Short Notice or scheduled appointments in need of everyones feedback!!!

[Austins1hobby]

Didn't know that at all. But maybe that particular provider is the one that does exactly what they want. Maybe they feel or felt secure with that one person ijs. How is a hobbyist to know a certain provider will get them blacklisted in the future?

[VictoriaLyn]

I like short notice appts best ..I need only 30 minutes to.shower and get ready...
If one wants to schedule a week or two out I just ask you send me a reminder/ confirmation the night before.

[VictoriaLyn]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

Didn't know that at all. But maybe that particular provider is the one that does exactly what they want. Maybe they feel or felt secure with that one person ijs. How is a hobbyist to know a certain provider will get them blacklisted in the future?

you won't know if a girl wil blacklisted you in the future unless you've done something you know is wrong then you should just assume you got on the blacklist.
There are some jealous ladies who will put you on the blacklist just so they can keep you for themselves

[memdal]

In an ideal world, I would be scheduling weeks ahead, particularly to see touring ladies. I think I miss a few great experiences by not doing that. But, I just can’t plan my schedule too many days in advance. What it usually ends up being is tentatively scheduled in my mind and then contacting the lady the day before or two days before, which is then hit and miss. In the end, however, I would say about half of the great experiences are set day of or the evening before.

[Guest021716-4]

IF the guy is screened, has seen me already or he has a review history of providers I know, I can look at his post history quickly and screen pretty fast, then I never mind short notice (If I am not booked, have my family, etc)

If I am available that day, I never mind doing short notice. It never hurts to ask either. But you must meet the criteria above.

I can't see ya, if I can't screen ya! Short notice is very challenging with lurkers and newbies. I refuse to be rushed thru screening process. It aint happening. That's a possible indicator something is not right.

It's better safe than sorry, imo. Another challenge, for me, is that I don't store info. I don't have room for it! So prescreening is pretty much a waste of time.

I am kind of the opposite too. If I am screwing around on the board it usually means I am not free! Like right now.

I don't understand when some guys get upset, because you are logged on to the board, but not available right away!! I know my devices keep me logged in when I think I have exited out and whatnot.

[Guest101314]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

All the providers are speaking of screening, so my next question would be if the hobbyist is already known and reviews and post on a regular would that count for your screening process? Ex. I have 22 reviews and do not post a review about every lady I see some I forget some I want to forget it ever happen and some are at the providers request but regardless does that come into play or apart of your screening process?

This is a great question that I've been asked many times... if you have CURRENT reviews (within last three months) of gals who I consider reputable.. meaning I know them or I feel like they wouldn't lie about any reviews they get, then I may take that into consideration. But for the most part (99%) I contact the ladies and ask them questions about the gent. Because in my mind, it honestly doesn't matter that you gave the girl a review. That doesn't mean that she enjoyed your company or that you were a good client. All that means is that you saw the girl. Also, anything can change in this hobby. What if you were cool a few months ago, but some major drastic event in your life flipped a switch in you and now you're a different person mentally? Or maybe a girl you saw last week saw something on your penis and is giving us a heads up. This is why and how I screen.

[Guest101314]

Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

I am kind of the opposite too. If I am screwing around on the board it usually means I am not free! Like right now.

I don't understand when some guys get upset, because you are logged on to the board, but not available right away!! I know my devices keep me logged in when I think I have exited out and whatnot.

I agree with this too.. That's why I have my hours on my signature.. I keep my computer on all day, so if I leave my house, I'm most likely still logged into ECCIE. If I'm screwing around on here during my posted hours, I'm free.. if it's getting to be closer to 8 pm and I'm screwing around, I may not be available... But it doesn't hurt to ask!

[Jessie Austin]

I can book short notice especially if you've got a good rep on eccie. If I'm contacted here first it makes everything easier but that takes time. I will bend over backwards for my special friends and I think they know that. Prior commitments play a huge part in booking for everyone so as long as everyone is semi flexible it should work out.

[Jessie Austin]

Originally Posted by memdal

In an ideal world, I would be scheduling weeks ahead, particularly to see touring ladies. I think I miss a few great experiences by not doing that. But, I just can’t plan my schedule too many days in advance. What it usually ends up being is tentatively scheduled in my mind and then contacting the lady the day before or two days before, which is then hit and miss. In the end, however, I would say about half of the great experiences are set day of or the evening before.

+1

[Britttany_love]

I dont like being rushed so I prefer at least an hours noticed so I have time to prepare for the appointment. For the most part I can accommodate last minute requests when I have seen you before, pre-screened you or you have p411. Last minute request are typically easier for me in the afternoons and evenings. I know I always have access but most ladies dont so trying to rush last minute screening is practically impossible.

[Ollie Pop]

Great subject! I am often in the unenviable position to have to cancel on appointments made in advance. Not always, but more often than I would like. A week ago, or three days ago, when booking, my schedule was wide open, but as the days pass it begins to get more full and unfortunately I find that I need to cancel. I always try to give a day's notice; never the same morning, but sucks nonetheless.

This is why short notice works best for me. As things get moved around, cancelled, etc a window of opportunity opens up and viola! And, if a lovely provider happens to be free then it is a win win for all involved. I'm not much for keeping up with reviews, but have since considered staying current so that the ladies can screen via reviews, contact fellow courtesans, etc.

I guess if you are going to request short notice you should realize you need to do some work up front. Have a list of references available and provide good contact information for the references used, and give a gal at least a couple hours to get ready. We may not think it is necessary, but they do, and that is just as, or more, important.

[Austins1hobby]

Here is another scenario.
I schedule an appointment more than an hour out actually it was 2 days out and confirmed the day before. The next morning I call, text, and PM the young lady with no answer and then later that afternoon receive a text explaining the situation but meanwhile I wanted something at that moment so I searched for a short notice and found one. Ladies I love scheduling but honestly the hobbyist real life schedule dictates whether or not they can handle a scheduled appointment.

I have tried to schedule appointments and something always comes up either with me or the provider I think its only been one time that everything went has planned. Lets be honest also ladies and gentlemen men are all about instant gratification we want that instant explosion and if we have to sit and think about things we normally talk ourselves out of it, Almost like getting that new 55 inch 4k res flat screen I almost got this weekend but the longer they talked and tried to figure out the price for everything I thought against it and went with the regular LED 1080 55 inch for 2 thousand less.

Think about it like this the more distance between an appointment you have you start to see different ads and ladies come available (newbies, travelers, specials, etc). Scheduling versus short notice for guys short notice wins but for the providers scheduling wins lol.

I now understand screening has to be done on someone you have not seen but can anyone tell me how long the average screening takes. Also does all the ladies reply back quickly like you would to a screening request?

[JJones]

How long screening takes depends on the lady. How much information does she need to feel comfortable. You need to understand that the ladies that you give as references may or may not respond in a timely manner. Heck, they may not even respond at all for a variety of reasons none of which have anything to do with you.

So, in my experience screening could take an hour to as long as several days. That is why it is best to be prescreened or use P411.

[Austins1hobby]

Originally Posted by JJones

How long screening takes depends on the lady. How much information does she need to feel comfortable. You need to understand that the ladies that you give as references may or may not respond in a timely manner. Heck, they may not even respond at all for a variety of reasons none of which have anything to do with you.

So, in my experience screening could take an hour to as long as several days. That is why it is best to be prescreened or use P411.

Thanks. I have had screening take a few days and some take a few minutes that's why I would like to know from the ladies on the average how long screening takes to help out some of the guys that don't really know and because I am curious to see how many ladies respond quickly to screening request.

[Luv2ball]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

Lets be honest also ladies and gentlemen men are all about instant gratification we want that instant explosion and if we have to sit and think about things we normally talk ourselves out of it,

I now understand screening has to be done on someone you have not seen but can anyone tell me how long the average screening takes. Also does all the ladies reply back quickly like you would to a screening request?

That first quote pretty much sums up my motivation for wanting same day appointments. If I have to schedule 2 or 3 days out then forget it. My SO or myself will take care of the "urge" and money stays in my pocket so I'm not that ambitious about setting up appointments.

Interested to see the answers for the second quote from the provider side. In order to try to have decent success with same day appointments, I usually will PM providers who are online and advertising. I don't know if it's bad TCB or slow screening but usually I get to keep my money because nothing goes down. Fine by me!