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nuglet · 07-31-2015, 04:06 PM

uh... perhaps we should clearly redefine what "GFE" means..... and who offers it.

Iron Butterfly · 07-31-2015, 04:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyz

And some will try to DFK you between CIM & Goodbye.

I have no problem with a lady DFK me after I CIM, been there done that, it's part of the sex thing

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SA Angel · 07-31-2015, 04:14 PM

Since we are on the subject of kissing...

Stop trying to wipe off my juices before you kiss me after DATY. Yes, I know the bottom half of your face is soaked and probably about to prune up but dammit I want to taste myself on your lips.

A bit more on topic, what Tammy said is spot on. For the hot second last summer I tried to have a SO while hobbying I found out real quickly that I could either feel totally genuine with my clients OR my SO. I couldn't be truly myself with both. First, I tried to distance myself emotionally from my sessions. It felt awkward and I realized I wasn't kissing as much. When I said "screw it" and went back to just being myself with my clients things with the BF became weird. It ended after a little over a month and I was soooo relieved.

In short, kissing is very intimate and to be "real" requires both partners to at least kinda like each other. Don't believe me? Forced orgasms are a genre of porn. Forced makeout sessions are not because no one would find it believable.

PlainVanillaATX · 07-31-2015, 04:26 PM

I can get lost in a happy zone of passion for what seems like hours from just kissing. However, DFk (aka tonsil hockey) can be a little awkward if you have not been with the other person a time or two to gauge their like or dislikes....and DFK is one of those areas that there needs to be a connection first for it to really be pleasurable for both parties. I like it in the heat of passion......but for the most part LFK and softly kissing and nibbling on my partner's lips is pure bliss.

And how about just showering your lovers body with sweet tender kisses and teasing licks.....its a complete turn on to see your lover's body respond......from little whimpers to her body moving to allow you greater access to outright threatening your life if you stop..... totally amazing.

Also heed the words well: fresh breath is not an option. Sorry, no excuse for either client or provider to have bad breath. Breath mints are cheap as can be and they sell them at every convenience store in the world. Be five minutes late if you have to so that you can pick some up and have a few....... then have one more to be sure.

-Nilla (Completely Whipped)

Toyz · 07-31-2015, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

I have no problem with a lady DFK me after I CIM, been there done that, it's part of the sex thing

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Iron Butterfly · 07-31-2015, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Toyz

She's hot, thanks

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PlainVanillaATX · 07-31-2015, 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Iron Butterfly

I have no problem with a lady DFK me after I CIM, been there done that, it's part of the sex thing

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I concur. If she's willing to allow it then be gracious enough to give her a real thank you kiss. To be clear, this DOES NOT mean I'm down with snowballing......just saying.

-Nilla (Completely Whipped)

Iron Butterfly · 07-31-2015, 04:57 PM

http://www.eccie.net/attachment.php?...1&d=1438383395

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BiancaBonVivant · 07-31-2015, 05:40 PM

A primer for beginners:

tzv13 · 07-31-2015, 06:15 PM

Where the fuck do I get Listerated Pepsin Gum?

Windinhishair · 07-31-2015, 06:29 PM

Kissing is essential. How else can one fall in love for an hour?

fun2come · 07-31-2015, 07:04 PM

DFK, the difference between 2CUMS and a few more FUN ones

bambam1974 · 07-31-2015, 10:03 PM

I love to kiss. I need to find someone that can go from DFK to Dt and back to DFK. Love it

Claire She Blows · 07-31-2015, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Bobave

Kissing is definitely part of the complete picture. But there's a big difference between erotic kissing and what some guys call DFK. Most of the providers I've seen know that while I love to kiss, including LFK, I seldom engage in what anyone would describe as DFK. If I enjoy the chemistry, I keep going back and when comfort levels are established, providers naturally become more open in what they will say. A number have shared their distaste for guys who slobber all over their whole face or any guy who shoved his tongue so far in their mouths that they literally gagged. The looks on their faces as they recounted those experiences made it clear that they didn't find it pleasurable/enjoyable. Some people don't have a clue about kissing.

+1 I'm not a fan of DFK. But I think everyone has a different definition of what it is, and unfortunately, most want to shove their tongues down my throat - that's not sexy or fun. Don't rape my mouth with your tongue, dude. We need a happy medium - like MFK? Or kissing lessons. Yes, that's what I need to offer: Kissing 101. One of my younger clients asked me what the difference is between LFK and DFK (he's very good at LFK), and so I showed him DFK and he's still in therapy.

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Originally Posted by illuminati

Sure, take another man's dick in your mouth and up your vag, maybe the ass too but God forbid you kiss him.

I completely agree!

tzv13 · 07-31-2015, 10:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

+1 I'm not a fan of DFK. But I think everyone has a different definition of what it is, and unfortunately, most want to shove their tongues down my throat - that's not sexy or fun. Don't rape my mouth with your tongue, dude. We need a happy medium - like MFK? Or kissing lessons. Yes, that's what I need to offer: Kissing 101. One of my younger clients asked me what the difference is between LFK and DFK (he's very good at LFK), and so I showed him DFK and he's still in therapy.

I completely agree!

I totally agree with this. I love kissing. Love it. I hate it when a woman tries to tongue fuck my tonsils. MFK sounds right.