WTF were you thinking?!

[Still Looking]

10 P411 Requests.......... nothing.
10 PMS........................... ..nothing.
10 emails........................ ..nothing.
Say she is a bitch in the ML for not responding........response in one day calling you an ass hole!

[fun2come]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

10 P411 Requests.......... nothing.
10 PMS........................... ..nothing.
10 emails........................ ..nothing.
Say she is a bitch in the ML for not responding........response in one day calling you an ass hole!

YUP, The ML or Private Tags always work

[cinnamonshark]

Hmmmm....check her status now.

[fun2come]

Originally Posted by cinnamonshark

Hmmmm....check her status now.

... and watch which handles become active ....

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by ztonk

Honestly, that wouldn't make any difference. It will still get posted and shared privately. You ladies need to remember that stuff posted on the Internet is forever......



ztonk
AustinModStaff

And there ya go. Ladies really need to consider what they are willing to GIVE UP when becoming a provider, what risk is acceptable, what boundaries to set in stone. Nothing is private once uploaded or typed online, especially nekkid pics and/or vid. Many people still can't wrap their heads around the idea of "forever," apparently.

Stop giving links, more pics, etc. If what's on your website/profile isn't good enough, Claire, then add more, or be okay with limited exposure. With a legal battle pending over custody, perhaps withdrawing somewhat from the Hobby or going UTR might have been advisable.

Don't get me wrong; it STILL sucks that some fellows give out info that should be held back, but it's to be expected. We providers put ourselves out as a product, and alas, a certain segment of the Hobby believes that tosses all expectations of privacy out of the window. (Nope, but you're never going to convince them differently. Threatening doesn't work.) Some gentlemen write perfectly lovely reviews that describe and entice in a tasteful manner, and some guys write in such explicit detail that they could be scripting a porno. Anger is understandable, but ladies HAVE TO find ways to graciously accept or POLITELY dispute what is said about them, fair or not, or the "bitch" labeling begins.

Best to avoid putting out any ammo to start a conflict over in the first place, and not acknowledge things that could be used in a court of law, or the court of ECCIE, against you.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by cinnamonshark

Hmmmm....check her status now.

She convicted herself, it appears.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

She convicted herself, it appears.

Yes, I'm quoting myself. There are always sides to the story that we don't hear until later, and appears there is more to this, so unless we are walking in her shoes, we can't really judge. With apologies, I retract my snarky comment, but not my prior post.

Life is a seesaw of good and bad that we all have to ride. I wish her the best of luck during a very trying down period in her life, and hope she bounces back up soon.

[Annika]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

She convicted herself, it appears.

[Annika]

Wtf were u thinking