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asusr10 · 01-12-2022, 09:18 PM

Agree with Massagejunkyie69. I have 3 different places where I have friends with benefits program running. None of those places have been ever reviewed on this site. I only pay them for massage and standard tips. But I buy them gifts like wine, chocolates and other stuff, nothing expensive. Some of them have boyfriends but they feel comfortable with me to share the details. Couple of them took close to 6 months to convince them to go all the way. Patience pay offs. Like MJ69 said, dress well, smell well and treat them well.

Of course I had my screwups and rejects. I got greedy and fucked two friends working at the same place and they found out. One of them got mad and no longer wants to see me. The other one continues to see me.

Billogoods · 01-13-2022, 11:19 AM

For the sake of those without PA, be cautious about what you post. You don't know what others will do with that information.

While you may believe that members are just a band of brothers, on a mission for wonderful adventures, the truth is that you don't know anyone on this or any other forum.

london2012 · 01-13-2022, 02:11 PM

Hey, we're hitting up the same 3 ladies. They told me I am special and the only one they gave their virginity to. lol

I have FWB at amp but I would never share the info. I don't expect to be the only one they are banging, but I know they are not providing the same service to everyone. It took a lot of work to get there, not just the 1st or 2nd visit. And it's not throwing tons of money at them, bc it makes them feel cheap. The encounters are GFE intimate, and enjoyable by both parties.

It's sort of like SB, but I only meet them at their workplace. lol

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Originally Posted by asusr10

Agree with Massagejunkyie69. I have 3 different places where I have friends with benefits program running. None of those places have been ever reviewed on this site. I only pay them for massage and standard tips. But I buy them gifts like wine, chocolates and other stuff, nothing expensive. Some of them have boyfriends but they feel comfortable with me to share the details. Couple of them took close to 6 months to convince them to go all the way. Patience pay offs. Like MJ69 said, dress well, smell well and treat them well.

Of course I had my screwups and rejects. I got greedy and fucked two friends working at the same place and they found out. One of them got mad and no longer wants to see me. The other one continues to see me.

ntxguy · 01-13-2022, 02:41 PM

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Originally Posted by london2012

Hey, we're hitting up the same 3 ladies. They told me I am special and the only one they gave their virginity to. lol

I have FWB at amp but I would never share the info. I don't expect to be the only one they are banging, but I know they are not providing the same service to everyone. It took a lot of work to get there, not just the 1st or 2nd visit. And it's not throwing tons of money at them, bc it makes them feel cheap. The encounters are GFE intimate, and enjoyable by both parties.

It's sort of like SB, but I only meet them at their workplace. lol

I am shocked, to say the least, that you and others on this upstanding board have secret pussy stashes that you won't share!!! And here I thought everyone was nice a honest.

Billogoods · 01-13-2022, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by london2012

Hey, we're hitting up the same 3 ladies. They told me I am special and the only one they gave their virginity to. lol

You are special. Everyone else has to pay for their virginity.

cage196 · 01-13-2022, 08:08 PM

London, you are such a fucking pervert. I knew you were going to these places.

asusr10 · 01-13-2022, 09:17 PM

haha i wouldn't be surprised, our pussy paths crossed many times and fortunately not at the same time! definitely not exclusive given couple of them have long term boyfriends. but one of my recent conquests is exclusive for now. i know several others are trying her as she showed me her messages. She cums in 30 secs and that tells me she might not be getting a lot yet.

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Originally Posted by london2012

Hey, we're hitting up the same 3 ladies. They told me I am special and the only one they gave their virginity to. lol

I have FWB at amp but I would never share the info. I don't expect to be the only one they are banging, but I know they are not providing the same service to everyone. It took a lot of work to get there, not just the 1st or 2nd visit. And it's not throwing tons of money at them, bc it makes them feel cheap. The encounters are GFE intimate, and enjoyable by both parties.

It's sort of like SB, but I only meet them at their workplace. lol

Mental AtrraXXXion · 01-14-2022, 12:57 AM

Information can always be shared discreetly but some of you guys only care about yourselves and not the hobby as a whole. Selfishness and jealousy is at play here. There is no cohesion, only loose factions. There should be a common goal to not damage the hobby and understand the results that can come from your actions.

cage196 · 01-14-2022, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Mental AtrraXXXion

Information can always be shared discreetly but some of you guys only care about yourselves and not the hobby as a whole. Selfishness and jealousy is at play here. There is no cohesion, only loose factions. There should be a common goal to not damage the hobby and understand the results that can come from your actions.

YUP!

Massagejunkyie69 · 01-14-2022, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Mental AtrraXXXion

Information can always be shared discreetly but some of you guys only care about yourselves and not the hobby as a whole. Selfishness and jealousy is at play here. There is no cohesion, only loose factions. There should be a common goal to not damage the hobby and understand the results that can come from your actions.

Your statement whether tongue in cheek or not is not totally true about us being selfish. Some discreet sharing does occur, but the problem with a public board like this is that there are people who can read the board, never contribute, then the minute they see something promising, they rush out and try to get equal or better service than those that put in a lot of time and effort to groom their sexual partners.

It sucks that I (and from the comments, many others on here) spend weeks, or even months, sweet talking a AMP or LMT girl, perhaps even spending a lot of money with little return (ie lots of L0's or L1's before finally getting to L3), only to have some guy read the board, rush out and ruin it by trying to force the AMP or LMT girl into doing something that we've spent months cultivating. In a way, its a form of theft. No different than a farmer that planted a crop, worked it, spent months growing it, only to have someone else come in and harvest it.

So I decided that there are some AMP & LMT's that I'm keeping to myself or only sharing with a very few trusted other hobbyiest who happen to guard their secrets too.

Oh, and before I get a ton of request to share, let me state something. Before I share my LMT's or sugar babies, I'll need some really good intel. Tossing a rubratings or ECCIE girl to me that you might or might not have seen is not going to cut it. I've had guys toss a known provider at me hoping I'll give up one of my under the radar LMT's or sugar baby. Not going to happen. It'll have to be a like for like trade, she's an under the radar unknown that you've spent months cultivating, or she's a sugar baby that is willing to see another SD for a PPM arrangement.

I think the real selfishness at play are the lurkers that don't contribute, yet expect the same level of service that contributors get. The same goes for the guys that will show a review to a LMT or provider and say something along the lines of "I want what he got" without putting in any effort.

In my view, its not selfish by not sharing. Its protecting these under the radar LMTs from losing their license or getting run out of their spa facility because there's a ton of guys that show up and make a scene when she wont' fuck them. Its actually happened to a LMT that I saw, she lost her lease, they kicked her out because all of a sudden a bunch of guys showed up and they pegged her as a prostitute instead of a legit massage therapist.

london2012 · 01-14-2022, 10:09 AM

MJ69
I got a special lady for you. Her name is Sherry. I heard she's very willing and open minded. lmao.

Asusr10,
You've been busy. 30 sec? You must be really gifted. lol

asusr10 · 01-14-2022, 10:29 AM

Lol, I am fairly average in that dept. It's just that she hasn't gotten any action for 2 years before we started doing it. So it doesn't take much to get her over the hill. Now she assumes I am her BF so there is some emotional angle which makes the experience so much better.

My claim to fame would be making Mrya (provider) and latina SB (Jlanister and I have seen her) cum which was like a bootcamp workout lol.

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MJ69

Asusr10,
You've been busy. 30 sec? You must be really gifted. lol

smooth-tx · 01-14-2022, 11:16 AM

Oh please do share

Massagejunkyie69 · 01-14-2022, 12:43 PM

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Originally Posted by london2012

MJ69
I got a special lady for you. Her name is Sherry. I heard she's very willing and open minded. lmao.

you joke, but that's exactly what happened! It wasn't Sherry, but the guy PM'd me wanting to trade, like an idiot, I said sure, here's a SB that'd be happy to see you. I made the introductions and made sure she was ok with seeing someone else. He followed through and didn't mistreat her or stiff her on her allowance. So then I said, now who do you have? and he sends me a ragged out ECCIE provider that everyone on this board (except for me) has fucked. I told him, everyone's seen her. Who else you got? Any corresponding Sugar Babies or LMT's? nothing.

So I learned my lesson. The next time he reached out to me, I said I wanted his trade first. He never responded and that was the last time he asked. And it was the last time I traded with anyone who just asked.

Mental AtrraXXXion · 01-14-2022, 04:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Massagejunkyie69

Your statement whether tongue in cheek or not is not totally true about us being selfish

If you read my post I said that SOME of you guys only care about yourselves (selfish), as relates to selfishness. SOME of you guys, does not mean all.... so what I said is entirely true. I don't know what else you read into that or spun. So what part of what I said is not totally true?