An explanation for all you hobbyists...

[sxy_natalia]

Wow! This went totally different than what I expected.
Thank all of you for your kind words. It means a lot! I will always take responsibility for my actions. I just wish ALL of you hobbyists were as understanding as those of you who commented on this thread.
I've encountered several gentlemen that have been very unpatient and not understanding to my situation. I cannot see everyone in one day, and my schedule gets booked really fast. And now that I do not have an assistant anymore, it takes even longer to reply to my PMs. I do hope I have better luck in the future with the gentlemen that contact me.
Also, I will definitely be offering the gentleman I spoke of in this post something to make up for my mistake. I do hope he will accept my apology as well. And thank you all again for your kind words.

[Pepper_Springfield]

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[GentlemanCaller007]

Yup, unfortunately even with the best intentions we are all Humans; this means we occasionally malfunction\misfire (especially when emotionally drained or lacking sleep).

It takes a BIG person (mature) to publicly humble themselves and own their mistakes.

I had a multi-cancel from a VERY well respected provider before. The first time she cancelled I was disappointed but empathetic. The Second time she cancelled I was pissed and didn't care what her personal problems were (stop making them my problems)

The thing that changed my feelings is that she started offering me special extras like bonus (free) time, etc. When a Provider is willing to give of herself to try to make ammends it reaffirms my faith\trust in her because I can tell she IS genuinely sad and it isn't just "lip service."

Best of Luck dealing with your current challenges, Sexy'n'discreet! We all go through bad waves; take heart in knowing they will subside eventually.

[Citori]

Incall with Pepper and Heather.....I can't wait for my next trip to SAT.

[romeoromeo]

Well, here goes, appt tonight! Wish me luck!

[Nutting Buckeye]

RR.......Good Luck!
Better have some Red Bulls or 5 hr Energy now!

[Jten13]

Have fun rr post a review!

[barnybus]

Okay. I was prepared to let bygones be bygones. I was the individual whom was NCNS'd twice. I also went out of my way and incur the expense of an incall room. I was upset with the lack of communication(twice), but I was ready to let this matter drop and move on and then heather sends me this shitty PM:

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I'm sorry -- if a provider were truly ready to make an apology, this sort of PM would be completely inappropriate. Again, people can understand when matters come up, but no communication on a cancelled appointment is unacceptable. To top it off, Heather makes an impassion plea on this board and then turns around an sends a crappy PM when SHE was the party in the wrong?

Unbelieveable.

If Heather is upset that she has gotten negative postings about her TCB practices, the solution is simple -- she should honor her commitments or communicate when she can't

-B

[Jten13]

We've never set an appt up so a ncns hasn't happened and I haven't wasted time or money on s&d. I did get a PM saying she would see me for so and so rate since shes been busy and we hadnt got to book yet i was really excited to see her offer a better rate but then a few minutes later got a $$$ rate pm saying she has a driver and kids to take care of. At her first price it was a no brainier but until I see some steady reporting I'm sitting out. I talked to pepper and she nicely explained the jump in rate but it's is out of my normal hobby funds for a provider. Oh well on to the next one*jayz voice*

[Jten13]

But best of luck to you S&d I hope to see you after a couple reviews are posted. I'm sure your worth the price and I can't hate just Bc it's out of my range. If she is in your price range i'd love some intel on menu provided. Thanks and GL S&D and sorry about the Barney I hope she makes it up to u

[Likinikki]

My best advice to you Heather...is think about your priorities and responsibilities first. Don't get caught up with people who don't have your best interest at heart.

You're a very sweet girl...reputation is everything, remember that.

[smoothupinyou]

S&D thank you for that post....although we have never met...it's honesty like that....that make a person...and your character seems A+...best of luck to you..and maybe see you soon one day....Have a great day sugarpop.

[sxy_natalia]

Ok, as if I haven't made things bad enough for myself to begin with, now THIS!

Barny: That PM WAS NOT from me! And I AM sincerely sorry that I NCNSed you. I tried IN NO WAY to make excuses for my actions, AND I posted a PUBLIC apology for YOU! I honestly felt, and still feel, horrible for my actions.
As far as the PM you received from "ME"...sorry sweets, but that wasn't me. I made the mistake of giving someone a chance to "help" me because they wanted to, and obviously they have only hurt me more (and not intentionally I'm sure). You are not the only one who received a PM from "ME" that wasn't really from me. And now I am the one left doing damage control here.
Also, I am not upset that I have negative postings about my TCB. That was TOTALLY all my doing there. But this isn't.

And Nikki, thank you for that advice. I try to give everyone a chance. Even 2nd, 3rd and sometimes 4th and 5th chances. But you're right, my reputation is already being hurt because of this. And I was already doing a good job of messing that up myself. LoL!

[JDNorthface]

I think this needs to be taken private. Each post seems to make things worse.

S&D, you seem like a decent enough lady and we have no reason to believe what you are posting is incorrect. You're getting far more support for your confession than he is for being wronged. And it's not his fault that "someone" contacted him claiming to be you. It seems you're still responsible for that.

Some might believe that your latter post subverts the credibility of the former. You might be well advised to drop this matter from the public forum and work to make Barny whole in private. He has been wronged. Three times.

[Precious_b]

Isn't this about the time where "Both parties have spoken" post comes along?