Provider does not accept OK's on P411?

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Cendell needs to post taint photos for seconding to count. I don't make the rules. Read the guidelines its in there ... somewhere.

Originally Posted by Cendell M

^^ Whenever you are ready I’ll let you take the photos

Taint report required.

[beanocook]

I won’t provide real world ID / information, but that’s just me.

To the OP: I think you’re saying that you have P411 but have no references or OKs on P411. Just look for a newbie-friendly provider that’s also on P411. Go through her screening, see her and have a good time, then get an OK. That may smooth it down the road.

It’s all about risk tolerance for you and the provider. I’ve had providers say they won’t accept P411 or still want personal info above and behind P411. My typical response is respectful, “I’m not willing to share my RW info. If that’s a problem for you, I totally understand. If I can give you something else, let me know.”

Sometimes they’ll say no, it’s cool; sometimes they want a PM on here or OH2; sometimes tbey insist and we just part ways.

As I said, it’s all about risk tolerance for both. We don’t want our RW info out there, but providers have a safety and LE concern. It’s all about balance.

[Unique_Carpenter]

^^^^^

Thread winning post.

[Foxtrotdancer]

I absolutely agree with Beanocock. Absolutely, but I have rarely seen a woman turn down an appointment. As long as you are respectful during screening and don’t come of as weird.

Selfies and real world information is just absolutely stupid because at the end of the day you just can’t trust these ladies. There is a well known provider on Oh2 who used a selfie of a guy in the Alert section of the other board and everyone knows the Powder room is ……………… ( use your imagination)Yes sometimes lines do get tangled but it’s in one’s best interest to be as anonymous as possible . In sessions I answer zero questions of an intimate nature besides what I’ve shared and on the other board I don’t say anything except for a congratulatory something in the review section and only positive remarks on reviews then go back to complete silence. Some ladies want you to say something, but participation in Coed ain’t it and you can never say anything negative in reviews. To play this game know the rules and play the game by being smart. Do that and your next worry is just to have money. To overthink this is not having fun.

[SHABoom]

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