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Old 03-31-2014, 11:27 AM   #31
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What do you think about telling the girl before you leave that you did not have a great experience and will be writing a "NO" review? Letting her know the reasons for her "NO".
**Great point . . . I have PMed you my response.
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Old 03-31-2014, 05:56 PM   #32
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What do you think about telling the girl before you leave that you did not have a great experience and will be writing a "NO" review? Letting her know the reasons for her "NO".

I have seen a lot of hobbyists who have given out "No's" for crazy reasons such as, she smelled bad, (letting her know this might help her out if she has more apts) She had dog shit piles in the room (okay this is a given) to the fact that she simply did not smile (and maybe there could be a logical explanation) just didnt click the most common ones.

I feel working things out before hand gives both parties an opportunity to understand and make the situation right.

Before it turns into an all out shit kicking contest on the boards.

I am NOT saying don't write the "no" review but communication is always key!
I do agree that communication is the key.however being told face to face at the end of a session may not always be the best time to tell a lady she's going to get a no review. In case the lady involved is either confrontational or emotional, but then again, she may be what she needs to hear. Maybe PM her before posting the review.
Is it a possibility that maybe she can say or do something to change your mind? Is it something that she needs to change for future clients? Or is it that she was just having a bad day?
Does the lady have all yes reviews or known for being passionate, yet she's mechanical with you? Sometimes there may be a reason behind why. Just because we try not to bring our RW stress or issues into sessions doesn't mean they are not in the back of our minds at times.
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Old 03-31-2014, 06:27 PM   #33
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One shouldn't feel bad about putting a "no" recommendation. Everyone has a "bad" day for a variety of reasons. Whether you sell pussy or sell medical supplies, it's bound to happen.

The hobbyist is the consumer and should put what they feel. Some hobbyists are more forgiving than others. Hobbyist A may have enjoyed the session, but didn't care if the provider seemed rushed, pictures outdated yet wouldn't recommend to others because hobbyist B might care.

Mama sixx did tell me too that if I didn't have anything nice to say, not to say it. Hmmmmmm well I didn't exactly listen to everything Mama sixx said either. If I did, I wouldn't be hobbying lol

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Old 04-01-2014, 08:00 AM   #34
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One shouldn't feel bad about putting a "no" recommendation. Everyone has a "bad" day for a variety of reasons. Whether you sell pussy or sell medical supplies, it's bound to happen.

The hobbyist is the consumer and should put what they feel. Some hobbyists are more forgiving than others. Hobbyist A may have enjoyed the session, but didn't care if the provider seemed rushed, pictures outdated yet wouldn't recommend to others because hobbyist B might care.

Mama sixx did tell me too that if I didn't have anything nice to say, not to say it. Hmmmmmm well I didn't exactly listen to everything Mama sixx said either. If I did, I wouldn't be hobbying lol

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I agree everyone has a bad day but a provider has no right to take someone's hard earned money when she's having a bad day ....cancel an appt

I've never had a bad review but I've also never worked on a bad day either!

I think mostly high volume providers have this issue a lot IMHO
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Old 04-01-2014, 08:04 AM   #35
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Everyone has a "bad" day for a variety of reasons. Whether you sell pussy or sell medical supplies, it's bound to happen.
**I can't believe you outed me like this . . . OK . . . kidding and thanks for the comments . . . and yes, totally agree . . . we don't necessarily do everything our parents told us to do!
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Old 04-01-2014, 09:12 AM   #36
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Well, I was never told that, but have been told by "Mama Shark" that you should, "Treat others the way that you would have them treat you." I believe that you can still write a "No" review, and keep your words positive. It is do-able, just write exactly what happened and leave out the BS.
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Old 04-01-2014, 09:27 AM   #37
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One shouldn't feel bad about putting a "no" recommendation. Everyone has a "bad" day for a variety of reasons. Whether you sell pussy or sell medical supplies, it's bound to happen.

The hobbyist is the consumer and should put what they feel. Some hobbyists are more forgiving than others. Hobbyist A may have enjoyed the session, but didn't care if the provider seemed rushed, pictures outdated yet wouldn't recommend to others because hobbyist B might care.

Mama sixx did tell me too that if I didn't have anything nice to say, not to say it. Hmmmmmm well I didn't exactly listen to everything Mama sixx said either. If I did, I wouldn't be hobbying lol

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Mama Sixx is a wise woman. Gives a damn fine BBBJ too...review to follow.
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Old 04-01-2014, 11:36 AM   #38
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In 14 years I've probably written 5 NO reviews. However; I've probably written 20-25 "Conditional YES" reviews.

The 5 NOs were totally blatant. lying skanks. The Conditional ones were what I'll term "impulse buys" since I generally do a bit of homework and plan a few days out for most dates. The lady performed "as advertised" and may even have gone over the top but I probably wouldn't repeat (for reasons I'll post in the ROS).
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I agree everyone has a bad day but a provider has no right to take someone's hard earned money when she's having a bad day ....cancel an appt

I've never had a bad review but I've also never worked on a bad day either!

I think mostly high volume providers have this issue a lot IMHO
It's not necessarily HV providers.
Sometimes appts are set days in advance or the evening before for an early morning. If I wake up in a kind of funk, bad mood or didn't sleep well, I can't cancel that appt.
But I still try not to let my personal issues interfere with work/hobby.
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Well, I was never told that, but have been told by "Mama Shark" that you should, "Treat others the way that you would have them treat you." I believe that you can still write a "No" review, and keep your words positive. It is do-able, just write exactly what happened and leave out the BS.
I completely agree with you shark. I'm one that believes in treating people the way I want to be treated. Best words to live by, although people sometimes end up taking advantage of us if we are not cautious.
No reviews should be informative, not insulting or demeaning, unless it is alert worthy.
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Old 04-01-2014, 11:51 PM   #40
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I have had 2 instances where I chose to not write a review rather than write a NO review. Both were with respected ladies here that did not do anything per se to warrant a negative review. It was more about her and I not clicking. Also in both cases I veered outside my normal range of woman. Both women were polite and performed the necessary duties. I just could not in good conscious write a yes or a no review. I felt it best to just let it be. A rating system would work better. Yes and no are so black and white with no gray area.

Good topic. Good responses.
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Old 04-02-2014, 06:28 AM   #41
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I believe Annika makes a good point. This is a business about getting paid one's asking price to provide your A game no matter what. We call this being professional.

If you choose to take an appointment knowing you can't offer your best service even when there might be a "Personality mismatch" then you should be prepared to be reviewed accordingly.

I think it all comes down to monger intent. Most can generally tell when someone is sharing a genuinely poor experience and when they are just being a dick.

If the provider is unable to provide a great experience due to her own personal issues then she has no business taking your Benjis.

If there is a personality conflict that just means she sucks at sales which is a critical component to being a professional provider.

These aren't Match dot friggin com dates seeking ideal partners. A sizable chunk of hard earned money is being exchanged for a top notch brief experience.

Let a monger try short changing the fee because he was in a bad mood or because he wasn't a match for her personality type and watch what happens. Forget poor reviews. His ass will be in alerts.
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Old 04-03-2014, 09:34 PM   #44
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Having been on this board and it's predecessor longer than most, I can say that a major regret I have is not writing more "No" reviews. Now, I completely agree with Ralph. It is a pain in the dick to write a "No" review.

Generally not because of the women, most don't really care. Every. Single. Time. I have said anything even marginally negative about an established provider with a fan base I have had: 1) Dudes call me a liar, 2) Posters tell me I shouldn't have said this, 3) Moderators DM me, 4) Commenters tell me I probably didn't even see the provider. And I've probably written 1-2 poor reviews in 10 years! The other things came about because of mild, comments on other reviews like "when I saw her she didn't put a lot of effort in".

That notwithstanding, I wish I had done it more often. There's just way too much mailing it in with these sessions and it's not like they cost twenty five bucks. Early on (many years ago), I gave a Yes review to a provider who wouldn't do doggy style lol. I wish I could have a mulligan on that one and a few others. Every provider profile lists bad hygiene as a dislike. Christ could I tell you some stories from my side.
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