Thrill of the hunt

[CapKirk]

There can be some amount of love if you can call it that. I've had girls tell me their family stories, call me over for dinner, get me gifts when returning from vacation. I reciprocate in a similar way. When you establish a connection, the sessions get really good. But you should not be under the illusion that it is love in the conventional sense. More like an affair and both need to be mature about it.

[BobbyC50]

I don’t ever think I’ve had feelings for anyone in that sense, but have lusted after one or two. I also don’t necessarily feel I’ve ever been taken for a ride - unless like a fool when I’ve gotten off the table to go get cash out of my pants and then get myself short shafted. When I’m upset it’s because of expectations not bring met or just generally a lying rip off. That goes for the massage too. A bad massage, or at least no sensuality, almost always turns out resulting in other bad activities. Expensive lessons have been learned. ATF’s are good because they usually meet expectations.

[BobbyC50]

We need another L0 list.

[bashar]

I’ve never developed feelings for anyone in the hobby. I’ve been friendly and have had a hobby crush here and there.
Even if I find a gem in the hunt, I tend to move on after I’ve made the kill. The fun is in the hunt, not the feast.
With the exception of my ATFs, I rarely see anyone more than 2-3 times a year. One ATF asked me why I just don’t see her all the time. I told her that if I wanted one partner, I would be married.

[TommyJay]

Originally Posted by bashar

I’ve never developed feelings for anyone in the hobby. I’ve been friendly and have had a hobby crush here and there.
Even if I find a gem in the hunt, I tend to move on after I’ve made the kill. The fun is in the hunt, not the feast.
With the exception of my ATFs, I rarely see anyone more than 2-3 times a year. One ATF asked me why I just don’t see her all the time. I told her that if I wanted one partner, I would be married.

Exactly, perfectly written.

[sweet_k47]

Used to enjoy the hunt but now I need certainty that I will get what I came for, tooold and not enough time or opportunities to hunt!

[TruthSayer]

Originally Posted by bashar

I’ve never developed feelings for anyone in the hobby. I’ve been friendly and have had a hobby crush here and there.
Even if I find a gem in the hunt, I tend to move on after I’ve made the kill. The fun is in the hunt, not the feast.
With the exception of my ATFs, I rarely see anyone more than 2-3 times a year. One ATF asked me why I just don’t see her all the time. I told her that if I wanted one partner, I would be married.

This should be chapter#1 in the Hobby Bible

[veloztec]

This discussion deserves an Emmy Nomination for Daylight Soap Opera Award ;-)

[BigDawg1966]

If you DO want to share a new gem, but provider does not want too much attention due to LE concerns and too much volume, what is best way to share? Posting a review of how beautifully sexy this woman is would drive you guys nuts. L1

[shauk1960]

Originally Posted by BigDawg1966

If you DO want to share a new gem, but provider does not want too much attention due to LE concerns and too much volume, what is best way to share? Posting a review of how beautifully sexy this woman is would drive you guys nuts. L1

[poon_69]

Originally Posted by shauk1960

[Uncas]

No issues here with your stance, I typically keep my favorite to myself until someone some well meaning monger spills the secret