Makes me giggle

[JONBALLS]

Originally Posted by Amber Does

JonBalls
Search works wonders...

oh yah ....no doubt. congrats on such strides here since your first review


http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=735450

good luck with maintaining the tricky balance from advertising to treat me like a dirty whore and then not attracting stalkers

and finding that respect you certainly deserve

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by jokacz

It has come to the attention of a number of us, that certain popular SPs are being "represented" by one of the board members. This may or may not be a danger in and of itself, but I don't advise you to share ANY personal information with anyone. If you do not actually speak to the lady, and are restricted to email, PM, and text, move on. Do NOT give out your cell number, even if it's a hobby phone, before she gives you hers. A word to the wise...
GP?

^ first post in Pseudo Pimpin' ^

Originally Posted by Amber Does

Ok So for the few that I have not responded to after NUMEROUS attempts to contact me... and feel the need to post about it in a review thread this is why!!! I didnt feel like saying hi sorry I dont want to see you again. because your the type that would push and push as to why not we had such a good time together blah blah blah

I dont respond to you for 1 because you are annoying the fuck out of me by REPEATEDLY sending me messages and messages day after day! I have sooo many messages and people to respond to and people being so pushy is so annoying to me.
and 2. I didnt enjoy my time with you!!!!
I can choose who I want to see and who I dont and I dont owe anyone an explanation. I want to enjoy doing this as as much as it being a job I get pleasure out of it and enjoy sex. I enjoy meeting new ppl but when theres the ones like you out there that make me feel like a legit whore and thats all I am (in our meeting-being OVERLY assertive and aggressive even when I say no) then f you I wont see you again or give you any explanation why.

and for you retards that need to dissect my involvement with the infamous XY. Hes a friend thats all it is. He is a client as well once in a while! He doesnt log into my god damn account or email or phone or anything!!! I do all my booking and and talk to each one of the guys I book. And I give them my cell number if they as for it or if I feel comfortable enough to disclose. I love how certain ppl are like little kids and have to run and tell other (oh shes friends with XY- oh my) fuck off. I dont even get where you think he would have all this info you talk about- wtf info would I get that he could possibly have access to? What a damn fake email/fake name and a hobby phone number you guys send? Really? Wow thats harmful for him to find. If anything the girl has the most to lose by contacting YOU! Especially if she does it out of her place!
get over your selves!

Ugh. Dont care about spelling mistake (grammer nazis please humor me idgaf) please flame away. I just needed to get that off my chest and now back to booking people I actually ENJOY seeing and talking to.

many hate reading me (moved smile to end of as only with her)

mods are going to hate me if I have to start giving out how ta word a review
yet I find it helpful to talk to each other before first seeing each other. I would think both sides would not want BCD unless they had a chat over the phone or at a social of some type.
private as not sure what to keep from being pointed.

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Amber Does

Oh why thanks.

your welcome,

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by Amber Does
Ok So for the few that I have not responded to after NUMEROUS attempts to contact me... and feel the need to post about it in a review thread this is why!!! I didnt feel like saying hi sorry I dont want to see you again. because your the type that would push and push as to why not we had such a good time together blah blah blah

I dont respond to you for 1 because you are annoying the fuck out of me by REPEATEDLY sending me messages and messages day after day! I have sooo many messages and people to respond to and people being so pushy is so annoying to me.
and 2. I didnt enjoy my time with you!!!!
I can choose who I want to see and who I dont and I dont owe anyone an explanation. I want to enjoy doing this as as much as it being a job I get pleasure out of it and enjoy sex. I enjoy meeting new ppl but when theres the ones like you out there that make me feel like a legit whore and thats all I am (in our meeting-being OVERLY assertive and aggressive even when I say no) then f you I wont see you again or give you any explanation why.

Guns N' Roses - Patience

without stalking is not easy. Best way to become a friend of a provider is by not trying, and seems that many try to rush into. Yet most could not handle it when and if they got there.

I am not a hobbyist, most here should stick to hobbying (mmm not a word)(really)
anyways
if ya can't take the with the , only visit the kitchen. errrr or where ever.
is so confusing.

[brinsmas]

Holy cow this thread was entertaining, as are the complaints about her not agreeing to meet on other threads. I emailed Amber and she didn't really seem responsive to me, but ya know what, that's her freaking prerogative, and she doesn't owe me an explanation. At most I may be entitled to email her and tell her its her loss, but it's probably not, so why bother.

I think some guys take it personally when girls say no thanks or not again. That's a bit disingenuous isn't it?

It's one thing to hope that a girl actually likes spending time with you, it's something entirely different to expect it. It's a pretty good sign that she's into the life for more than money if she says no, and isn't that really the kind of girl any guy here is hoping for?

[cowboy8055]

The biggest problem with the hot flavors of the month is trying to hook up. They get busy and are probably swamped with calls. You can't expect them to get back to everyone.

[offshoredrilling]

darn, I was hoping Amber Does had time to post in her thread again.

ONLY WEDNESDAY JUNE 19TH!

We will be doing duos this day. $300 all in.
9am-7pm

Email only bblu69@gmail.com
or I will not respond.
And I have the right to refuse anyone

Please put DUO in subject.

But she did put up a nice ad with a hot pic.......

If I email, can that also have a call as part of the screening each other????? ahhh just askin

[pineappleguy]

Amber - Loved your post.

In as much as I know that it is a job, if you're not having a good time then I'm not having a good time. I am so looking forward to seeing you when we get our schedules to sync up.

[The Drummer]

Just to quote you:

Ok So for the few that I have not responded to after NUMEROUS attempts to contact me... and feel the need to post about it in a review thread this is why!!! I didnt feel like saying hi sorry I dont want to see you again. because your the type that would push and push as to why not we had such a good time together blah blah blah

I dont respond to you for 1 because you are annoying the fuck out of me by REPEATEDLY sending me messages and messages day after day!I have sooo many messages and people to respond to and people being so pushy is so annoying to me.
and 2. I didnt enjoy my time with you!!!!


Please forgive me if I don’t fully understand, but here goes.

Is communication not a component of your work since it involves people? I’m not sure if you’re saying you responded to said individuals and directed them to leave you alone, or you simply didn’t respond at all.

I, myself, would welcome your honesty in saying: “I wish not to see you anymore”. You would owe me no explanation – after all, most of us understand that it’s simply business. But, I will concede, and can only imagine, that there are many creeps/douche nozzles that would push to the point of obsession.

Again, I can only empathize with you – I’m not in your shoes and, again, can only imagine what you may go through at times. However, any line of business takes time and effort.

So, if you didn’t respond at all (which, again, I’m not sure of) my suggestion would be to develop some “canned” email responses that you could save on your computer and have one for every occasion. Simply copy/paste in the email correspondence. I.e., “I had a great time and I’d love to see you again…” or conversely, “I’m sorry we cannot meet anymore…”.

With concern to the hardheads that just don’t get it; there’s no hope. They clearly suffer from some manner of mental turbulence. It may be extra work, but compile a list of these societal misfits that you can refer to when checking email or PM, then simply don’t respond anymore.

The added effort on your part to organize and develop a system will pay dividends in time savings and decreased aggravation.

I for one, and I’m sure the majority, would welcome the Dear “John” Letter, pun intended. At least I'd know where I stood, avoid further embarassment, and never bother you again.

Respectfully,
TD

[Peter Sezso]

Originally Posted by pineappleguy

Amber - Loved your post.

In as much as I know that it is a job, if you're not having a good time then I'm not having a good time. I am so looking forward to seeing you when we get our schedules to sync up.

My best experiences are with providers who I connect with on a personal level. I don't think I've ever been with a girl and wanted to see her a second time, and have her not want to see me. I'm sure if I am with a girl that I have no interest in seeing for a repeat visit that she probably had the same experience.

Amber. I would like to see you and will PM you soon.
Thank You,
Peter

[Amber Does]

Thanks guys for the support I appreciate it.

I did not reply to all the individuals that I wish not to see because I hate the possibly of hurting someones feelings. I do feel bad saying that its for atheistic or sexual reasons idk. I know it would be better to and I will develop something to say to the ones I don't wish to see.

[offshoredrilling]

Oh go ahead. Its ok to hurt my feelings, really.
anyways, if I try, would the screening of each other include a phone chat?????

[offshoredrilling]

latter bed time

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by Amber Does

I do feel bad saying that its for atheistic or sexual reasons ....

WTF are you hooking for God?

Perhaps you meant aesthetic?

[FlyboyNY]

Jokaz
Too funny. Made me laugh.
Pineappleguy and Pete.
Way to suck up. Let us know how that worked out for you.