Seeking more out of a regular

[ICU 812]

Originally Posted by FatCity

where did you read THAT?

Figure it out: The Hobby gives me access to women half my age (I am 70) and I choose THEM for their looks and attitude. They don't expect me to send them flowers or call the next day. I don't have to remember their birthday.

And if I am not fully satisfied with our meeting, I find someone else. And much the same goes for her side of the hobby transaction.


There is a related article titled 'So You Want To Date a Stripper". Its outy there on the net. Just do a search with the title and it comes up. Dated but still funny. ./ . .and right on the point.

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by BLM69

I've known this for 25 years, this guy is just learning the game, this has to be viewed by the new generation of simps[/url]

you're having a conversation with yourself because what you keep replying has nothing to do with my thread

in short, its
IF YOU WANT ME TO KEEP $EEING YOU, YOU NEED TO OFFER ME MORE

The option is always to just stop seeing her. Are you stupid or are you deaf?

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by Fizley

Why would you want to limit yourself to one person.

Originally Posted by FatCity

where did you read THAT?

Originally Posted by ICU 812

I made it up and am just doubling down on my stupidity.

No where did I intimate that I only wanted to see this one regular, that I didn't want to continue seeing other providers, that I wanted to date this one regular. I stated that I have a good report with this regular, everything works well, but its not satisfying enough for me to continue. Rather than just stop, I'm approaching her on providing MORE.



You have a barber you get services from. You want him to remain your barber, but he needs to also do___.

[offshoredrilling]

Seems you want her to have your baby
give no support for that
keep poking for fun
enjoy the free tea/coffee cream
and bake you a cake for ya to eat

[FatCity]

mods, go ahead and delete this thread because eccie users are all fucking morons, unable to read

[ICU 812]

There are oter sites.

You ask a question but don't like the answers you get.

Be assured that most replies here are well-meant advice on the realities of the Hobbyist-Provider equation.

[BLM69]

Trick wants to read only what's gonna make him happy, we're the morons here, he's the smart guy looking for more on a hooker site....

[Ashley1111]

*Spoil more. Receive more. ��

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

don't like the answers you get..

answers to questions that weren't asked
very helpful

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by FatCity

answers to questions that weren't asked
very helpful

Take them as lessons, you seem a little green when it comes to dealing hookers, they're not here to find love or to make friends with tricks, many lover boys before you had been taken advantage of, don't be the next sucker

[Ripmany]

What you trying to get out her. Different sex?
A another provide?

[arañanegra]

That's one major downside to p4p, the sex is paid for and they deliver upon payment, the emotional portion which would typically carry the relationships isn't there, I too tend to lose interest after a few good sessions, I may return after some time away, but eventually lose interest all together and move along, discover/replace each with other lovelies rinse and repeat, good luck OP.

[ICU 812]

66++

BINGO

[papadee]

Originally Posted by FatCity

My current regular is a low volume girl and we get along well, but I need way more than what she provides. Logic says just to stop seeing her, but I plan to meet up next week to share that I need more out of our time together to make it worth my while. I'm 80% sure this is a waste of time and just move on, but I'm curious what others may think (flame away).

I see a provider once every week or two. Generally never see the same one twice. I have had a few that were regular, doing play dates, trips, whatever where we really got along. Once they fall behind in the pace, I just meet up and "officially" end it amicably rather than leave them in the lurch.



WHAT am I looking for, exactly? I don't know, but I'd imagine its more intimacy because we have shared a lot of personal life shit with each other. As a provider, she's not that great because she's very selective (it took forever to get her to reply so we could set up a first meet) and has a lot of sexual boundaries she outlines in her ads, to where its just fucking (no DFK,DATY,greek, CBJ, etc). No, not trying to date her,either, but she's at least not completely fucked in the head.

While I'll agree most of the comments haven't been helpful to your situation, part of the reason is, you don't know what you want.


You say you want more intimacy, but you don't want to "date". Does intimacy mean expanding her sexual boundaries or more cuddle time/personal? I can't tell if you like her as a person, or wish she was more open sexually because she's your type AND seems to have her head on straight, something that's is hard to find.


You talk about the others you see, so I don't think you're new to this, just new to ECCIE. People here will speak their mind. So if you want better responses, be absolutely clear on what you're asking for. Your post seems more of an unorganized thought that you typed out, and not an actual question.

[Rainbird4668]

I have found what you seek... but i had to find it via sugaring.

I will say it is not easy to find. I consider myself lucky. You might not possibly find a SB for some time.
Gotta wade through time wasters and the ones with no connection until you do.

One thing that that helped me was i had a wingman from eccie... we'd message the girls for intel and share the info... even shared some girls (unbeknownst to them).

Just be careful... its easy to get banned for soliciting on sugar sites.