I'm most certainly interested in the E in GFE. It's like pornography... I can't define it but I k of it when I see it
The friends I go back to are the ones who give the IOP or better yet, no illusion, just the real thing. I've been known to see someone again and just hang, chat, pet, kiss, caress, some bbbj/daty and never even get to CFS... Simply forgot or was just having a great time and it didn't matter. Things you may do with an actual GF. I return for the connection, feigned or real.
Agree with Karla, get the TCB out of the way beforehand so the E-xperience is just that, no awkward discussions of donations, time, etc. I'm a simple guy. The 'activities' are secondary to the experience.
Having said that, it's nice to have some consistency in ads/showcases so we know if the basics of a session include the possibility of those things. Don't have a problem with those that say no kissing, or cbj only, etc. I just move on to someone more likely to offer what I like. Cbj is not the deal-breaker it once was, though. Thanks to a certain lovely lady, I have been converted because the rest of the experience was amazing and it just didn't matter. You know who you are
,but on those occasions that I receive those thank you text, it is very much appreciated and adds to the GFE experience. The spontaneity of it is what makes it special. IMO 
