"Off Limits" Menu Items Appearing in Reviews. Opinions?

[merz5]

I guess the reason I hobby is so that I can ask for what I want. I try to always be polite and respectful of the provider but I'm the client and the one paying so its a service industry. But just like in my business, the folks that are polite and respectful to me and my staff tend to also get the best service from us. Just ask! And remember its supposed to be fun! My opinion is that most of the ladies enjoy sex and variety just like we do so they want to have fun too.

[ss4699]

Originally Posted by myfiat

any kinship you feel with her is in YOUR head. it's a business transaction for her. if she's offering more to others, it's because it's financially rewarding for her to do so. wake up, you're just a source of income for her.

Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

wow. so wrong.

I would agree with LL. There can be more than at a finacial transaction. Some providers do care about their clients. I have had several who are that way over the years but like any "relationship" it is not easy to build or maintain. But it has to be invited and wanted on both sides.

[KenMonk]

Originally Posted by merz5

I guess the reason I hobby is so that I can ask for what I want. I try to always be polite and respectful of the provider but I'm the client and the one paying so its a service industry. But just like in my business, the folks that are polite and respectful to me and my staff tend to also get the best service from us. Just ask! And remember its supposed to be fun! My opinion is that most of the ladies enjoy sex and variety just like we do so they want to have fun too.

That is true and these ladies have the right to refuse service to anyone. As with anything else communication is the most important aspect. The entire process breaks down without proper communication.

[The Sixth Beatle]

I agree with LusciousLacy and newtotown. Since there are two (or more) human beings involved, there's no reason why there can't be friendship or affection involved in any meeting.

Where people get in trouble is confusing the fantasy with reality. Some providers act affectionate or loving with a client in order to provide the girlfriend experience and some hobbyists will make a faulty assumption. It's been my experience that if a lady has genuine, deep feelings for a gent that develop during a business transaction, she will let you know that she wants it to become something different. And she will, again in my experience, be very forward and unequivocal about it.

[ss4699]

Originally Posted by The Sixth Beatle

I...confusing the fantasy with reality.....

and it does happen on both sides of the "line".

Andf Ken is right about communication. It is a critical feature in a hobby "dream" or a real world relationship.

[VinnAY]

sometimes it's more work that she's interested in, or isn't that attracted to you, or didn't sleep very well. But the more reviews you read around her there's some that seem to go Grand Slam with everyone one of 'em, they have some sort of magic that parts the sea, as it where.
I'm near terrible at making a move, asking for what I want and how I want it, consequently I've had a likewise experience of wondering how someone got what I specifically asked for and was refused.

[LeilaniBebe]

For me it always gets better after the 3rd, 4th visit....
By then you know what each other likes and how you like it.