Have we decided to forgo the rules in favor of hostility?

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

Please don't die, love thread....

Without you things just wouldn't be the same.

[poppy71]

[Sydneyb]

Most of you don't seem to need to be reminded of the hypocrisy of the OP's protection of -and protestations against the lack of - civility in this forum. Many of you have in fact, brought substitutive issues to the argument. I too have examples of things that flay the OP as hypocrite: right down to the rabbit hole that displays the motivations of a well developed sociopath. And I have decided to share.

For the record (and it will most certainly go to official record if this crazy bat ever manages get a book deal for a book that has any reference in it to me). I believe that it will take a pretty delusional person to disagree that by making me the primary subject of approximately a third of her poorly written posts, she displays an excellent example of cyberstalking.

To further this point; I haven't communicated with her - or even lived in the same country as her - for the past two years. Prior to moving out of the country, I was subsequently in two exclusive relationship with clients, taking me off the market for an additional 5 or 6 years. That's a solid 7, 8 years that I have not had any day-to-day involvement in the hobby world. Despite my choosing to move on, I am forever grateful for the latter, for the freedoms it has allowed me. As for the former, while moving on was difficult - terminating the friendship was a necessary action that in the end, I am grateful.

I am sorry that OH chooses to use facts less liberally than one would expect from a person trying to tell her story - the real stories are just as interesting. Though as a reader I would say a detailed description of my divorce (partly true) along with a description of my long, spider like fingers (absolutely true) seem to be relatively uneventful and fail to bring much value to the reader. I would go so far as to say writing about mundane details of my life - real and otherwise - is boring to all but the most obsessed. But if she wants to write a crappy, calculating history, it's her story. But don't tell mine - and for gods sake - don't tell it poorly.

I recently heard there was a description of my attempt to get backstage with kid rock (not true) because I was smoking pot (unequivocally true). The truth is, I not a fan of being a star fucker - it's just not my gig. Perhaps my ego requires that I be the star of the greatest show on earth: but the true bottom line is that really that I don't feel I need to - nor am I willing to - prostitute myself for an exchange with a roadie with the idea that kid rock could be an option later in the evening. Ironic, huh? I guess it's a simple leap - people can believe a person who would prostitute herself for financial/emotional gain would see the road to trying to fuck kid rock as a positive trajectory. I don't. It's kinda gross to me.

The blog is largely lies. Lies about her degree of success and about my foibles (and there are so, so many honest ones - on both fronts - that would be real and raw and frankly, a better story). I can only assume, given my experience of Olivia's character, this is an attempt continue to profit from our having shared a sisterhood of sorts. I hope that this will stop that: I don't like to be retailed without my permission: it's a kind of exploitation I refuse to be a party to. Maybe it's an inability on her part to let go, but I feel exploited and I plain don't dig that feeling.

Now for a little more detail - there's more, but these two additional examples sum it up who you're dealing with:

4 years ago, when she called me with the news that her car was repossessed and I explained I couldn't rent her a car until the following day because I was with my daughter & her friends visiting from an out of state college, Olivia called the man I was in an exclusive relationship with (and my main source of income at the time) and threatened to out him to his wife. I immediately called her to explain that it was the most foolish thing she could have done because 1) he was the only person to help her in that situation with his excess cars & money and 2) if she was trying to be destructive to me by calling his wife, he wouldn't be displeased and her actions would make me a multimillionaire as his wife. Albeit, not a wholly satisfied one, as I was looking for a type of love that wasn't to be found in that legitimately loving relationship. (Confessional: I once told an exclusive clients' wife - a love of sorts) that we were in love. He told her it was true. The epitome of non professional, but when OH says that, it does happen to be a fact. A fucked up one, but a true one).

2 years ago, I started receiving increasingly aggressive texts from OH. It culminated in my calling her explaining that I was in Chicago with my father and mother while my father was in his last days. She suggested that she send my mother a pictorial of my Sydney photos as a memorial to her family at my fathers funeral. She said this calmly and with dispassion. He died the following day.

OH I recommend you save yourself the trouble by not barraging this missive with your crap, as won't be responding to your well planned threats anymore. My mother, my daughter, my life partner and my sister all know my past. My Dad is dead. So you can't threaten me, because there isn't anything but me and I'm finished.

Olivia; you are a brilliant woman with a capacity for shining brightly. Though it doesn't seem as though you do much of that these days and I'm sorry for you and for those you love. This is the last: if you find a publisher, I will pursue litigation that way, but I doubt if that will be an issue. From the little I've seen, writing isn't your forte and a genuine publisher isn't likely.

My partner insists that he is proud of what I've done and who I am and would stand beside me with pride, should my past come out publicly beyond our family's. His point is that he gets to be with someone that literally has a $1500 price tag attached to her time and he understands that he's a lucky man in spite and because of that fact. But never is he ashamed of what brought me to him.

To be clear, I prefer that you not exploit our past friendship by writing about me, but it isn't poisoning me as much as those you touch with your words and attitude. When you're writing with such bitterness, it can't help but be absorbed into who you are and those reading it. I hope you find your way out of this. Life can be better, just choose the next right thing and the right things happen. Best of luck to you.

[chicagoboy]

Sydney's visits are always welcome.

[Wakeup]

Heh, love this place.

[Guest051115]

Originally Posted by Wakeup

Heh, love this place.

We can tell.

[dearhunter]

sweet summer rain

[PipelinerTx]

What in the sam hill did I just step into by opening this thread. Looks like I have some catching up to do.

Some whore trying to get a book deal and doing other whore related activities?

Well time to start reading




Also noticed OP's blog she taps into her experience as a "high-end" escort.


She is fucking $300 a hour, what in the fuck does she know about high end escorting.

Let's get a posh-model in here at 1k-2k a hour and have her read that blog.

[SpiceItUp]

Don't bother Pipeliner, it's not that interesting. Neither is her blog or Sydney's (3 years in the making) retort in my opinion.

And yes, her characterization of herself as a "high-end" escort was always amusing

[blowpop]

A very sad story, Sydney, but I can't say I'm surprised. Having been the target of OH's vitriol here a while back, I concluded that she suffers from two conditions that a lot of reasonably smart people suffer from: She doesn't realize where her talents end, and once she's stated a position, she seems positive that she is correct, even if it was built on a shaky foundation.

She fancies herself as incredibly savvy, but in her attacks on me I observed a remarkable degree of naiveté that borders on gullibleness. Combine that with a willingness to beat a dead horse forever and the result is someone who spits out reams of words in diatribes that last for weeks (or in your case, dear woman, for years) that are based on false assumptions.

[Grace Preston]

Sydney--

I'm sure you already know this, but... hey-- you are in good company.

[Guest082318]

Originally Posted by blowpop

A very sad story, Sydney, but I can't say I'm surprised. Having been the target of OH's vitriol here a while back, I concluded that she suffers from two conditions that a lot of reasonably smart people suffer from: She doesn't realize where her talents end, and once she's stated a position, she seems positive that she is correct, even if it was built on a shaky foundation.

She fancies herself as incredibly savvy, but in her attacks on me I observed a remarkable degree of naiveté that borders on gullibleness. Combine that with a willingness to beat a dead horse forever and the result is someone who spits out reams of words in diatribes that last for weeks (or in your case, dear woman, for years) that are based on false assumptions.

She calls you out for being cheap and manipulative and now you're the victim? I think she did a great job of establishing the foundation upon which her assessments were based on.

[Hot to Trot Daphne]

If he wants to be cheap here there is nothing wrong with that... there's someone for everyone. The manipulative part... eh, I wouldn't be too quick to judge there.

Thancks Sydney for posting!

[WTF]

Originally Posted by Sydneyb

I can only assume, given my experience of Olivia's character, this is an attempt continue to profit from our having shared a sisterhood of sorts. I hope that this will stop that: I don't like to be retailed without my permission: it's a kind of exploitation I refuse to be a party to. Maybe it's an inability on her part to let go, but I feel exploited and I plain don't dig that feeling.

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Oh the irony....Olivia does not want her pictures posted/exploited on eccie , yet has no problem exploiting others people's personal lives through her blog without their permission....

[Guest050715-1]

Oh, all right, but just for you Pet, and just this once. First off, it’s a work of fiction loosely based on my life as high-end working girl. Purely and simply. To my haters, thanks for doing the heavy lifting for me, and yes, high-end. I never made my money one hour at a time. What I am and am not writing can be found here: Dear Gentle Reader - Read it. Don’t read. I don’t care.

Secondly, one errant fact leads to other errant facts. For instance, 2014 – (7 or 8 years) doesn’t equal October of 2008 when her last review on TER was. It equals July of 2007 or 2006. - Linck: https://www.theeroticreview.com/revi...&page=1#Review - It's my story. No one else's so let's not get loose with the facts.

Originally Posted by Sydneyb

To further this point; I haven't communicated with her - or even lived in the same country as her - for the past two years. Prior to moving out of the country, I was subsequently in two exclusive relationship with clients, taking me off the market for an additional 5 or 6 years. That's a solid 7, 8 years that I have not had any day-to-day involvement in the hobby world.