Kind of funny, I posted a similar thread to this either here, or on ASPD. There was a crazy hot brunette a number of years ago, who seemed to only offer a DATY session. She was a travelling provider, only in Houston for a couple of days, and I never saw a review on her. The responses were similar to what you are getting.
I am a huge fan of DATY. I don't even want to fuck if DATY isn't allowed. BTW, I just got my first "NO" to DATY, along with numerous other "NO'S" on my last review a few weeks ago.
I had a smoking hot woman that I dated for a few years. She was an absolute animal in the bedroom, but wasn't a huge fan of DATY. Sensitivity issues. This was terribly disappointing. She would let me go down, since she was sensitive to my performing needs, but knowing it really wasn't bringing her pleasure or orgasms, it simply lost it's appeal to me.
All of the above being said, I do indeed want the whole buffet. But, if the provider was off the charts hot, I would pay just to eat her pussy. Well, I would pay just to eat her pussy if at least a HJ was offered before I left.