Honest Question

[Scarlet O'Shea]

For me it's all about the connotation of a term. Personally I prefer hooker, escort, companion or even whore, but I am not typical in my desires or attitudes. Prostitute is a mouthful for one, is way overused on cop shows for two, and it at least for me, is more indicative of a street walker than a moderately priced, moderately classy escort such as myself.

But you can call me whatever you like for the right price. Ha.

[guest030715-233]

What I have come to find is that a lot of people are just envious of us. It makes some men sick to death that they cant be paid to do the thing that they are so driven and wired to do. But what some of those men forget is that we are wired differently, so it's not exactly the same. I'll gladly take the social stigma over having some shit job that I hate. Then pay other people to raise my children I never get to see, so I can go to work at that shit job to be tired and disgruntled and have no time for my children. Oh, plus I'd probably have to be on some government program for food.

People say we are not contributing members of society, but fuck that noise. We put our money back into our communities, our local economy, less likely to sponge off the government etc etc.

And again if you are a smart hooker you will pay taxes.

Okay. Done. Now. Yay prostitutes!!!

[Windinhishair]

Originally Posted by Miss Scarlet

you can call me whatever you like for the right price. Ha.

Yep now that's smart business.

[Windinhishair]

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

People say we are not contributing members of society, but fuck that noise.

True it didn't get to be the world's oldest profession by not contributing something greatly needed.

[NikkiWhite]

Lol geeze sorry ladies but ur hookers.

We don't all get pissed. I may be a Hooker but im also many other things like a mom , great friend, etc etc.

Buut what I personally find more hilarious is that alot of guys will call us hookers but flip out like cry babies if someone calls them a trick.

One of my favorite clients ever proudly called himself a trick our first meeting. never met another client who felt the same lol.

[Toyz]

Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

Lol geeze sorry ladies but ur hookers.

We don't all get pissed. I may be a Hooker but im also many other things like a mom , great friend, etc etc.

Buut what I personally find more hilarious is that alot of guys will call us hookers but flip out like cry babies if someone calls them a trick.

One of my favorite clients ever proudly called himself a trick our first meeting. never met another client who felt the same lol.

Its the new years Nikki. Titties please...help us ring in the new year.

[FoulRon]

Originally Posted by Toyz

A "Hoogar" is special. She is someone guys want to see and develop somewhat of a relationship with.

A "Hooker" is mostly in it for the money...like Claire says...shes wants to be a Hooker.

Looks like 2015 is going to be a lot like 2014 here!

Well, since it ain't even 2015, yet, I prefer to think of this thread, and the others posted recently in the same vein, as just the last dying breaths of 2014.

We can only wait and see the morrow brings.....

[Still Looking]

Yeah they are at first called "wife".

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Originally Posted by fbsm07

With all due respect, I think what you said is bullshit. Do you think that your customers want a "sensual escape amid the stress of daily life" I think they just want to jerk off, pay less, and not have a full intercourse.

I don't understand why people think their life experiences are exactly the same to others life experiences. To you you it might be a good jerk-off...... what ever. It may even be to most. Personally, my experience has mostly been the "friends for a few minutes" (even friends for years! imagine that!) with my clients.

I have had clients from years ago contact me just to mention how much I helped with their low self-esteem, erectile dysfunction, or overall confidence in interacting with a woman. It is so gratifying. We do help people.

Originally Posted by chelseabean

it's a fairly common occurrence in language. When a term gets ridden with negative connotations, people tend to re-brand, if you will. Changing the name doesn't have anything to do with changing any essential function. I don't think any woman on here has an issue with the fact that they have sex for money. Re-naming tends to work more obliquely. I believe the process of re-naming occurs to counter the surrounding connotations, when they are negative and not necessarily even connected to the definition/function of said term.

I personally don't care. It's not the word that really matters to me; it's how its used. Words are arbitrary, but intent is not.

I personally don't care what you call me either. Chelsea has a good understanding of linguistics. Like most thinks linguistics evolves.

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

It has such a negative ring to it. And it shouldn't be that way. It's 2015 almost. Everyone still hates whores and that is what is upsetting to me. They think we are all drug addicted, alcoholic dysfunctional victims or don't contribute to society.

In all honesty, it's kind of empowering. You work part-time hours for anywhere from 40k to 100k. You get to spend more time with your kids as you are not off working 5 jobs and never around to raise them. If you are smart and yes some prostitutes are smart. It allows a pathway to the American dream.

Then there are those who hate us for that too! Being a hooker is so hard!! Sigh.

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

What I have come to find is that a lot of people are just envious of us. It makes some men sick to death that they cant be paid to do the thing that they are so driven and wired to do. But what some of those men forget is that we are wired differently, so it's not exactly the same. I'll gladly take the social stigma over having some shit job that I hate. Then pay other people to raise my children I never get to see, so I can go to work at that shit job to be tired and disgruntled and have no time for my children. Oh, plus I'd probably have to be on some government program for food.

People say we are not contributing members of society, but fuck that noise. We put our money back into our communities, our local economy, less likely to sponge off the government etc etc.

And again if you are a smart hooker you will pay taxes.

Okay. Done. Now. Yay prostitutes!!!

Jane, again, I love the way you think. I am so glad you post in co-ed.

[Jaxhardcore]

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

Everyone still hates whores and that is what is upsetting to me. They think we are all drug addicted, alcoholic dysfunctional victims or don't contribute to society.

You've posted some good points but you might consider being careful with the broad strokes.

I don't hate whores, I love them! I'm not looking for a sensual release amongst my stress filled day because I'm not stressed and I like to bang strange tail in scandalous encounters. I love sluts and prostitutes and the term fbsm makes me yawn.

Although a lot of whores and sluts are broken or dysfunctional, I don't think they are all that way. Just a lot of them.

I'm definitely a man whore, trick and a mark and I own that shit. It's fun to me as it is to some of the nymphos on here.

In my eyes anyone who accepts money for sexual services is all of the above mentioned titles. It's funny to see ladies get bent over that. Respect to PB for being honest that she doesn't like it because it might be true. The truth cuts the deepest. The ladies who freak out are the ones who a) have a highly critical society driven opinion of those terms and b) have deluded themselves into believing what they do is special or different. I think it's hot when a woman can own that shit and be a good slut.

[Jaxhardcore]

Originally Posted by Toyz

Its the new years Nikki. Titties please...help us ring in the new year.

You're a god among men.

Nikki please, we have less then 6 hours left to get some new pictures of your amazing tits in 2014.

Time is running out and we are all ready!!!

[Jaxhardcore]

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

And again if you are a smart hooker you will pay taxes.

Again sorry but I have to digress. I don't agree paying taxes is necessarily indicative of a smart hooker. Conversely I'm of the camp that individual citizens should pay as little to the government as possible since many multi national corporations own our elected representatives and pillage our nations resources on the regular. But fuck the political noise it's New Year's Eve!!!

[guest030715-233]

Jax, I agree about the broad strokes. I was just trying to drive the point home. And it is funny to see any guy that participate s in p4p, turn around and slam a prostitute.


In a perfect world, I don't think anyone should have to give Uncle Sam anything, but if you want to have things later in life, it's probably smart to pay some taxes.

I get bent out of shape, because good mother's lose their children over being a sex worker when they are otherwise good people/parents. Think Salem Witch trials. I know some of you other ladies feel me. I know it is our choice, BUT it pisses me off that other people beat their kids, do drugs, do horrible things and have "normal" jobs and they go on unaffected. Ehhh. Anyway. It'd be nice to be able to come out of the closet and say yeah, I'm a mom and a sex worker and get the same respect the lady that works at the receptionist job does that goes home and sleeps with dudes for free and drinks every night.

I'm making another broad stroke here. But shit like that really irks me. And as far as providers being broken. I'd agree. A lot of us are broken, so are many of you guys who patronize us. Hell, so are most people, just in different ways.
Some people function better and they are still sociopaths and whatnot. Doesn't mean they are any less fucked up on the inside.

Okay. Time for happy thoughts!!!

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[Utanks]

Originally Posted by Jane Doe

It has such a negative ring to it. And it shouldn't be that way. It's 2015 almost. Everyone still hates whores and that is what is upsetting to me. They think we are all drug addicted, alcoholic dysfunctional victims or don't contribute to society.

I don't agree that's the stigma or the stereotype. The negative stigma and ehat is appaling to society is you are part of an industry that condones adultery, objectification, sex trafficking, human trafficking and tax evasion. Whether or not you do one or none of these is irrelevant. Your mere ppresence oils that machine.

In all honesty, it's kind of empowering. You work part-time hours for anywhere from 40k to 100k. You get to spend more time with your kids as you are not off working 5 jobs and never around to raise them. If you are smart and yes some prostitutes are smart. It allows a pathway to the American dream.

Then there are those who hate us for that too! Being a hooker is so hard!! Sigh.

I don't know anyone that is making 50-100k by working 5 jobs? Poor people work 5 jobs. I dont think the middle class is hateful or envious that you can earn that range being a provider nor would trade their white collar jobs that pay 60-100k for that profession.

[Chandler Chase]

I prefer pet names such as "slutcake, tart, or harlet." I have never really been directly referred to as a prostitute before, but why should that be offensive? Call a spade a spade. I have most certainly been called worse things by so's than "prostitute." If nothing else, that label sounds so sterile to me. Companion, girlfriend, lover, courtesan, or even call girl have a much sexier ring to it.