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DallasRain · 03-15-2011, 07:15 AM

I like kissing...I am just not good at it....lol

stuckinsyracuse · 03-15-2011, 08:21 AM

Its already been stated but dfk is one of the things missing for me and my favorite sessions have included a nice dfk session. Its one of the more intimate experiences I hope to enjoy. My problem with this hobby is I'm very passive and if meeting a women she seems at all apprehensive to dfk I avoid it for her sake but it hurts the experience for me. That's more a me problem than a her problem though I guess.

offshoredrilling · 03-15-2011, 09:13 AM

I see it as respect for her not lfk or dfk, if they do not wish to. Then go ahead and enjoy what is ok. Also see it as a YMMV at any time. I do prefer kissing.

Chloe · 03-15-2011, 09:48 AM

I believe kissing is what makes an encounter the most intimate

I have had only one experience where the guy didn't want to kiss. I felt so stupid too! After the third time I tried to lay a wet one on his pressed together lips I realized, oh gee . . . he doesn't do the kissing! LOL

offshoredrilling · 03-15-2011, 10:07 AM

mmmm when contacting would it be ok if a guy says if kissing is ok, NO, mandatory. Or would that be part of no talking about activity's?

Chloe · 03-16-2011, 05:03 PM

Good question OSD. Ask "Do you like to kiss?" rather than "Are we going to be able to kiss?" . . . It is just asking what she like rather than inquiring about activities she will do for you because we all know the donation is for TIME only.

HlavinKitheri · 03-17-2011, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I like kissing...I am just not good at it....lol

Practice makes perfect! HMU for a free lesson. :-)

DallasRain · 03-17-2011, 08:51 AM

mmmmmmmm hlavin...anytime sugar!

djdrummer57 · 03-17-2011, 09:14 AM

Hey Dallas.....ever come up here to Western NY? Would love to participate in a "lesson" and meet one of the stellar Provider's on here. Let me know!!!! BTW, love your pics....killer eyes!

Guest091813 · 03-18-2011, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

mmmm when contacting would it be ok if a guy says if kissing is ok, NO, mandatory. Or would that be part of no talking about activity's?

Osd....some ladies prefer not to answer a question like that..

For me.. it falls into "what activities are you comfortable with"..and in fact if the lady has never met you before she may feel really uncomfortable with a question like that.

..and if indeed she is a vanilla provider she may tell you that you may not be a good fit.... (to save you from wasting your time in seeing her and not getting what you feel falls into a gfe session)

..its best to not ask questions of that nature..she may feel your baiting her.

Regardless what site your from and what your handle is.....its an uncomfortable question for some ladies....hope that helps...nita..

offshoredrilling · 03-18-2011, 10:12 AM

Well no kissing is not a problem for me. But for many on hear it is. And I have read many times on this board. Where a guy will ask if she is GFE, got a yes. Then when got there no kissing. And to them no kissing is needed for GFE. As they see it.

So if a guy needs this to be part of the deal. How can they know before hand. Before wasting his and the providers time. Other than reading reviews. As it can be a YMMV type of thing. I know that at times I have gotten kissing from providers that do not normally do so. And not every time.

Franklin4 · 03-19-2011, 08:57 AM

Kissing is very passionate, I love kissing and I also love a woman with soft hands

petiteassman · 03-21-2011, 05:54 AM

fan club is growing [amongst other things] in this part of the country. perhaps time to see niagara falls

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

mmmmmmmm hlavin...anytime sugar!

Lexxxy · 04-25-2011, 12:37 PM

Oh my goodness, I LOVE TO KISS! I think it is so intimate and erotic. When someone is a good kisser it makes me melt, I get so turned on and start to squirm. When roaming hands get involved and kissing gets even more intense I just get lost in the moment, it feels amazing.
For me it is hard to get in the mood if a Gent doesn't kiss, I can get in the mood, it just takes a lot longer.
I think kissing is a beautiful thing and I love the way it makes me feel

naughtyfun · 04-25-2011, 01:35 PM

It is definately a deal breaker for me. I love to kiss and a DFK is necessary for me to feel a connection. Crystal-winterfun is one of my ATF because of her oral fetish.