I've used instead for years, but I've never used it with a hobbyist. For light days with a hobbyist that is well aware, I like using beppy sponges. I used to have a sugar daddy that kept me "on the payroll" but only wanted to visit me "in the red tent". It personally doesn't bother me, but its one kink I've never advertised. During that time on the boards, I usually don't advertise; however, a good 80% of my regulars don't actually partake in FS so I'm still available for them during that time. I'm working on finding the right bc to make it a nonissue, but while I work through the trial and error, ill join the ranks in offering a red tent special