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Originally Posted by Codybeast
Common sense Point #2:
I hope you've learned from the provider responses that no provider in her right mind is going to alienate half of her potential customers by conveying an honest preference of one penis size over another?
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Oh, I'll bite. I'm not around enough or working enough to give a shit about stepping on toes, so here goes.
On the smaller end of the spectrum, there is too small. What is too small? Too small is when I'm worried that the condom won't stay on or when he's slipping out in almost every position and I feel like I can't provide a good session. Too small is when the inside of my mouth is super sore from having to increase suction beyond the norm to provide a snug fit. Too small is when I consider just rubbing the nub with my palm like a giant clit because I don't know what else to do with it and once again I feel a bit defeated.
On the other end of the spectrum, there is definitely too big. A recent fuckbuddy of mine used to boast that his friends called him the "bitch-splitter" but I wasn't laughing. I tuckered out quickly, was sore for DAYS after (even with lots of lube) and many positions were also off the table because of both the length and girth. Oral sex was a challenge because I was always afraid of scraping him with my molars. I didn't like being so limited in what we could do, because what we could do became routine and things got boring pretty quickly. And of course there's issues with bottoming out, which can really hurt, regardless how many times the doctors in cosmo tell me that my cervix doesn't have that many nerve endings...
And sure, some cocks just feel a hell of a lot better and are much nicer to look at. It makes me feel a bit like Goldilocks. My personal preference is one without any bends or dips, with a sufficient head (but not thicker than the shaft). Girthy enough that I can almost, but not quite wrap my (short) fingers around it and long enough that I can DT all but the last 3/4" or so and where bottoming out is rarely an issue once warmed up. I don't carry a tape measurer in my purse, so I don't know specific dimensions, but it fits in the slightly above average range.
