Texting on the way to an appt.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by shayla84

I am not saying I wont talk on the phone, I said its easier, I dont have to hold phone up to ear and texts faster to me. If I have already given my addy then there should be no reason to call me. Some guys like to talk until they get to your incall and well I dont like talking on phones, I text EVERYONE, my mother, brothers, friends and well EVERYONE.

And not to mention its a preference, just like some guys rather text or pm and not call.
Some of you guys seem to think your the only ones that are allowed to have preferences and thats not the case.

As I have said OVER and OVER again, if your driving to me you will already have my addy , all I ask is when you get there you text for room number or what have you. There are reasons that I do that for my safety.

Provider: Do you have the condoms?

[shayla84]

Yes of course lol all should!!! Are there providers that dont provide that ?

[SofaKingFun]

What is a speakerphone for $300, please Alex.


Fair enough, shayla. That's your preference and that's your right.

Thank you for the feedback. I appreciate it and respect your decision on the matter.
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The more I thinck about it, the more I thinck that I'm going to take SL's suggestion and add it to my list...

If a gal refuses to accept my call when I'm en route for a meeting with her, and I really need to talk to her, then fuck it, I'm canceling.*

I damned sure don't need the additional stress in my happy little world.

(*unless she's super hot, has big ol'boobs, or is really freaky BCD, then, perhaps not..heh!)
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[Guest092815]

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Thanck you Shala84, you pretty much prove my point. So you were texting a guy while he was on his way over to meet you and wadded up his rig in an accidentally?
Point:text messaging while driving is dangerous and stupid.


What, did he not have your address?

And just out of curiosity, how exactly is text messaging any safer for you as a provider than conversing on the phone in an actual conversation?

Please. I am genuinely interested in hearing the reasoning behind this logic.

I never ever have said that anyone should drive and text at the same time. What is wrong with texting when you are parked, before you leave, or in a parking lot, or at a red light?

It is not bad TCB to prefer one style of communication over another. When I set an appointment, I always give specific location info before the other party sets out to meet. There is no mystery.

This thread was not about me, btw. I just think it is ridiculous to insist that someone answer the phone, when they may be busy or prefer to text.

Personally, It is much safer for me to use text. It doesn't make any noise (cannot bee overheard by a child, bystander in public, or a maid who may be outside in a hallway, or someone in a nearby room).

But, to each his own....

ps..I do answer if I already know you, and think you may have a question. But, generally, I just don't like to talk on phone. That's part of the beauty of a session--face to face communication.

[Guest121917-1]

A quick text saying on my way be there in x minutes. Now once you arrive by all means call me. I have his that will want to chat it up tje whole drive.... leaves me no time to get ready.

[jimmers]

I personally prefer a text when trying to set up a meeting, though I would prefer a text to see if I am available to talk. I prefer a quick, nice conversation over a written record of what I said being kept on someones else phone. That is far too easy for me to think I can get in big trouble that way.

I also detest texting and driving. If I am contacting you on the way to see you, it is because I need to ask you a question, probably I'm lost or confused on the directions...Please pick up the phone and talk for me for 2 minutes!

[LuvThatKitty]

Originally Posted by luvsblonds

See some people don't fucking get it, but sofa king gets it!!!!

+1 Yep!

I guess it's the nature of the written word. People only read a small piece of whats written or base their reply on some ones else's reply. You can make the simple statement, "This flower is pink" and if the thread goes on long enough, someone will asked why you dissed her mother! LOL

[cinnamonshark]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

This texting BULL SHIT certainly isn't safe and for the most part is because a provider is to fucking stupid and cheap to get a hobby phone. They hide behind google voice and it has delays and at times DOES NOT WORK.

what happened to screening? Didn't you screen the hobbyist? Lets use SKF as a handy example... he has been around since 2009 and has 27 reviews and I'm guessing might even have P411. Why in the wide world of sports do you need to HIDE your number from this guy? I mean your about to have your ass taped by the guy but your not sure if he can be trusted? Let's NOT forget that you can BLOCK your number. Seems pretty easy doesn't it? Personally I think "ALL" hobbyists should boycott "ALL" providers that won't talk on the phone even just for a minute to avoid complications. That's my rule and YES hobbyist can have rules too.

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Please be honest.... why would a person want to exchange 30-50 text messages to get a session scheduled over a period of an hour to a day when it can be done in a 1-2 minute call? Not withstanding... if I'm going to be flirting with my best material I sure as shit don't want bubba to get all hot and bothered!

SL Session Scheduling 101

SL: WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: Ramada Inn at the Vagina Triangle who does 11:00 am sound!

But no.........

SL: WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: Hi

SL: WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: do you want in call or out call?

SL: INCALL! WHERE & WHEN I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: How long do you want to schedule 1/2 or hour?

SL: I only schedule ONE HOUR sessions. I'm showered and ready to go!

Provider: How about 11:00?

SL: Sounds great! Where?

Provider: 290 & 35

SL: What hotel?

Provider: Text me when you get close. And pick me up an energy drink, condoms two packs of smokes.

Provider: Are you still coming?

Provider: Are you close?

Provider: I'm still getting ready give me 10 minutes.

Provider: Are you still there?

Provider: I'm running late, I had to go get something to eat... give me 10 minutes.

Provider: Did you get the condoms?

Provider: Are you still there?

SL: Yeah I just woke up... I'm still in the parking lot!

Provider: Ok give me 5 minutes and I'll text you the room number.

SL: OK?

Provider: Are you still there?

SL: Yes!

Provider: Did you get my smokes and energy drink?

SL: Yes!

Provider: they are cleaning my room give me 10 minutes.

Provider: Are you still there?

SL: YES!

Provider: You sure you have the condoms?

SL: Yes!

Provider: Room 321

SL: OK...

Provider: Where are you?

SL: I went to buy condoms!

Provider: Ok... text me when you get back.

And there you have it, folks. Directly from the legendary ManWhore himself. I do agree with him & Loxly. I hate texting and driving. That is why I text when I'm on my way, and don't text again until I am sitting in her parking lot, or if I come to a stoplight. I refuse to have a wreck over a hot piece of a$$.

SL, I'm surprised you didn't post a texting script between you and that "squeezer."

[Guest021716-4]

Here's an idea- tell each other how you prefer to communicate and try to compromise! I just go with however the gentleman wants to communicate, once screened. You have to be somewhat flexible. Afterall, he is the client! I do like to hear the sound of a gentleman's voice before coming up to meet me. That's just my own little safety measure. Anyway, communication is a lost art. Communication in the hobby.... shit! People could do a whole stand up routine on just that alone!

[JennsLolli]

Yeah...after yelling "NO ROOM TWO ZERO NINE...TWO ZERO NINE" twice in one day to more seasoned gents with hearing loss, then later listening my neighbors have a quiet conversation through the wall, I stopped being OK with calling. If I'm staying at hotels, I don't talk on the phone. (And I'm not staying at Studio 6 or some crap-hole). Doors opening and closing and sex noises are noticeable-ish, but phone ringing followed by a 20 second conversation, followed by door opening...sex...then two hours later, phone ringing...20 second conversation...door opening....sex. It makes me paranoid that I'm being obvious, and paranoid and jumpy are bad things to be when you're trying to get into sexy provider mode.