References? How do you decide?

[sajay]

References are hard to come by for those of us that do not play frequently... but I totally understand the need for them... just venting a little I guess...

[LeLana]

Well Footlong, I'll put this way you won't have to worry about me sending harm anyone's way. I never discuss anything and I have a sexy test you must pass before anything takes place. I guess im crazy or just the "slow provider". Just because he was he good for me doesn't mean he can't turn on you. Would I then be blamed for giving the okay? Or so I simply have blunders on? Help a girl out!!

[LeLana]

I meant blinders. Damn touchscreen!!

[Likinikki]

Lelana, every provider has the right to conduct their business as they wish...however, the least you could do is to post that in your signature so we all know not to waste our time in contacting you for references.

[oldyoungkid]

this conversation has been very enlightening ... so thanks to those that have said their piece ..

now I have a different question. How long is too long (insert joke, no pun intended, here) ... Have been away for a while, so my "references", if any, would be old ...

so, how much time elapsing is too much? 1 month? 2?? 3???

just wondering how far on the bottom of the list I have to go to get an OK?

[MsPrittiKitti]

i think it depends on the provider thats accepting the references
in reality--this is a pretty expensive hobby. so i understand that not everyone is capable of seeing 1-2 girls per month.

ill accept references a couple months old, BUT she must be a very reputtable provider.

if a gent uses me as a reference, and its been awhile--ill tell the lady. and its up to her to decide if its acceptable.