I'm a provider who's not been providing for almost two months. My first icky cold in years around Xmas and other personal and health issues have kept me off the market much to my dismay. My libido is ebbing & flowing erratically as you can imagine!
There are times I don't even look at my computer although I'm signed in most of the time. *my bad* My phone is on blocking mode and I'm gone to the world in Dreamland to avoid the pain. It's nothing against any of you. It's just what it is. I'm not posting ads, so I'm not available. There are exceptions when a fella gets brave, msgs me & catches me in a mood.

It happens! lol
So, there are several responses here to consider, A1H. Hope you're doing well...