Up bored scanning through reviews and i see "She's bbw but has a cute face....".

[Guest062124]

Preference is preference, but as a thicker girl, I fuck just like I did when I was a spinner.

It's not really about weight or size, it's how you feel about yourself.

I prefer dad bods over overly muscular men, but luckily, I can still have fun with both.

[Bobster36]

Reese - your BMI per your showcase stats put you in the normal weight range. You classify yourself as "thicker" above. So I guess it's relative. The real problem here is that many providers do not list their height/weight. So while some ladies may consider themselves thick, their actual BMI and appearance is obese. If a provider cant get business being honest about her size, then she shouldnt complain about a comment such as "cute but a BBW".

Also most (but not all) men prefer women that weigh less than they do. Just as in RW dating most (but not all) women prefer men taller. Since the men are buyers, expressing a caveat re: a BBW's inexplicit size advertising shouldn't surprise anyone. There is a huge difference between thick, as you consider yourself, and fat or obese or BBW - which few providers advertise.

One more thing - note that the OP (Nina) has no showcase and her most recent ad (3/21) lists no height/weight descrition and is merely a photo of her fingers and toes. She should be the last to complain about comments such as "cute but a BBW". If a BBW advertises as such, nobody that sees her would have an opinion such as that.

Just my $0.02. And likely worth less than half of that!

[Guest062124]

I call myself, "thick", because you can't see my ribs, I have a healthy butt, actually have boobs now, perky ones, at that and I have a mommy tummy. (4 mini me's can do that to you). I may be in a normal weight range, but I don't weigh 115 like I used to 10 years ago. There are some gentlemen here who would call me fat and that's fine of course. Preferences are a great thing. I am glad we all get to determine who we visit with based on those preferences.
My statement was in reference to the gentlemen who stated that big girls fuck better or vice versa. In my case, my style, ability to fuck and my ability to take dick hasn't changed with the extra pounds.

[mtabsw]

Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Preference is preference, but as a thicker girl, I fuck just like I did when I was a spinner.

I disagree - you're better than ever

Originally Posted by Reese Foster

It's not really about weight or size, it's how you feel about yourself.

How you feel about yourself is very much driven higher when someone makes you feel wanted, appreciated, and a master of the bedroom arts (even if you're not - it is the art of the wonderful lie)

Originally Posted by Reese Foster

I prefer dad bods over overly muscular men, but luckily, I can still have fun with both.

How about GrandDad bods Grandma?

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by Bobster36

One more thing - note that the OP (Nina) has no showcase and her most recent ad (3/21) lists no height/weight descrition and is merely a photo of her fingers and toes. She should be the last to complain about comments such as "cute but a BBW". If a BBW advertises as such, nobody that sees her would have an opinion such as that.

Just my $0.02. And likely worth less than half of that!

I have 90+ freaking reviews for crying out loud. Dam near all list that I'm proudly a bbw. Research is key or simply open your mouth and ask.

Try again..

[London-James]

I'm a chubby girl and have no issues getting dicked down. However, many men are a bit... ashamed.

Recently, I was in Montreal for work and pleasure. Many of my clients in Montreal, as I was doing their companion references, tended to drift towards the spinner type. Then again, spinners dominate the market. All of my clients were super happy with the experience and many were taken aback by skill in the best way. I asked them to write a review and they hesitated because it is expected in that area to really only see spinners. However, once my one client who only sees curvy providers wrote a review, everyone else chimed in about how amazing I was and how they can't wait till I come back in June or when they will be in Dallas.

I've come to believe that it is a society issue. We are bombarded with images of what we should look like and what we shouldn't look like. And men are constantly bombarded with "locker room" culture. It is to be expected; however, seeing a BBW provider doesn't make a man's value less. In fact he's doing exactly what this world is about - finding connections with a variety of people.

[milfy2002]

This thread reminded me that so many guys have told me they don't post or review at all anymore because of the drama and rude comments they don't have the time or energy to contend with.

In other words, ain't nobody got time for other dudes shitting on their account of a good time they had with a lady.

IMO until "they" stop airbrushing the already anorexic models there will always be a stigma associated with seeing curvy, thick, and BBW ladies.

Sometimes it's hard to take, but as long as the gentlemen keep coming to see me I'll feel assured that curvy is still in fashion with some! Even if it's on the DL...lol

[Guest062124]

Originally Posted by mtabsw

I disagree - you're better than ever.

Thanks!

How you feel about yourself is very much driven higher when someone makes you feel wanted, appreciated, and a master of the bedroom arts (even if you're not - it is the art of the wonderful lie)

So true!


How about GrandDad bods Grandma?
GrandDad bods are great as well!

Signed-Granny

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Wait what??

What do yall have against BBW Women??

Why can't it say "She BBW with a cute face"?

Had to vent. Thanks for reading lol

Ahhh yes backhanded compliments aka "nice insults".
Like other fine sayings such as "pretty for a dark skin girl (can also be reworded as she's dark skin BUT she's pretty" or if they're seeing a MILF and say "she's no teen or 20-something BUT she's awesome" etc etc etc. I think they are using the 'but' as some kind silly and unnecessary buffer. Sometimes the intent behind it isn't bad but still looks just as negative imo.

[Guest113018-1]

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Ahhh yes backhanded compliments aka "nice insults".
Like other fine sayings such as "pretty for a dark skin girl (can also be reworded as she's dark skin BUT she's pretty" or if they're seeing a MILF and say "she's no teen or 20-something BUT she's awesome" etc etc etc. I think they are using the 'but' as some kind silly and unnecessary buffer. Sometimes the intent behind it isn't bad but still looks just as negative imo.

Why does it have to be a backhanded compliment? Why not just a copliment? If it's in a review and he is stating that she is a BBW, it's not a knock on the provider, it's just stating a fact. A fact that those reading the review need to know to make an informed decision. And cute, while being a compliment, is one mans opinion because as we all know WALDTS.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by milfy2002

This thread reminded me that so many guys have told me they don't post or review at all anymore because of the drama and rude comments they don't have the time or energy to contend with.

In other words, ain't nobody got time for other dudes shitting on their account of a good time they had with a lady.

IMO until "they" stop airbrushing the already anorexic models there will always be a stigma associated with seeing curvy, thick, and BBW ladies.

Sometimes it's hard to take, but as long as the gentlemen keep coming to see me I'll feel assured that curvy is still in fashion with some! Even if it's on the DL...lol

This may be the first time in eccie history I actually agree with your post Milf lol! Great response! Thanks

[Nina the Dicknapper]

I would have to also input I hate when girls aren't honest about their figure. I hate liars so I can definitely understand that frustration.


In conclusion
No reviews on the provider? Ask for some or see a reputable provider(cant fake 92 reviews lol)
no showcase? Simple ask for a picture.

[Lena Duvall]

This is a really great point Nina. When I read reviews with back handed compliments or even out right insults, it's disappointing and off putting. But whatever is stated in the public portion of a review can be used by clients and companions alike to make informed choices. I have a soft policy to steer clear of dudes who say a lot of negging things in reviews. And recently when I made an exception, the dude turned out to be a multiple booking, time wasting gremlin.

Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Why can't it say "She BBW with a cute face"?

[Lena Duvall]

+1

In this example Mocha offered, "she's pretty for a dark skin girl" has a totally undermining connotation. There are so many other ways of conveying an accurate description without also throwing shade: "She is pretty and has dark skin..." or "She is pretty. She has dark skin and..."

Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

Ahhh yes backhanded compliments aka "nice insults".
Like other fine sayings such as "pretty for a dark skin girl (can also be reworded as she's dark skin BUT she's pretty" or if they're seeing a MILF and say "she's no teen or 20-something BUT she's awesome" etc etc etc. I think they are using the 'but' as some kind silly and unnecessary buffer. Sometimes the intent behind it isn't bad but still looks just as negative imo.

[OneStarLuck07]

My wife has always been a BBW, even though she is smaller today than any other point in our relationship(lost 50 lbs in the last year, but still has a way to go).

She has a gorgeous face without makeup, which she rarely wears anyways. But, because she is "fat" and she is conditioned to believe "fat=ugly," she sees herself as being ugly and it really affects her. I think she is gorgeous and I tell her so, but she doesn't usually believe me.

It is hard to be with someone you find attractive but doesn't find them self attractive. Has killed the mood many times. Part of the reason I'm here...