sugardaddy and more

[seeker7]

I had a good friend in college. When we graduated, he rented a garage apt. in an affluent neighborhood. The homeowners were a 35 yr. old couple with 2 kids. The wife was a Librarian. About twice a week, the wife told Hubby she had to run some errands or go to the Library, usually in the evening. She would drive around the block, park and sneak back to my friend's apt. He would take care of her needs.

He didn't even get a discount on the rent! Pussy rules!

[flyinghi]

LOL, yep, sounds about right. Im still looking for that special UTR who's also looking

[SD7]

I have read the posts on this site for quite a while, but some posts on sugar daddies caused me to make my first post.

I am a businessman who does reasonably well financially. About four years ago I met a lady who posted on EROS. She had been an escort for several years because of financial difficulties but really disliked it. She had had some real major problems while working in the period just before I met her.

We became friendly, and after a short period of time I suggested that she take some time off, and I would cover her costs during that time. We became more friendly, and we talked about her leaving the profession. She said that she would not leave if I was looking at myself as her only customer. We agreed that I would be supporting her because we liked each other. She said that if I expected her to be faithful to me, then I would have to be faithfu to her. Gradually, we realized that we were in love. We are still together. We are completely faithful to each other. She enjoys her life and so do I.

When she was an escort, she was in pretty high demand. She had lots of reviews and regular customers. She really disliked the work. Now she wants to be loved and not just wanted because she is pretty. She does not do a lot of sexual things that she did when she worked. If someone met her today, they would never believe that she had been an escort.

[seeker7]

Of course, there was the guy years ago that owned the Ace Rican Fitness chain. He was Sugardaddy to a beautiful lady named Barbara Petruwsky. Bought her cars, jewelery, etc. and put her up in a swanky condo. Her demands became higher and he put out a contract on her. The two hit men shot her at a doughnut shop in Montrose. She was not killed, but paralyzed from the waist down. Both hit men were caught and went to prison. The guy skipped the country and now lives in Europe.

[flyinghi]

I met a provider just the way SD7 described. We became friends, I was her only client, then she totally quit the profession. I got her a luxury apt, paid her costs and bills, then helped her put her life together and start a new one. Her demands became more and more, then she said she was going to work in a bar. I said OK do want you want, but I wouldn't pay for anything after that. She chilled, continued with what she origianlly said she wanted to do with her life. Now, she's happy, We're still good friends, but moved on with life. I have new girl who was never a provider, but my other friend still hasn't seen anyone because she hated the profession and the guys she met on eccie. She told me she had been abused by a few and they wrote reviews about things that never happened. Oh well, on to bigger and better things

[Guest072624]

I'm always lookin hun.....

[Glynette]

I would think that, identical or varied versions, of the the presented situation are initially what any normal girl would prefer. But not every guy who claims to be looking for a SB even qualify to call themselves a SD. I get that it's hard on the SD end, especially if he's committed to someone else and the SB forgets the position she's meant to pay. She gets too greedy, needy, clingy, jealous, lazy, or down right schizo.

With that being said, I've had a few failed attempts of such agreements. But it's not a hundred percent anyone's fault, and it truth it falls more on me simply because I was not assertive enough in how I wanted things to work. I was too worried about offending someone, so I let the two gentlemen set the parameters of the relationship based on what they thought was fair/ was able to afford.

The most recent guy looked like George Clooney, so I was already prepared to make it work for the sheer sexy factor. He said that he could get away with about 150 for every two times that we met. No time limit on how long we hung out or what we did, just on the second time of seeing him, if it was within the same week, the next week or even two, I should have 150 coming to me, no questions. He liked bowling with beer and skipping to a hotel afterwards. We had great fun and chemistry. Pretty soon we spent more and more time together, but it was apparent early on that he was struggling with keeping up with the agreement but wasn't looking forward to seeing me less. One day there were three Visa gift cards sitting in the passenger seat when I met up with him. He said he figured out a way to pull the funds using his company's work credit card. I'm thinking 'uh-oh' and asked if he's worried about getting caught. He replies it's worth the risk. After awhile he completely bottoms out on his end. But I don't say anything for a few weeks. Things got tight for me again, and even though I hate asking, I realize it's silly for me not to turn to him, that's what we're doing right? Wrong. He turns into this blubbering mess about how he loves me and his love should be enough for me because he knows that I feel the same about him. I'm thinking, 'maybe in a perfect world'... but thanks to being easily being guilt tripped, we still got together for two months after his confession. Something finally clicked and when I brought up the subject of moving on, he was much more level headed about it. Out of the two, this was an improvement over the my first attempt....

First guy fell into the SD category, but only in terms of actually HAVING the finances... but only used them when he wanted or deemed it necessary. He enjoyed having me around in a GF capacity because of his recent divorce. We went on a trip to Vegas and we had fun going to some great shows, drinking, gambling and fooling around. But when it came time to pay a bill (which was the only time I would ask for money) or to send some cash home, it was always a fight, big deal, complaints, etc. Now understand, he just dropped, in a course of a seven day trip, 1,200 on last min. airline tickets, 1,500 for a room at the mirage, 7 day personal driver and town car, another grand for taking in the major shows, and I can't even fathom the food, drink and gambling budget. However when the the things I was looking to have handled needed taking care of, it was all a no go. I was called an ungrateful bitch who just had a vacation of a lifetime and had the nerve to ask for more.... only problem with his observation is that I never asked to fly first class to vegas, that was solely his desire to show off like that. I wanted 300 for the remainder of my rent and another 300 to send home... but i'm the greedy ungrateful bitch??? Ooookaay....

I've ranted about this before to another provider and got blasted for not sticking it out with him because of his obvious resources. But does having the ability to be a SD really give him the green light to designate and dictate every dollar and action we take even when I'm off during my own time doing my own thing? I don't agree. Just like the blonde bombshell of a international super model SB shouldn't seek to drain the SD dry. If people would be more realistic about what they needed vs. what they deem they are entitled to, it would be a more practiced situation. But that's just my humble little opinion... if my logic is flawed or too generalized, I'd like another provider's point of view, not just the guys complaining or wishing....

[cyclist9]

Originally Posted by SD7

I have read the posts on this site for quite a while, ...we are completely faithful to each other.

Thanks for sharing.

However, isn/t being completely faithful, incompatible with being a long time follower of this site?

I really do not care whether you are, aren't or planning something, it just seems to beg the question.

[Guest041513]

Originally Posted by flyinghi

Just read a posting by an Old Hobbist regarding being a sugardaddy. UTR_Guy_in_houston posted a weird reply about that. I know my friend found a girl on one of these sites and bacame her "sugardaddy", not out of desire, but out of mutual respect for each other. She had just started being a provider when they met and according to her, she hated it and the guys she was with. So she quit and became his sole provider. After a few weeks, they got along very well and actually liked each other. They have been together for almost 2 years, they travel together and do whatever they want. She also almost finished with her degree. That situation is working out very well. But, they are realists and understand they may find someone else. Watching them together is nice and proves if a guy diesn't mind (to much) what the girl has done and if she is actaully as nice as this girl is, being a sugardaddy can work. If I were that lucky, I too would be a sugardaddy to a lady like he found. I wonder how many providers would give this up if they found a nice guy who would be willing to do for her, what my friend is doing for his girl. Interesting

This is a great story. Clients can become SugarDaddies if everyone understands the boundries. I can't wait to find mine ....
I would love for a regular to become a SD.

[Guest041513]

Originally Posted by Jackie S

Look, we all pay for pussy, the difference is how we decide to do it.


Most guys who are in these "relationships" refrain from calling their Lady a Hooker, but all you have to do is ask the simple question. "Would she be fucking me if I did not compensate her in some way". If the answer is no, then she is a Hooker.

Exactly or she would be doing it for free . Thank god someone gets it . LOL .

It should be good for both sides of the party.

[Citori]

I'd like to be a situational sugar daddy.

[jimmycz]

A situational sugar daddy is that more like a sub or a pinch hitter? LMFAO! Damn Glynette you just look and sound hot period!

[Glynette]

^___^ lol thx jimmy

What is the difference between the general term "SD" and the "situational SD" that you're referring to, Citori?