gf wants to consider being a part-time provider UTR

[Anarquia]

This will not end well.......

[lisa.lisa0302]

How do you know she is already not charging guys and just never told you about it?

How can you support her decision? If she was already a provider when you first met, well okay, at least it was already known.

Doesn't seem like the case here........so I would kick rocks quick. Would her stories of seeing clients turn you on or turn you off. UTR, what if she likes it and spends less time with you. Is that okay with you?

Honestly I would tell her to lose your number, I can't see that situation having a happy ending.

[Lana Warren]

Don't y'all get it? It's a fantasy for both of them!


Some fantasies should just remain that...a fantasy!

[unipac69]

lisa.lisa0302 I appreciate your concern. I am pretty certain she hasnt charged in the past. Her stories now that she tells when she meets a new guy. Which by the way incase anyone was wondering, isnt several times a week. She would go out with her friends maybe once a month or sometimes two or three months. If she meets a guy she is attracted to she will tell me about it later. That can be a sexual turn on for us of months. So yes, its a turn on. I understand the concerns, and I agree that they are real. But its a game that we like.

Lana Warren, you are correct. Its fantasy for us. A game we like to play. IF she does it, it may not be for very long until we come up with something new. When I stated she would be UTR. I meant way UTR. We are simply trying to plan ahead to make sure it is a risk we want to take. She knows that I play in the hobby, very low volume and when I do I share that with her as well and like her stories we feed off of that sexually for month.

Some have pm'd me with some good advice. LOL, hell a few has even pm'd wlling to help. Clearly we would have to be very selective and the guy, whoever it may be would have to really verified.

I want to thank everyone again.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by unipac69

No I would not be a UTR pimp. How stupid a question.

Its a very real and legitimate question. If you cannot handle that simple question without getting pissy how are you going to handle your girlfriend not spending time with you while she has an appointment?

[unipac69]

You know pyramider, I had a very long response in the form of a rant towards your comments all typed out, but then I deleted it all. I have read other unfriendly and yes "stupid" questions and comments made to others that simply asked about some advice or just wanted to make simple comment about something.

I feel that all of the providers on this site and around 99% of all the guys on this site are very friendly, non judgemental and simply like participating in threads without attempting to insult someone.

So for the 1% that just simply insists on spending their entire lives living as 100% jerks with no desire to act as if they are no longer in junior high, I wish you well.

Also, if this gets me banned from the site then I guess it will. As for everyone else. I appreciate your comments and advice.

[TexRich]

as one of my escort friends use to say, she is a "square" and is just giving it away. sure, if she likes to fuck and is good at it, then what is worth doing is worth doing for money.