Guys---listen carefully please!

[salesian]

I love reading your posts DallasRain. Fruit Loops & Cheetos. My kind of girl. If I EVER get to New Orleans I am going to have to look you up for sure! I know we would have a good time.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

ok so the key thing was not a good idea...sorry...lol!!

Just ride a bicycle. Leave everything but the envelope at home.

[capt call]

Hello I am new to this experience and was needing some pointers. I have tried to contact a few providers but I am hitting a dead end due to the fact that I have no references. Any help would greatly be appreciated.

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by capt call

Hello I am new to this experience and was needing some pointers. I have tried to contact a few providers but I am hitting a dead end due to the fact that I have no references. Any help would greatly be appreciated.

Join P411 or Date Check. Find some newbie friendly girls in your area (the Search button is your friend). Comply with their screening requirements (generally means disclosing your name, place of employment, phone, etc.), and see one. Once you've been screened see a couple of well-known providers. Same info is needed for P411, which I highly recommend. I travel a lot, and it is almost universally recognized.

[Adrielle]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

Most ladies are more then happy to give their gentlemen a good reference, but like someone said before, it really does help if you email them yourself before hand and let them know they will be contacted for that reference and the details about it!

I can't agree with this enough Tiffany. I'm happy to give references, but there have been a handful of times when I'll get emails from girls asking about guys, only giving me info that I don't recognize. It takes a little while to get it straightened out to get the info from her (and then in turn, him), that I need to identify a gent.

A quick email saying "Hey, this is Bob, and I'm just letting you know that I'm using you as a reference for Tiffany in Oklahoma. Just a heads up, she will be contacting you about me. Thanks, and have a great day!" goes a long way, and helps things go much quicker.

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

lol--twisted is a good thing!!!

Depends on the twist. I think erotic self-asphyxiation is twisted, but I'd just as soon stay as far away from that as possible.

Cheers,

bcg

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by bluffcityguy

Depends on the twist. I think erotic self-asphyxiation is twisted, but I'd just as soon stay as far away from that as possible.

Cheers,

bcg

Wasn't David Carradine that said "Hang In There."

[Blackjack2000]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Join P411 or Date Check. Find some newbie friendly girls in your area (the Search button is your friend). Comply with their screening requirements (generally means disclosing your name, place of employment, phone, etc.), and see one. Once you've been screened see a couple of well-known providers. Same info is needed for P411, which I highly recommend. I travel a lot, and it is almost universally recognized.

How does the employment check work? I just give them my direct dial number, they call me at work and ask "Is this John Smith who lives at 123 Lookover Lane?" And I say "Yes."?

That's the only part that makes me nervous about P411.

[robs4.1]

When you fill out the information on 411 they will call whatever # you provided. They of course ask for you but the only info they asked me for was the answers to the security questions I created. Its a pretty simple process no worries.

[Gump42]

Originally Posted by robs38

When you fill out the information on 411 they will call whatever # you provided. They of course ask for you but the only info they asked me for was the answers to the security questions I created. Its a pretty simple process no worries.

Be sure to pick a conservative name for your hobby email. It can be awkward confirming this information if an associate is present, or within ear shot. When they called me, they asked me to provide my email address for confirmation. It wasn't a yes or no question. Luckily, the girl on the line was savvy and helped me play it cool.

[Blackjack2000]

Thanks all. I'll probably end up doing it. It's just scary as hell giving your employment information to a service like this. Though I guess I see the need for it with all the nutters out there