobody_home

there was a fairly popular provider in Louisiana that would insist you shower when you arrived at her place and would watch you shower before she got down to business. Her entire appeal was blowjobs. So not only would you have to shower, but she would apply antiseptic to your cock before starting. It really seemed like overkill, but to each his own.
Yes, hygiene is obviously important. What this thread SHOULD be addressing is EXPECTATION of services. If a provider isn't willing to perform the expected services, fine, express what you can offer clearly.

If a admirer shows up to a girl's in-call and is not 'agreeable', how much is she owed? What about when he has already given the full rate (or a tip included)? I'm sure no girl is even thinking about reimbursement

If a girl shows up to an admirer's suite (outcall) and is not the girl in the picture or is questionable, is someone owed money at this point for time & effort? I've had more than my share of girls that agree to a meet at my hotel suite (reserved just for their encounter), where they NCNS....

Bait and switch or outdated/50+ lbs ago pics in a current ad providers are not owed any money, incall or outcall, due to the deception. When a guy walks and wants to be generous, I think leaving $40 should more than suffice.

Services depicted on a provider's ad and after screening, what she agrees to verbally and/or written before the appointment is set is what is expected when a guy meets her in person for BCD service. As I have said, 99.9% of true hobbyists who meet up with a provider for BCD service are going to have excellent hygiene as well as respect for the provider and her time.

[SassyStarlet]

Essentially its being suggested that I pay a client who did not follow basic instructions and came with poor hygiene to an incall to take down or retract a bad review.

So what stops the next guy from writing a bad review just to get money from a provider. At least one of my poor reviews was from a guy trying to extort me in such a manner.

In the past 6 months i have been robbed, stranded, assaulted, held at gun point, and given fake money all from clients trying to get money or free service from me.

He was aware of my rules and how to come, on top of my rate before coming. yall are going off he say she say type stuff, so how do you know if either is right or wrong? yet i knew this was going to be another way for him to try to get money from me and extort me. Im here to warn others to just be careful with this guy hes not good news at all!

[nobody_home]

Originally Posted by SassyStarlet

Essentially its being suggested that I pay a client who did not follow basic instructions and came with poor hygiene to an incall to take down or retract a bad review.

respectfully (and thank you for contributing again), what makes you incapable of receiving feedback? No one in all these pages suggested anything close to what you've asserted.

Hear me now, believe me later, but addressing THAT will pay you huge dividends in life (more than any lost rate).
You're so wrapped up in your own head you have no clue how to exist in this world with other people

In the past 6 months i have been robbed, stranded, assaulted, held at gun point, and given fake money all from clients trying to get money or free service from me.

sob story excuse is irrelevant here

He was aware of my rules

he wasn't aware of you NOT providing services offered.
Thats the fundamental issue; EXPECTATION of services


You show up and order a cheeseburger for $2

Cook says, "sign says, "no shirt, no shoes, no service" do you want to put some shoes on?

You say "no" and pay $2

Cook gives you two buns with no burger and justifies keeping your $2 because you didnt 'follow the rules'

That said, if I were in Dallas or if you make your way to the panhandle, I would still throw all kinds of money at you and give you glowing reviews even if all I received was a handjob. I am 100% serious

[Top Dog]

Originally Posted by nobody_home

respectfully (and thank you for contributing again), what makes you incapable of receiving feedback? No one in all these pages suggested anything close to what you've asserted.

Hear me now, believe me later, but addressing THAT will pay you huge dividends in life (more than any lost rate).
You're so wrapped up in your own head you have no clue how to exist in this world with other people



sob story excuse is irrelevant here


he wasn't aware of you NOT providing services offered.
Thats the fundamental issue; EXPECTATION of services


You show up and order a cheeseburger for $2

Cook says, "sign says, "no shirt, no shoes, no service" do you want to put some shoes on?

You say "no" and pay $2

Cook gives you two buns with no burger and justifies keeping your $2 because you didnt 'follow the rules'

That said, if I were in Dallas or if you make your way to the panhandle, I would still throw all kinds of money at you and give you glowing reviews even if all I received was a handjob. I am 100% serious

Since you are a Florida hobbyist, why are you so invested in this Dallas thread ?

[nobody_home]

Originally Posted by Top Dog

Since you are a Florida hobbyist, why are you so invested in this Dallas thread ?

eccie has a total of 20 visitors per day.
why the fuck does it matter where someone posts?
itt. Americans NEVER cross state lines. ever.

[LGBBQandT]

Originally Posted by nobody_home

You show up and order a cheeseburger for $2

Cook says, "sign says, "no shirt, no shoes, no service" do you want to put some shoes on?

You say "no" and pay $2

Cook gives you two buns with no burger and justifies keeping your $2 because you didnt 'follow the rules'

It would be hilarious if you were playing a character but the fact is you’re 100% serious and that’s mind boggling. Your analogy is inane and it’s clear you don’t understand business at all. First of all these are fundamentally different businesses (product vs service). Secondly, the investment made to bring in a client is wildly different than selling a burger.

That’s not even the biggest issue, you just brush off this woman’s experiences as a “sob story” when really we should be asking who are these guys? Are they members of this board? Can we boot them? Do you really have so little knowledge of this hobby that you can’t understand the most vulnerable people here are the women providing?

It is so rich of you to post an image about critical thinking when you clearly don’t posses that skill. But the cherry on top is really that you couldn’t handle being asked why you care about this when you’re in Florida so you got pissed off lmao

Originally Posted by nobody_home

You're so wrapped up in your own head you have no clue how to exist in this world with other people.

I suggest you read this again and again and look in the mirror.

Originally Posted by SassyStarlet

So what stops the next guy from writing a bad review just to get money from a provider. At least one of my poor reviews was from a guy trying to extort me in such a manner.

In the past 6 months i have been robbed, stranded, assaulted, held at gun point, and given fake money all from clients trying to get money or free service from me.

I really hope there’s a lady’s board here where you can share handles and stuff like on the other site. And that you can report these guys to the mods. It’s not ok. It shouldn’t be glazed over. These “men” need to be weeded out.

I don’t understand why so many guys side with the guy in these situations by default. Is it really SO crazy to believe that this guy didn’t look after himself that day/week? EVEN IF it’s a he says/she says situation, why automatically assume the provider is at fault? There are some posters here who think they are such hot shit who need to be reminded that we are all paying for women’s time and company. Not that it’s a negative quality, but nobody is inherently above anyone here.

[nobody_home]

Originally Posted by LGBBQandT

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there wasn't any cogent argument you made worth quoting, but I am responding to your post.
there is a ton of backstory drama regarding the provider and the reviewer. Anyone can justify anything when omitting facts.
Reviewer's complaints, Provider's complaints - at the core of it is full price was paid with the EXPECTATION of full service.
If the reviewer had been apprised that he should change his EXPECTATION, THEN there would be a leg to stand on why the provider was justified.

Hey, if you don't shower I can only give you a handjob, okay?

instead, she thought the client should be a mind reader, then act surprised when he felt short-changed.
She DIDN'T because she very clearly had the INTENTION of keeping the encounter, keeping the full rate and not fulfilling the expected service. That IS short-changing someone. She knew what she was going to do and purposely didn't want to give the client an opportunity to back out.

Just like all the make-believe you've spouted in your emotional tirade post, the provider listing all her grievances that happened this week (stubbed her toe, burnt her toast, etc) have NOTHING to do with the encounter or the argument being made here. It is evidence of the provider readily using manipulation to justify her actions ("feel bad for me because i got short changed by a completely different person) and also has no problems with creating delusional arguments to support her cause ("the provider should PAY the reviewer")

These threads always bring out the reactionary simps that feel the need to vociferously defend their make believe friend for hire.
I don't even have an issue with the provider. I DO have an issue with them misrepresenting reality, which is only causing them more harm and pain