Hobby Party Ideas!

[Duke of G]

Originally Posted by Ariel Amour

I probably would have had your harsh and unnecessary reprimand not halted my invitation sending process.

No..I meant you DIDN'T just send it to those you said you did.

As I said...I received one, and I've never seen you, nor reviewed you.

It was random AND against our PM policy.

So...it wasn't harsh. It wasn't unnecessary. It was the same treatment others have received for that behavior.

[Ariel Amour]

I was simply extending you an invitation as a courtesy. Why not invite a mod to a party?
It doesn't have to say anything if Ive pre- screened before sending the invite.
I do appreciate your concern however for the safety of all hobbyist and providers alike... even if you are incorrect in your accusations.

Originally Posted by Duke of G

Actually, since I recived one, and have never seen, nor reviewed you, that would be a falsehood.

And I didn't say you don't screen. But your PM doesn't say a WORD about it.

You are asking for masses of hobbyists to gather in one place, with no assurances of who is or isn't screened.

That's foolish, IMO.

You asked for feedback. Here are two bits:
1- don't abuse the pm system
2- tell people about your screening, or at least that everyone there IS going to be screened.

[Ranchhand]

Hell Duke you dont need to be screened, after all look at your reviews, then take a look at mine. lol

[Ariel Amour]

I have 24 reviews.. that's 24 invitations... is that against policy.

Originally Posted by Duke of G

No..I meant you DIDN'T just send it to those you said you did.

As I said...I received one, and I've never seen you, nor reviewed you.

It was random AND against our PM policy.

So...it wasn't harsh. It wasn't unnecessary. It was the same treatment others have received for that behavior.

[Ariel Amour]

Thank you again. Your sweet

And I think the nudity thing will definitely happen...eventually lol ;-)

Originally Posted by Ranchhand

Ok, im gonna get back on topic. The original question was ideas for this type of party. I gotta go with the nudity thingy, I cant think of a better game than me setting around looking at a bunch of naked women. By the way, I dont know you but I will send you my P411 information. Ranch

[Duke of G]

Originally Posted by Ariel Amour

I have 24 reviews.. that's 24 invitations... is that against policy.

Sending unsolicited PMs is the issue. Not the number.

You are welcome to communicate with whomever you choose via PM. When we get complaints, that's where it becomes an issue.

And while I see you were being "courteous" with the invitation, that doesn't change that it was unsolicited.

If you choose your recipients carefully, you'll find little issues, I think.

All I'm saying is that you are clearly soliciting business. That's what ads are for. The threAD here in co-ed is totally OK too. But the PM....you stepped in the wrong direction.

My warning re: screening was advice to you and your prospective clients. Be safe...screen everyone. Bold it. Underline it. Or...don't come crying to the board when pics end up places you don't want, or someone gets arrested, or someone does something crappy at the party and ruins the fun.

Good luck with your bookings.

[Ariel Amour]

sigh* well I guess all tha'ts left to say is' Yes Sir'
I will try to behave myself
If you didn't want to come to my party all you had to say was no...

Originally Posted by Duke of G

Sending unsolicited PMs is the issue. Not the number.

You are welcome to communicate with whomever you choose via PM. When we get complaints, that's where it becomes an issue.

And while I see you were being "courteous" with the invitation, that doesn't change that it was unsolicited.

If you choose your recipients carefully, you'll find little issues, I think.

All I'm saying is that you are clearly soliciting business. That's what ads are for. The threAD here in co-ed is totally OK too. But the PM....you stepped in the wrong direction.

My warning re: screening was advice to you and your prospective clients. Be safe...screen everyone. Bold it. Underline it. Or...don't come crying to the board when pics end up places you don't want, or someone gets arrested, or someone does something crappy at the party and ruins the fun.

Good luck with your bookings.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Ariel Amour

I was simply extending you an invitation as a courtesy. Why not invite a mod to a party?

Buzzkill, perhaps??

Ariel, its not looking good arguing your point with a mod in open forum. It would be best to
do it behind the scenes. I did not read Duke's initial response as an attack or that he was picking on you. He generally saves those missives for me because he is jealous of my taint tickling skills.

[Jewish Lawyer]

Ariel, I think you are handling it well. I would call it more of an open and honest discussion. Considering you put your face on your photos and we don't, it is easier for us to criticize. I hope your party goes well, even though I could never attend, due to my marital bliss.

[bojulay]

A piniata filled with condoms.

And don't forget the root beer.

[Tara Evans]

Dont forget the BudLight

[Iaintliein]

Set up a backdrop and some lights in separate room, ladies who don't mind their photos taken posing for guys who want to bring cameras could get interesting. But privacy concerns would have to be addressed and the cameras kept away from the general "party" area, as well as making sure GPS was turned off on the phone cameras.

[lilsmurf]

Patron body shots would be fun.

[whitechocolate]

Nudity, sex dice and bud light and you will be very successful

[Ariel Amour]

Actually we will be doing that!! My sexy bartender is also my photographer and will be here taking pics of us all night... just the providers but the guests can chime in on what theyd like us to do and take a few pics of thier own if theyd like :-) minus faces of course

Originally Posted by Iaintliein

Set up a backdrop and some lights in separate room, ladies who don't mind their photos taken posing for guys who want to bring cameras could get interesting. But privacy concerns would have to be addressed and the cameras kept away from the general "party" area, as well as making sure GPS was turned off on the phone cameras.