The race card... no Blacks allowed.

[Jayhawker]

Originally Posted by MissGeisha

I do NOT discriminate!! In my world the only color I see is money green!!

I've had African American men pay more with no drama and no questions asked which in that case was 200 HH ! Ijs

I will only assume it's based on the presentation of the woman and the class of men she attracts #shrugs

It's good to have provided give their thoughts thank you.

[ScubaBad]

Originally Posted by MissGeisha

I've had African American men pay more with no drama and no questions asked which in that case was 200 HH ! Ijs

Are you saying that you charge AA men more than white men?

[Jayhawker]

Originally Posted by mirandalee

If any you gentlemen are AA or Mexican you can come to me baby I love all flavors..

I think they'd be more than happy to visit with you.

[Jayhawker]

http://nolacourtesan.com/my-thoughts...s-new-orleans/

[DallasRain]

Personally I like all colors in the crayon box......as long as you are respectful/fun and a gentleman...game on baby!!

[Jayhawker]

I think that's what makes you valued.

[bluegrana]

I don't see why race matters if a provider uses references as her main screening tool.

But at the end it's still her decision and it should be respected. Just move on to the next provider.
If I saw a store with a sign "no (insert minority) allowed" I wouldn't get upset I would simply take my business elsewhere and help a business owner who is not a bigot. Same deal here

[Tiffani Jameson]

Here's the general list of possible reasons, darling.

1. She's a racist.
2. Her pimp says the only black dick she can have is his.
3. She only secretly sees Black men for fear of racist clients.
4. Possibly a negative memory/emotion tied to black men.
5. It's a preference, still due to racial/cultural stigmas.

Take your pick. There's really no need to press the issue further. It always ends badly, and being told to accept it. Which you should. I will tell you that women of real class rarely have an NBA policy. You may have to reassess the type of companions you seek.

What they're looking for is a respectable client. None of us, including most black companions, are wanting a thug, white or black. And all races have their thugs. In the UK, I was told to avoid certain nationalities due to human trafficking operations. Apparently my beautiful Black ass is a delicacy in some parts of the world. And they were not of African descent.

I wouldn't take it personally. And I'm sure you don't. You just figured you'd get an honest answer from ladies who have this policy, but you will not. Just continue to seek objectivity wherever that may be, and you'll find that this is a non-issue otherwise.

All the best!

[Jayhawker]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Here's the general list of possible reasons, darling.

1. She's a racist.
2. Her pimp says the only black dick she can have is his.
3. She only secretly sees Black men for fear of racist clients.
4. Possibly a negative memory/emotion tied to black men.
5. It's a preference, still due to racial/cultural stigmas.

Take your pick. There's really no need to press the issue further. It always ends badly, and being told to accept it. Which you should. I will tell you that women of real class rarely have an NBA policy. You may have to reassess the type of companions you seek.

What they're looking for is a respectable client. None of us, including most black companions, are wanting a thug, white or black. And all races have their thugs. In the UK, I was told to avoid certain nationalities due to human trafficking operations. Apparently my beautiful Black ass is a delicacy in some parts of the world. And they were not of African descent.

I wouldn't take it personally. And I'm sure you don't. You just figured you'd get an honest answer from ladies who have this policy, but you will not. Just continue to seek objectivity wherever that may be, and you'll find that this is a non-issue otherwise.

All the best!

WoW! Where did you obtain your Masters degree. That was one intelligent answer. Please do not take that as sarcasm I mean that literally. It was honest and a pleasure to read as I imagine you are a pleasure to be around and have insightful conversion with.

If guys want to have an enjoyable all around experience I think you are one to meet.

[Kshunter]

Is this where we pretend that black men are not statistically more prone to causing violent crime than men of other races? Just curious.

[TemptationTammie]

Originally Posted by mirandalee

This happens a lot in Texas many providers do not see AA guys some women say it's because they just feel uncomfortable around them, and had bad experiences in the past. I don't mind seeing an AA but I'm very selective with them no young guys lol..

Unfortunately it happens all over.

Originally Posted by DallasRain

Personally I like all colors in the crayon box......as long as you are respectful/fun and a gentleman...game on baby!!

Respect goes a LONG way.

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Here's the general list of possible reasons, darling.

1. She's a racist.
2. Her pimp says the only black dick she can have is his.
3. She only secretly sees Black men for fear of racist clients.
4. Possibly a negative memory/emotion tied to black men.
5. It's a preference, still due to racial/cultural stigmas.

Take your pick. There's really no need to press the issue further. It always ends badly, and being told to accept it. Which you should. I will tell you that women of real class rarely have an NBA policy. You may have to reassess the type of companions you seek.

What they're looking for is a respectable client. None of us, including most black companions, are wanting a thug, white or black. And all races have their thugs. In the UK, I was told to avoid certain nationalities due to human trafficking operations. Apparently my beautiful Black ass is a delicacy in some parts of the world. And they were not of African descent.

I wouldn't take it personally. And I'm sure you don't. You just figured you'd get an honest answer from ladies who have this policy, but you will not. Just continue to seek objectivity wherever that may be, and you'll find that this is a non-issue otherwise.

All the best!

I've actually chatted with one guy on here that refers to being with AA men as 'bestiality'. So after being told that, I can see why some would only secretly see them. However, I will not discriminate just to please someone else. If someone chooses not to see me because I've been with a black man, that's his choice and loss.
I've spoken with quite a few providers and there are so many reasons why they won't see AA men. I'm not sure why it seems that is the race that is mostly discriminated against. I've only run into one race that I would prefer to totally avoid and it is in that culture to look down on females.
Another one to add to that list above is that some ladies are just not attracted and don't want to give inferior service.
On a positive note, I would be happy to see some AA men or ANY RACE of men on my upcoming visit next week.

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

I will tell you that women of real class rarely have an NBA policy. You may have to reassess the type of companions you seek.

What they're looking for is a respectable client. None of us, including most black companions, are wanting a thug, white or black. And all races have their thugs.

So, women who don't see black guys have no class now? I just adore the classifications that some of y'all put ladies in.

You wonder why no ladies dare speak up and offer their insights? Could it be because y'all call them racists, no class having ladies?

Does that mean men who don't see black providers have no class too? Are they racists?

[JS42]

I echo Elenas' thoughts. So just because a woman chooses not to open her services to a particular group of people makes her a racist or low class? Get a freaking grip. This business is not your local mom and pop shop, or any other business in civie life. It's a pretty personal transaction and every provider has every right to choose who they will see for whatever reason. Us guys have our own list of criteria on what is deal breakers for whatever reason, it's no different for a woman.

[Dr. Vanity]

Originally Posted by ScubaBad

Are you saying that you charge AA men more than white men?

Absolutely not babe! That would be totally unethical for me, not to mention, there's no need. Please dont *attempt ** to twist up my words babe.

[TemptationTammie]

Originally Posted by JS42

I echo Elenas' thoughts. So just because a woman chooses not to open her services to a particular group of people makes her a racist or low class? Get a freaking grip. This business is not your local mom and pop shop, or any other business in civie life. It's a pretty personal transaction and every provider has every right to choose who they will see for whatever reason. Us guys have our own list of criteria on what is deal breakers for whatever reason, it's no different for a woman.

Very true. Where the ladies can post whether they have an NBA policy, the guys just don't call those that don't fit their criteria. So they may only see a certain race, age, or body type. Sometimes you gents will search out only those that fit your type.
This is more personal as well, so we have to be able to at very least give the illusion and if not interested in a certain race - for whatever reason - it's best to not see them if you can't.
I personally enjoy men of all races and it's obvious once BCD.