Lil red disappointment

[MOPAR11]

Well said lil red!! Never had any issues with you...always a pleasure..everyone has a version of events and those who wish to believe the negative need not try and see you!!

[littleredheadgirl]

Thanks babe.....I think my excellent reviews and complete LACK of anything negative apeaks for itself

[Carlos Danger]

Originally Posted by littleredheadgirl

1) I was running 15 mins late due to childcare issues, .

2) I got held up by takin an extended dump whew

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by littleredheadgirl

What this "gentleman" has failed to mention in his "version of the truth" is something each and every one of you should know before you trash talk ME any further;

1) I was running 15 mins late due to childcare issues, not a half hour as he claims

2) we had agreed on length of visit and donation rate prior to and at the last minute he claimed he refused to pay it.

3) He then proceeded to pepper me with threatening text messages saying he was going to post horrible things on my Facebook page, PROVED he knew my FIRST AND LAST NAME and that he knew some of my friends and family personally as he has spent a significant amount of time and effort stalking me and not just gathering my identity info, but SERIOUSLY RESEARCHING MY PRIVATE LIFE AND CYBER-STALKING MY PROFESSIONAL AND PUBLIC LIFE. HE proved to me that he has acquired some very VERY PRIVATE INFORMATION ON MYSELF AND MY FAMILY.

4) said he was going to publicly announce that I need to go get a job and contribute to society as I am a no good loser whore who should just kill myself.

And as if he hadn't gone psycho enough.......

5) promised to post a FAKE eccie review telling a tale of the world's worst date and basically make it so my status and reputation on eccie would be ruined.

So please take this information into consideration before you try to destroy my reputation or chances at future clients. I will not deny that I can be "flakey" as I am a single mom, have been struggling with some very serious and life altering issues requiring alot of my time energy and focus while still trying to keep up with a hectic life in general. I'm appalled at the person referring to me as a "back page Betty" btw.......yes that's where I started. No I haven't posted there in months. You dont know anything about me. I'm actually a very good girl and always keep the wants,needs,safety,security and general happiness of all my clients both new and trusted very seriously. I have yet to have one single negative thing posted on the experience I provide. It's only ever about some other BS to create drama. But I will not EVER allow anyone to demean, or threaten me and my kids. If u are cool with men doing that to you girl that's your choice. But dont think u have some sort of handle on who I am and then go so far as to try and deter anyone from seeing me in the future. I would never ever judge, trash talk, or put down a fellow "provider" because REAL women stand together and help one another. You of all people should know that there's two sides to every story......especially in this business. I wish nothing but happiness to all of you and encourage anyone that may come see me to disregard this man's blatant and ridiculous LIES.

You were not being called backpage betty specifically, if you read the thread you'd see it was a generalized statement to another comment saying all ladies dont have any TCB.

[Next Best Thing]

What the guy said originally, the criticism was not so terribly severe.

[Guest072323]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

What the guy said originally, the criticism was not so terribly severe.

Funny he got banned again right away....

I must say that I have NOT yet seen lil red... haven't even had an opportunity to try and set something up... but I've been in contact with enough respected members here that give her a thumbs up... that I pretty much dismissed the op's concerns...
His reputation speaks for itself...

[Guest072118]

To add Lil Red, Im a Backpage 'ho'. Backpage works, nothing wrong with Backpage even though it has a 'stigma'.

Backpage trumps the boards for business, at least for Syracuse. Many members here and at GBBG still look at BP daily.

All that matters no matter where you advertise is TCB/service/accurate pictures.

You want some guidance on some TBC reach out, TCB takes some work.

[Next Best Thing]

I couldn't say one way or the other.

The complaints, though. Relatively minor.

I've had hooks threaten me with similar nonsense. I consider the nastiness and the desperation and the personality conflicts the cost of doing business with borderline personalities who are involved in shaky, illegitimate business in general.

I'd be surprised if very many of us haven't had hooks do amateur backgroundchecks on us, text us out of the blue at inopportune times, or try to guilt-trip us out of money.

Cost of doing business.

[Next Best Thing]

The idea that backpage is any worse than a board like this is elitist and wrong.

Anyone can join this board. Anyone.

That is the very definition of no standards.

[Guest072118]

Originally Posted by Next Best Thing

The idea that backpage is any worse than a board like this is elitist and wrong.

Anyone can join this board. Anyone.

Exactly.

I have more trouble with fellas from the boards over my backpage men...

I do try and get all my BP gents to join the boards or at least make them aware they exist if they are going to play in the hobby.

[normale]

My ATF has terrible tcb skills and takes days to set up. BUT, once she arrives all is forgiven.

[Next Best Thing]

I've had it go any number of different ways and there doesn't appear to be a relationship between excellent or deplorable service that in any way depends on whether you initially ran into a hook here, on backpage, or otherwise.

Maybe I have low expectations.

As far as hooks behaving professionally, this is not only a silly thing to expect, but I'm not sure it's even a good thing.

I enjoy flighty, eccentric, hayseed hooks, as long as they don't transform into stalkers or pests with the passage of time, and as long as they realize that I'm a paying customer and have at least a tenuous undestanding of what this implies.

[normale]

My ATF has terrible tcb skills but is an Eccie provider, I have come to trust her to come to my home , something I would never do with a BP provider, even if I had seen her and liked her once before. Meeting ladies on this site has never burned me and I am sure there are guys who will say otherwise. So to the ladies I have seen from using this site, thank you and especially "Rose".

[Next Best Thing]

Allowing a hook to come to your home or to even know where you live is risky. I'm sure you're exercising judgment but best not to forget that these things can go wrong in 1/10th of a second. Especially when they tell their hoodlum boyfriend where you live.

I'm out of town too much. My house is relatively unguarded although I do own a large livestock guardian/neighborhood menace breed of dog that is very territorial and watches the house when I'm not around.

I have found that once-trusted regulars can often be the most difficult hooks to manage once everything stops going exactly how the regulars wants it to go.

[Guest072323]

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