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Old 06-29-2025, 10:17 AM   #16
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Update:

I don't know if she's a scam or not, but I decided not to meet her and I let her keep the deposit. She may be legit, but it felt like I was being set up for some kind of rip off:
1) I saw another Tryst ad for her that said she was going to be in Virginia on the same dates, and when I told her she made a lame excuse and then changed the ad back to Roch;
2) I checked in with her last night to see if we were on and she said yes, but this morning she seemed to have forgotten until I texted her twice;
3) I asked her to send a selfie, which she did but it looked nothing like her ad pics and had different hair and eye colors;
4) She said that she would meet me in the lobby rather than give me her room number when I arrived;
5) after all this, she asked if I would bring her flowers, which is very unusual and would be a good way for anyone to spot me when I walked in.

I asked her to address my concerns and she did not.

So, she may be legit and I may be an asshole (well, of course I am) but I decided to think with the big head for once.
Thanks for listening.
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Old 06-29-2025, 12:11 PM   #17
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Well it didnt get any worse
Sorry it didnt work out
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Old 06-29-2025, 12:18 PM   #18
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5) after all this, she asked if I would bring her flowers, which is very unusual and would be a good way for anyone to spot me when I walked in....

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THAT is an interesting idea!

I have seen more and more girls on Tryst who advertise multiple overlapping dates in different cities.

Another red flag is girls who don't provide a phone number for contact, just an OF link. I only fell for this once. There was a "girl" advertising that she was in my city. I subscribed for "free" to her OF (it never is free). And as soon as I subscribed, "she" started pinging the fuck out of me with suggestive texts. When I discretely mentioned a meet, "she" told me that "I have heard that city is nice and I should go there some time!" I finally had to both unsubscribe and block "her" to make it stop. Supposedly you can report scammers like that to Tryst, but I am skeptical it is actually effective.

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Old 06-30-2025, 08:51 AM   #19
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Way too many red flags. IDK why any provider would want flowers. All that does is bring more attention to you and to her. True providers want to remain as UTR when staying at a hotel as possible. This was definitely a scam and smart move by you to avoid it.
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Old 06-30-2025, 09:18 AM   #20
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And today she is in Richmond VA, I think you made the right choice.
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Old 06-30-2025, 01:12 PM   #21
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I'm wondering if anyone else in Roch got scammed by her?
(and is willing to admit it)
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Old 07-01-2025, 06:39 AM   #22
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Any reputable provider should be able to point you to some reviews, or a website, or a social media account that can prove that they are a legitimate person. All sites are filled with these scammers who create accounts and steal deposits from people dumb enough to pay them. Bottom line is don't ever prepay for anything unless it's money you don't mind flushing down the toilet.
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Old 07-07-2025, 08:20 AM   #23
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Default Same story with Katt of TX

I also went through a similar situation with : https://tryst.link/escort/katt22
Confirmed via text and paid $50 deposit. She wanted more $$ stating that the first $50 was to make sure I was not LE and wanted 50% of the fee. Bailed as it did not feel right. Now there are many TX ladies popping in Upstate. I will buy local for a bit before venturing into another visitor.
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