Why the private tags?

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Cleo

If I may, I personally agree with the OP. If someone wishes to post using private tags, who are any of us to say that they must/should make the comments public? They've clearly expressed their desire to make their comments visible to only a select group of people. They do have that right to make that choice don't they? "Calling them out" on it does wreak of snitching IMO. Oh, & there is a reason why they call it being a "snitch." Because the other "itch" had already called dibs on the "B." JS

Cleo if you wish to agree with the OP its your choice....Let me repeat

WE aint in prison....and This has absolutely nothing to do with snitching at all...as Helicopter/Donkey want you to believe....its bullshit.
They are trying to redirect things into something its not...

Why in the WIDE WIDE WORLD of SPORTS do we need to put in private tags....example "She's Hot" or "Wow Great Ass" or "Her rates aren't what she charged me"
blah blah blah....its fear that the person you are talking about will change their view of you....its an open forum and people need to grow a set of balls and say what you gotta say.....if you think it will offend or worried about how you are viewed then dont post it or dont have the balls to deal with the backlash then dont post it.

We have alot of newbies on this board that know anyone and really dont know anything about the hobby...they got here by a dating site, or SB site or BP and they are just flying by the seats of their pants....and have no one to give them any guidance and hell when you try to give them some they reject it....its fucking anarchy!

Now as same with you this is of course my opinion and you are certainly welcome to yours...just know there are 2 sides to this...and I can tell ya Donkey and Copter have very little credibility...bank on that.

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Mizzou82

If they were paying me to fuck them, they could post whatever they wanted, private tags or not

Good point
They are rewarding you for the cash you give them "with their vagina's" which last I checked they own..... otherwise you wouldn't be here

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by JS42

it's in the Men's Lounge, which is stupid.

Agreed

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by MisterLebowski

If it were inappropriate to use them in a, as you put it, PUBLIC FUCKING FORUM, then why is it available to use in said public forum.

"inappropriate" vs "available"

If you were to go into a 5 star restaurant, consume a meal and then Belch so loudly that all of the other patrons could hear you, I would consider that to be "inappropriate". However, I would assume that belching in a restaurant is "available". You want to use private tags in an "OPEN FUCKING FORUM", be my guest. IMO you are telling the other members that you are a weasel that is afraid to own your true thoughts and opinions....

But hey....whatever trips your trigger Stud....
Personally, I think secrets between boys are better traded via PM...that way the girls don't know and we can't catch their "cooties"......

[Starry69]

I'll make my perspective short.

Big Deal is an arrogant bitch who needs to feel important and wants everybody to answer to his dumb ass "observations."

Malwoody is a troll who adds little value to this forum. He can be amusing at times but in a thread like this he's just looking for reactions.

People...don't feed the trolls.

Other people may be dumbasses and annoying in their own way but input from people who would be "important" adding their stupid pet peeves to the threads should be squelched by the mods. Unless it's in the powder room.

Mods...in the future please try to squelch this stuff when they hijack threads.

My 2 cents.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Starry69

I'll make my perspective short.

Big Deal is an arrogant bitch who needs to feel important and wants everybody to answer to his dumb ass "observations."

Malwoody is a troll who adds little value to this forum. He can be amusing at times but in a thread like this he's just looking for reactions.

People...don't feed the trolls.

Other people may be dumbasses and annoying in their own way but input from people who would be "important" adding their stupid pet peeves to the threads should be squelched by the mods. Unless it's in the powder room.

Mods...in the future please try to squelch this stuff when they hijack threads.

My 2 cents.

Show me the "hijack". Did I miss something or has this thread stayed on the topic the op initially posted. So tell me, what needs to be squelched there Dude? Divergent opinions are not allowed? "stupid pet peeves"?...seems to me that you just put forth several of your own. Of course I'm sure now that you have put the mods on notice they will "squelch" anyone with a pet peeve that you deem to be unworthy..

I do have to admit though that you are half correct about Big Deal...
He is a "bitch"...albeit not an arrogant one..

[malwoody]

Speaking of the op...I wonder what happened to him??

Perhaps he's hiding on a KCMO school bus...

[BigDeal]

Malwoody dont worry about Starry he is upset he loss of premium access and his valued poster status.
It bothers him he cant read private tags now and is worried about his contribution to the board.
He just wanted to beat his chest like an internet tough guy...which he aint.

Starry you keep your chin up lil buddy...things will turn around for ya.

Now back to my self-aggrandizing ways......smh!

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by BigDeal

Malwoody dont worry about Starry he is upset he loss of premium access and his valued poster status.
It bothers him he cant read private tags now and is worried about his contribution to the board.
He just wanted to beat his chest like an internet tough guy...which he aint.

Starry you keep your chin up lil buddy...things will turn around for ya.

Now back to my self-aggrandizing ways......smh!

STFU....."Bitch"....

[Guest090920]

Originally Posted by Starry69

I'll make my perspective short.

Big Deal is an arrogant bitch who needs to feel important and wants everybody to answer to his dumb ass "observations."

Malwoody is a troll who adds little value to this forum. He can be amusing at times but in a thread like this he's just looking for reactions.

People...don't feed the trolls.

Other people may be dumbasses and annoying in their own way but input from people who would be "important" adding their stupid pet peeves to the threads should be squelched by the mods. Unless it's in the powder room.

Mods...in the future please try to squelch this stuff when they hijack threads.

My 2 cents.

Thank you for your short, 2 cent perspective, but from where I sit, the thread hijack label goes to you with the post above.

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Happy Independence Day!

Back to the discussions about private tags vs. no private tags...

[zeejoe]

Ahhh....ECCIE.... where the bitches are usually actually the guys.

Time to step back and assess how much emotional capital y'all have wrapped up in this thing...

[i'va biggen]

I really thought someone would post (private) in this thread....LOL

[Starry69]

Originally Posted by scorpio31

Thank you for your short, 2 cent perspective, but from where I sit, the thread hijack label goes to you with the post above.

As a gentle reminder I recommend that you read the Forum Guidelines (see link in signature line below) and pay special attention to guidelines #3 & #4.

Please stop by more often and participate in the goings on around here.
Happy Independence Day!

Back to the discussions about private tags vs. no private tags...

Thank you for the gentle reminder. Note to myself: Don't post after 3 martinis.

What I meant to say is:

If somebody chooses to use the private function in any thread it shouldn't be a problem. Even in the Men's Lounge, where it serves no purpose.

I will disagree with the assertion that it is either white knighting or snitching. I believe it's just one individual who doesn't like another individual and vents a little bit, in an inappropriate manner. It can happen to the best of us.

Or it's just something that gets on somebody's nerves and they vent about it. Of course it could also be an indication that somebody with a big ego thinks he has the right to police the forum in any manner he sees fit. There are lots of possibilities, I suppose.

I would suggest that posting in a review about the usefulness or appropriateness of someone using private tags IS indeed hijacking a potentially valuable thread. When the dialog changes from the review to why somebody is using private tags it is, by definition, a hijack.

If the person who has a problem with how a different member uses private tags it would be more appropriate to post in the coed section about his or her issues so it can be discussed in a civil manner, even though the chances of a resolution that is mutually agreeable to all parties may seem unlikely. As fellow member ElumEno has done with this thread.

Respectfully submitted, Starry69.

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by Starry69

martinis.



somebody with a big ego thinks he has the right to police the forum in any manner he sees fit.

Martini's? Really?.....Do you raise your pinkie while sipping


First off you dont know me...quit acting like you do. It has nothing to do with policing... been at that for 10 years in an actual patrol car..not that much fun and BTW I think our mods are doing a great job doing it for us.
I have merely pointed out and agree with MW that there is an overuse of private tags and I stand by that (get over it)...nothing personal on my end but now you have made it personal...so your on the list.
Now back to my beer and peanuts!

[BigDeal]

Originally Posted by malwoody

STFU....."Bitch"....

Thanks I needed that MW