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[Guest070714-2]

Syeira I can relate...........

With that said, my 2014 resolution involves being more friendly towards strangers

[St.Mateo]

I think alot of it has to do with how you approach it
I am pretty much a clown and probably would crack aajoke
or make the chuckle bcos women like guys who can make them laugh.
In saying that I am a klutz and probably would trip over my own feet
before I could.speak lol. The point is how you approach people and how
you handle them..

[daveindallas]

Sofia,
You are pretty friendly
And outgoing already!!!!
And with a very engaging
Personality, you could get
Any stranger's attention
And keep it.

And I agree with St Mateo
Using humor is a good approach.
Just as women
Love a man who can make them laugh,
I think most men
Love a woman who has a good sense of humor
And does not take herself or life too seriously.
Use your shyness to your advantage, it's
Sexy and a challenge to the
Man, to see if he can be the one to unleash the
Not so shy you!
Sometimes
Beautiful women can be intimidating to approach.
We think they get hot on all the time ,
Have heard all the lines and approaches , and will be difficult
To catch their interest.
Making fun of yourself or a situation/moment
Makes you more approachable and gives the man an opening to
Take over the conversation . Humility is very sexy .

[Sir Lancehernot]

Originally Posted by CompanionSofia

With that said, my 2014 resolution involves being more friendly towards strangers

Howdy, stranger!

Sorry, couldn't resist.

[luv2luv]

Maybe you get more of a sense of things as you grow older. Seems that way anyway. And the older I've gotten, the more I've decided that opportunities not taken are opportunities missed. I am more likely to approach a stranger these days than I used to be.

I was in Hong Kong last week, eating in a restaurant. It was Chinese New Years and there was a large Chinese family having a celebration meal. I was alone. As I was about to leave, I went up to a lady at the table, asked if she spoke English, then told her that I really enjoyed watching her family celebrate. It was a good feeling. She repeated my message and the whole table smiled and thanked me. It was a good moment.

Many years ago, I was in uniform walking through the Honolulu airport carrying my luggage when a truly gorgeous young lady came towards me. I just stopped, dropped my luggage, smiled, and applauded. She laughed, stopped, we shared a few comments then went on our ways. A moment shared.

Liife is too short and time too precious to waste it. Perhaps this whole reply doesn't fit the thread, but I just wanted to mention it.

Bottom line! Hell yes! "C" is going to be my choice every time.

[LazurusLong]

Remember that old saying:

No matter how hot she looks, someone someplace else is tired of her shit.

But seriously.

Women typically dress up to get noticed by someone. Whether the SO or someone specific doesn't matter.

So a casual compliment, not in some leering manner or something that would be similar to a wolf whistle, would be appropriate and most likely appreciated by her.

What's the worst that can happen?

On the other hand, many a friend of mine has gotten to know a woman, some now married, by simply saying something nice and going from there.

Speak up and say something.

Again, what's the worst that can happen?

[EROS725]

Originally Posted by syeira pink

I am very shy in public........yes it's true. So for me to approach a hot guy and compliment them probably would have to involve a 5th of Vodka..........

But on the other hand, I have been told several times, that because of my shyness I come off approachable.......maybe I am stuck up, or think I am better than anyone else.......I CALLED BULLSHIT ON THIS..........I am just extremely shy and keep to myself.

I don't know if my conscience is making me think that when I am out and about that people automatically look at me and think " she is a hooker " because I am looked at by men-women and children. I would love to be able to walk in somewhere and strike up a conversation with someone and have no fear with that.

AM I CRAZY? LOL

They are probably thinking that you are a very desirable woman, well... maybe not the children