i have many fetishes and fantasies.....I have asked people before if they have any fantasies and have been told no in some cases....I thought, wow, that person must be really boring sexually!!
Fetishes - I am dominant, bondage, including suspension, spanking, whipping, caning, choking, hair pulling, gagging, daddy/daughter, exhibitionism, hot wax, etc but I love the passion side of things too - kissing, touching, etc - both have their place
Of course my fetishes don't mesh well with the hobby, you have to really know and trust to explore. You have to get into the mind of your partner, thus not many reviews. But I do enjoy reading the boards