Guys, How do you feel about pregnant providers?

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I'm pretty amazed at all the high and mighty attitudes that people have towards this subject. Besides providing, I imagine lots of women don't have other choices. We never know what obstacles other women in this business face day to day. Not only does she have to take care of herself, she now has the stress of providing care for an unborn. It's sad that compassion is so hard to find around here.

+1

So much unforgiveness and judgmentalism on this board. You can't make these kinds of decisions for other people...unless, of course, you've been in their shoes. It's amazing how different the world is when you make decisions from the outside.

I still say it's the lady's body and her business to make these kinds of decisions. Probably just as many will opt to abstain as will opt to continue providing.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

You can't make these kinds of decisions for other people...unless, of course, you've been in their shoes.

I've been in their shoes and you know... maybe even worse and the last thing on my mind was post an ad on a hooker board and fuck random men for money with a human being growing inside me. . Why should I feel sorry for them? Please. They don't even feel sorry for their child.

I rest my case.

No one wants to comment? Fine. Sure there are men willing to fuck pregnant providers. Why not? It is a taboo? Men love taboos and it sells in this business. Ask those same men if they are willing to let their pregnant wives fuck random men for money/for free and see the response.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I'm pretty amazed at all the high and mighty attitudes that people have towards this subject. Besides providing, I imagine lots of women don't have other choices. We never know what obstacles other women in this business face day to day. Not only does she have to take care of herself, she now has the stress of providing care for an unborn. It's sad that compassion is so hard to find around here.

What you just wrote goes to show ya in this buisness it's essential to have a good back up plan. A pregnant provider, is pregnant by someone right. This guy should then take care of her, dam good care of her. She on the other hand should have been a bit more careful. If the father of her child is her husband. Then he should do his best as a man and a father to be to take care of the situation so his wife doesn't have to continue escorting. It just simply nolonger a good thing to do.

[BananaRepublican]

As long as it's not mine.
Billy
The Wildflower Group

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by acp5762

What you just wrote goes to show ya in this buisness it's essential to have a good back up plan. A pregnant provider, is pregnant by someone right. This guy should then take care of her, dam good care of her. She on the other hand should have been a bit more careful. If the father of her child is her husband. Then he should do his best as a man and a father to be to take care of the situation so his wife doesn't have to continue escorting. It just simply nolonger a good thing to do.

In a perfect world every woman would have a back up plan, there would be no unplanned pregnancies, every woman would have a man that took care of her and the baby. Sadly, that isn't reality for way too many women.

[burkalini]

I will not hobby with a pregnant provider period.

[Naomi4u]

And who's fault is that? No one but their own. So who should assume responsibility? THEM. Their unborn child shouldn't be paying for their mistake. They're pretty much exploiting the child.

Originally Posted by burkalini

I will not hobby with a pregnant provider period.

It must be raining cats and dogs outside - Burk agrees with me for once .

[tuckahoe]

1) Definitely, though I wouldn't see her just because she is pregnant. She would have to be a lady I would want to date anyway.
3) Would prefer to know, but would not get angry. I have been with a lady who I think was pregnant and not showing, but am not for certain. We had a good time.
4) I find pregnant women beautiful. They get my hormones raging. Hard to explain why. Why does seeing one woman licking another woman turn me on? Maybe it is because pregnancy requires gentleness and tenderness, which I like anyway.

[acp5762]

Originally Posted by Ansley

In a perfect world every woman would have a back up plan, there would be no unplanned pregnancies, every woman would have a man that took care of her and the baby. Sadly, that isn't reality for way too many women.

You're dam right. This is not a perfect world. I may seem a little caleous. Let me show you how caleous I am. Nobody is immune to making the wrong choice. For a provider to become pregnant, not a good choice. But if I had seen a provider on several occasions and one day I called her and she revealed to me she was pregnant. I probably wouldn't go see her. But if she didn't tell me and when I arrived at her incall it was obvious, I probably wouldn't get intimate with her. But I might not leave either. It's very possible I would give her the donation anyway and spend some time with her. If I wasn't familiar with her, I would be reluctant to stay. I'll admitt a pregnant women can be very sexy. But I don't walk through the Mall and see a pregnant women and think how it might be pretty hot take it down, ya know what I mean. I've never had that attraction to a pregnant women in that way. Of course not unless, I was responsible for swelling that belly, lol.

[Naughty Destiny]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

2.) For those of you that won't, If your ATF got knocked up would you STILL see her?

LOL! This question answers itself....and I'm being accused of contradicting myself. Funny!

But to answer the original question, I would DEFENTINALY see a pregnant provider. I think pregnant providers are HOT!

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Naughty Destiny

LOL! This question answers itself....and I'm being accused of contradicting myself. Funny!

Uhhhh... you're not making any sense. How is it contradicting? A guy may not like to see pregnant women but would see his ATF if she were preggerz. It's a legitimate question.

But to answer the original question, I would DEFENTINALY see a pregnant provider. I think pregnant providers are HOT!

"Defentinaly" huh?
Oh and .... Question was for guys btw.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by acp5762

You're dam right. This is not a perfect world. I may seem a little caleous. Let me show you how caleous I am. Nobody is immune to making the wrong choice. For a provider to become pregnant, not a good choice. But if I had seen a provider on several occasions and one day I called her and she revealed to me she was pregnant. I probably wouldn't go see her. But if she didn't tell me and when I arrived at her incall it was obvious, I probably wouldn't get intimate with her. But I might not leave either. It's very possible I would give her the donation anyway and spend some time with her. If I wasn't familiar with her, I would be reluctant to stay. I'll admitt a pregnant women can be very sexy. But I don't walk through the Mall and see a pregnant women and think how it might be pretty hot take it down, ya know what I mean. I've never had that attraction to a pregnant women in that way. Of course not unless, I was responsible for swelling that belly, lol.

Who you choose to see or not to see wasn't what I was addressing.

[sixxbach]

I don't think its anybody's business what a provider does with her body. If she wants to provide pregnant, do it. If a hobbyist doesn't want to see her now, move the fuck on. It's not a perfect world and certainly no one in this hobby can judge anyone, that's the bottom line.....

sixx

[acp5762]

No, it wasn't really. What you were basically stating some providers who get pregnant feel they have no choice but to continue escorting, and I realize that. And fortunately for providers in that situation many guys would still see them. Only thing I was trying to bring across was, although I wouldn't be inclined to knowingly see a pregnant provider. I don't exactly condem them either.

[Shayla]

Originally Posted by sixxbach

I don't think its anybody's business what a provider does with her body. If she wants to provide pregnant, do it. If a hobbyist doesn't want to see her now, move the fuck on. It's not a perfect world and certainly no one in this hobby can judge anyone, that's the bottom line.....

sixx

Sure we can.