I prefer to give them - actually I really love to give them.  Nothing better than admiring a womans body and providing some sensual relaxation.  I feel ....... and could be wrong....... but I have a better chance of getting a lady into a session if I spend some time giving her a nice full body massage.  I have to find some way to impress the ladies 
 
I don't mind recieving them when I know the lady likes to give them.  I have enjoyed some quality massages and they are nice.  If it is simple means to break the ice I would rather be the one doing the rubbing.