What does GFE really mean?

[Guest032514-1]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

I really think it is just in the way that you treat people. If you treat them will, and you truely enjoy them, that is GFE.

GFE:

I don't treat you like the a$$hole who happens to be Mr. Franklin's chauffeur and you don't treat me like the attitude the "box" came with.

[kccountryboy]

One moderator in the KC section hated the term. I for one agree with him. The term GFE is utterly useless there is a clear definition of what it consists of. The problem with a concise definition of a term is that there are too many variables. If the two do not click, it will never be a true GFE session. If one or the other is unclean, hygiene wise, there will not be much of a GFE session either. I think GFE refers to not so much the activities provided, but the passion with which they are provided, by both parties. Many include LFK and DFK as well as BBBJ to be included in a GFE session. I don't think this is necessarily accurate. One does not have to kiss or even perform oral on the partner for there to be passion. The encounter does not need to be hard and fast or slow and soft either.
To me, this is why GFE is a faily useless term due to the relativity of its definition and exponential range of variations and deviations. One person's GFE experience is another person's cold fish or even PSE experience. I think it is important to list most, not necessarily all of the activites, unless specifically requested not to do so for some reason. This is because some providers will do more with some that others. They don't want each person in succession to expect certain activities and they may be reserved for repeat clients or special clients. Here in lies the definition of YMMV. What is available to one, may not be available to all and go to any appointment with and open mind expecting fun and see where it goes from there. Just my .02