Seeking advice for visting a really big city

[Tori Hastings]

Originally Posted by Midnightkat

I certainly agree that having a review on this site would help; however we all knowguys do not post reviews for girls such as my self.

Definitely post in the "Another Realm" section. I'm sure there are men who favor ladies like you that post in there regularly. I think I've even read somewhere that there are men who review TS's in that section. So you never know. There's someone for everyone, hon.

Definitely advertise in a variety of places in advance. If you don't get any bookings, don't go. Move onto another place where you're desired.

[Mojojo]

Originally Posted by Midnightkat

When I post ads I clearly specify that I am a woman with a penis. It is also clearly stated in my showcase, and ALL OVER MY WEBSITE. Oh and in my signature. Haven't had a problem yet. Personally I don't see myself as a TS, I'm just a woman.

Glad you do but I did not see it in your signature. My suggestion was just to give folks clarity (particularly the lazy ones who dont look at your showcase or visit your webpage) not all cities are as friendly as SA. Certain places your lack of putting it upfront in your ad may be viewed as an attempt to be deceptive and may give you unwanted attention. Anyways that was just a tip as you were asking for.

My advice comes from moderating different cities, each one has it's unique cast of characters.

At any cost good luck to you in your travels and hope you are successful.

[SofaKingFun]

Mojojo, look under her handle. That's been there since Day 1. She's always been upfront and direct with regard to that matter and to the best of my knowledge, she's never attempted to 'surprise' anyone. If anyone were to do even a light and casual search on her bio, they'd be hard-pressed to miss it. i mean, if a person were interested in scheduling with her, one quick glance on her site or in her bio informs them of it, I understand what you're saying but there has to be stopping point somewhere.

What else does she have to do, post some sort flashing marquis saying something like...


??

If she did, then someone would start bitching that she's being deceitful because she's not Chinese, or some crap.

Or maybe something like...




or perhaps,




I feel that she's done her part.

Happy New Year!
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[Likinikki]

Kat, good to see you back! Try registering on Usindys...that site is more popular for the East Coast and Ohio. If you need a reference...you're welcome to use me. Good-luck!

And, you're one BEAUTIFUL woman...would love to meet you one day!

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by Likinikki

Kat, good to see you back! Try registering on Usindys...that site is more popular for the East Coast and Ohio. If you need a reference...you're welcome to use me. Good-luck!

And, you're one BEAUTIFUL woman...would love to meet you one day!

[Mojojo]

Sofa it was not sir, our staff had to add that in but regardless I am not accusing her of trying to be deceptive, just telling her how some members around might take it.....at least from my observation of moderating in different cities.

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...6&postcount=14

[Mokoa]

Who and what Kat is, is not germane to the topic of this thread.

The topic of this thread is...

Seeking advice for visiting a really big city.

So, unless you have some advice for Kat on her upcoming visit to New York City I suggest that you take it somewhere else.

Please stick to the topic of this thread. I will only ask once.

[Mature Companion]

Doll,
If you still have my #. Give me a call and I'll give you all the advice you need for the NY area.
You will enjoy it there.

Originally Posted by Midnightkat

Hey Ladies,
I am in search of some advice and suggestions, whether directly or indirectly, regarding a visit to NYC. How should I go about planning a trip?

1.) How can I test the waters, or let people know who I am in a place I've never been while not violating websites' "visiting ad policies"?
2.) Are there certain types of hotels to look for/stay away from? Is high-end better; what's a good star rating? What are men comfortable with?
3.) Should I increase my rates or keep them the same?
4.) What are other saftey measure one should take?

My first visit was to Dallas, it turned out OK. My second visit was just over to Austin, that was a complete waste of my time. I'm not sure what all I should/can do to make this all worth my time.

I've tried searching the boards but I must not be searching the right terms.
Thank you all in advance.

[Sonya Playmate]

Originally Posted by Tori Hastings

Definitely post in the "Another Realm" section. I'm sure there are men who favor ladies like you that post in there regularly. I think I've even read somewhere that there are men who review TS's in that section. So you never know. There's someone for everyone, hon.

Definitely advertise in a variety of places in advance. If you don't get any bookings, don't go. Move onto another place where you're desired.

Good advice

[petiteassman]

as just a woman is nice and understandable the little something extra you have that most women don't that makes you stand out in a crowd is probably something most guys will like to know about and have a strong opinion about. good luck though nyc may proove to be your kinda town. happy new years.

Originally Posted by Midnightkat

When I post ads I clearly specify that I am a woman with a penis. It is also clearly stated in my showcase, and ALL OVER MY WEBSITE. Oh and in my signature. Haven't had a problem yet. Personally I don't see myself as a TS, I'm just a woman.