Why are overnight rates so expensive?!

[ICU 812]

Gimme That:

I was just doing the math. Myself, Iprefer to book a two hour session with a reviewed provider. This gives us plenty of time for a Good GE session and skips the other stuff not related to getting me off.

I am not aware of a provider that I would want to see who charges only $100/hr. I amopen to suggestions.

[Cpalmson]

There is one thing missing from this equation. How well do you know the provider? If you are calling a girl out of the blue to spend the night with you, it could be a fantastic time or it could be pure hell (for one or both) parties. If I'm going to spend 8-12 hours with someone, I want there to be some type of chemistry. Due to this, I've actually turned down a couple of overnight opportunities. That is why you should overnight with a girl you have seen before and have some type of connection with. Also, if you are overnighting with an ATF, she is probably more likely to offer a reduced fee. I've overnight-ed for as little as $200. Another thing, I do think there should be an allowance for sleeping/non-play time built into the fee structure-- especially if the guy is providing the location and/or food/entertainment (besides the obvious). I don't think you can simply multiply the hourly rate by the number of hours. Also, I don't think you can really put a "clock" time on an overnight. To me the perfect overnight would be from 8 pm to 10 am.

[donuts]

i agree with you palmson. maybe it's just better for me to book an hour, and if that goes well, see if she's open to an overnight and how much. if she ends up not being my type, i can just end it right there and save myself some time and money. i totally agree that non-play time, sleeping time, food, entertainment, etc... should be taken into account when considering compensation. i'm assuming that the high prices are due to providers assuming that the majority of the evening will be spent engaging in physically demanding activities. however, if the session is mostly non-play, and the provider is compensated in other ways, such as food, entertainment, a tasteful location, and a generous amount of sleep time, i don't see why prices can't be negotiated. i'm sure not all overnights are as demanding and stressful as some here make them out to be. maybe it's better to do this with a provider you're already familiar with and who's already familiar with you? keeping these factors in mind, what would you say would be reasonable compensation for a casual relaxing evening off the clock with a decent provider?

[jwood]

I'd rather do an over day

[joesmo888]

Originally Posted by pickupkid

Some men like the idea of waking up next to someone....gad I would never pay for that..I got that for free.Each to his own.For me I can three women for price of one night.

I agree
that's what SO's are for.

[joesmo888]

Originally Posted by Cpalmson

There is one thing missing from this equation. How well do you know the provider? If you are calling a girl out of the blue to spend the night with you, it could be a fantastic time or it could be pure hell (for one or both) parties. If I'm going to spend 8-12 hours with someone, I want there to be some type of chemistry. Due to this, I've actually turned down a couple of overnight opportunities. That is why you should overnight with a girl you have seen before and have some type of connection with. Also, if you are overnighting with an ATF, she is probably more likely to offer a reduced fee. I've overnight-ed for as little as $200. Another thing, I do think there should be an allowance for sleeping/non-play time built into the fee structure-- especially if the guy is providing the location and/or food/entertainment (besides the obvious). I don't think you can simply multiply the hourly rate by the number of hours. Also, I don't think you can really put a "clock" time on an overnight. To me the perfect overnight would be from 8 pm to 10 am.

this is what I was going to say as well. it is insanity to do this with someone you do not know well. total gamble

[JohnnyCap]

Originally Posted by joesmo888

this is what I was going to say as well. it is insanity to do this with someone you do not know well. total gamble

I always thought that and still do. But my last date I did gamble and scored; we hadn't met but she was a perfect fit for me and the occasion. I did not haggle with her...I asked for a multi-hour, offered a $ amount for a certain amount of time and she accepted. She actually wore me out and left earlier than planned with my blessing.

But I would never be able to do this in advance; I'm too frugal when sober. I had a few beers in me and it was more spontaneous. But I think that is an advantage; if you're trying to book a several hour date a week or two in advance, it is reasonable for her to think she could get a better offer or schedule several dates. But if it's 7pm and no one is calling, that's different.

[pyramider]

Some should just download porn.

[pickupkid]

If you're paying her to have dinner with you.......gad get a girlfriend. I'm paying for the sex..not a dinner companion.

[anita]

There is not much sleeping... Unless you are really tired.

[joesmo888]

Originally Posted by anita

There is not much sleeping... Unless you are really tired.

usually after I blow my load I want to get away from the person... male evolution

[joesmo888]

Originally Posted by pickupkid

If you're paying her to have dinner with you.......gad get a girlfriend. I'm paying for the sex..not a dinner companion.

some dudes are coming off nasty divorces where they don't want any type of committed relationship for a while .. so I can see that perspective too

[Guest042416]

fuck and leave boys

[Guest042416]

Originally Posted by JohnnyCap

I always thought that and still do. But my last date I did gamble and scored; we hadn't met but she was a perfect fit for me and the occasion. I did not haggle with her...I asked for a multi-hour, offered a $ amount for a certain amount of time and she accepted. She actually wore me out and left earlier than planned with my blessing.

But I would never be able to do this in advance; I'm too frugal when sober. I had a few beers in me and it was more spontaneous. But I think that is an advantage; if you're trying to book a several hour date a week or two in advance, it is reasonable for her to think she could get a better offer or schedule several dates. But if it's 7pm and no one is calling, that's different.

hope you didn't drive, don't wanna get in trouble again with the law.

[angusranch]

I think the overnight rate is high, because after the sex the lady has to lisiten to the snoring and farting all night.