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bigryan222 · 05-20-2013, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by dirty dog

Really, come on bro, first the question is not asked of a specific provider, its asked in a general form, do you know how many possible answers there are to a question like that and when you do finally get an answer from 100 different providers the answer will never satisfy the person asking the question because you get 100 different answers. The reality is the provider is not required to give an answer, she is only required to provide an outline of her services. Why she wont see midgets, or AA men is really no ones business. She has stated her rules and if you are excluded move on, there are many who do. But discussing this every 3 weeks is not changing a thing. A lady who does not see black men will not haver her mind changed because its constantly being discussed.

I would not try to schedule a girl that didn't want to see me. But, it is 100% fair to question it. If I were a provider I would not answer the question, but implying that there is something wrong with asking the question seems silly to me.

There are new guys on this site all the time. Guys spend different amounts of time here. Guys half ass read what is posted here. For those and many other reasons this will come up again and again. Don't open the thread if you don't care for the subject. Don't start a new thread if you are sick of the subject.

Honestly, I don't know why any girl would answer it because there is no answer that will please everyone or even anyone, but that doesn't mean it is not a fair question.

MsElena · 05-20-2013, 05:04 PM

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Originally Posted by pmdelites

big country, pls note that she asked "But WHY??????" and not "why".

this is a big difference

Oh you just hush.

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Originally Posted by bigryan222

Not to be a dick, but when you provide a service to some people, but not others you will be asked to justify it. You provide a different, more personal service so I understand not seeing those you are not comfortable seeing, but you will be asked about it.

And to be blunt, asking those who are seeking a service justification is nothing like asking justification for refusing service. I truly believe you should not see anyone you don't want to see, but refusing service because of race will get you questioned. I doubt it affects your business much, but it is fair to question it.

Any lady could give you a number of reasons why they won't see certain races, certain ages, etc....and most of you guys wouldn't be happy with the responses (hence my thread) and also, some of you (not naming names) jump to the conclusion that just because a lady doesn't see an AA, its because she has a pimp.

So, again....no matter what answer we give you, you're not happy with it. I would suggest the ladies not answer another one of those threads and let you men assume all you want.

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Originally Posted by dirty dog

Really, come on bro, first the question is not asked of a specific provider, its asked in a general form, do you know how many possible answers there are to a question like that and when you do finally get an answer from 100 different providers the answer will never satisfy the person asking the question because you get 100 different answers. The reality is the provider is not required to give an answer, she is only required to provide an outline of her services. Why she wont see midgets, or AA men is really no ones business. She has stated her rules and if you are excluded move on, there are many who do. But discussing this every 3 weeks is not changing a thing. A lady who does not see black men will not haver her mind changed because its constantly being discussed.

BINGO!!!!

Yes, its a business we offer, but yet some of you seem to forget that. Its an unusual business in which us ladies set our own rules. You can choose to follow them unasked or you can move on down the road to a different lady.

I don't get hurt or upset when a guy doesn't want to see me because I'm medium size and he wants a spinner......or he wants a blonde and I'm brunette. Its your choice. Let us make our choices no matter what they're based upon.

bigryan222 · 05-20-2013, 05:10 PM

I would guess you didn't read my last post. In my opinion it was a poor idea to post this thread for the same reasons you are recommending girls not respond to it in the future. That doesn't change the fact that is a fair question.

MsElena · 05-20-2013, 05:22 PM

Why was it a bad idea to post this thread? Its satire, its funny, but yet true.

Why is it that the only race that gets questioned is black? Why don't you guys throw in Mexicans? Indians (India)? Asians? Arab descent? Don't just stop at black guys, throw everyone in. Why don't you question us on the age limits? If you dig deep enough, you'll find some ladies won't see any of the above I mentioned.

If you're going to question a lady about something like race, throw it all out there. Be a trendsetter.

Enchanterlingum · 05-20-2013, 05:25 PM

No midgets??

Would it help if I were to let it slip that I am Emperor Ludens Nimrod Kendrick Cord Longstaff the 41st, Defender of Humanity, Imperator of Known Space?

bigryan222 · 05-20-2013, 05:25 PM

The simple answer is girls don't put no Latinos, they put no AA. I guess I missed the funny part too.

MsElena · 05-20-2013, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by bigryan222

The simple answer is girls don't put no Latinos, they put no AA. I guess I missed the funny part too.

Lets say they did. Would you debate this hard for Latino's or Asians or Indians?

bigryan222 · 05-20-2013, 05:44 PM

I would probably say it i s a fair question and that I think it is a poor idea on your part to answer it. Have you noticed I haven't called you racist or said you should? My point I everyone has the right to question being rejected service for any reason. Implying that you shouldn't be questioned is my problem.

It is one of the many complex issues out there where answering the question does more harm than good, yet it is a very legit question.

BottomFeederKC · 05-20-2013, 06:00 PM

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malwoody · 05-20-2013, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by BottomFeederKC

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Man, I've never seen one....

You get it from a Pimp??

ElumEno · 05-20-2013, 06:24 PM

I was going to post a reply to the 'Recent Thread' but decided it was not worth the time
to hunt and peak at my keyboard... I had better things to do... like take a nice crap.

Now I am not the brightest bulb by any means.
but in the very short time I have been around the lifestyle, I have made some personal observations pertaining to this subject.
That observation is that most (not all) of the guys that moan, bitch and complain about NBA/No AA/No asshat policies
are pretty much the same type of guys that the ladies are trying to screen out.
I have also observed that quite a few of the gentlemen that might be affected by such a policy,
know to accept what they can not change and are respectful of the ladies wishes.
another thing I have observed is that if you act like a gentleman and treat them like a lady,
then some (not all) of the ladies with such policies, will be more then happy to see you, no matter what color you just so happen to be.
The key thing is to be a gentleman about it.

That is just the observations of a not so bright white guy..

BigDeal · 05-20-2013, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by dirty dog

Really, come on bro, first the question is not asked of a specific provider, its asked in a general form, do you know how many possible answers there are to a question like that and when you do finally get an answer from 100 different providers the answer will never satisfy the person asking the question because you get 100 different answers. The reality is the provider is not required to give an answer, she is only required to provide an outline of her services. Why she wont see midgets, or AA men is really no ones business. She has stated her rules and if you are excluded move on, there are many who do. But discussing this every 3 weeks is not changing a thing. A lady who does not see black men will not haver her mind changed because its constantly being discussed.

Well said.....now why cant I get a return pm from Malwoody?

I feel so alone

ScubaBad · 05-20-2013, 06:52 PM

My take on... pointless threads. I hate them, note the OP and typically don't open future ones from said provider or member.

big country · 05-20-2013, 07:26 PM

We as customers have already made our choice based on our own critera to call the provider in the first place. Not all hobbeist are fat, bald, old white guys with fat wallets. If 90% of screening was not such a farce bad apples would not get the chance to spoil for the rest.
When they turn on you which given the chance if if suits their needs at the time. It is alot esier dealing with a poodle than a pitbull. Any likeness to certain providers is purely by chance.

MsElena · 05-20-2013, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by bigryan222

I would probably say it i s a fair question and that I think it is a poor idea on your part to answer it. Have you noticed I haven't called you racist or said you should? My point I everyone has the right to question being rejected service for any reason. Implying that you shouldn't be questioned is my problem.

It is one of the many complex issues out there where answering the question does more harm than good, yet it is a very legit question.

You can't call me a racist because I never said that I wouldn't see a black guy. You ASSumed that. I don't have an AA policy on my site or in any of my ads. The only policy I have is that I do not see guys under a certain age.

If you think it causes more harm than good, then why ask it?

We could keep asking the same questions, like going on a merry-go-round, but it does no good.

This thread I started was to add some satire and also to point out how redundant those type of posts are. Some got it, some didn't.

I'm sure you're a nice guy who doesn't seem to have a problem getting a date. Enjoy life and don't sweat the small stuff like this. It'll make your life happier.

I usually say what others are thinking, but afraid to post.