Are you a reference friendly provider? Keeping women safe..

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Miss Molly

When someone corrects your grammar, they are helping you; don't be offended

Very well said.

Ms Molly,

Charles is very intelligent. I was actually just pulling his legs/teasing him but you know what's funny?
When someone boasts a medical degree and can't even form a simple sentence. Now that's some funny
ish.

I'm sorry Chica. I'll drop it now.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by Miss Molly

When someone corrects your grammar, they are helping you; don't be offended

If a person wanted to truly help, wouldn't a PM be more tactful?

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Miss Molly

I am reference friendly; just not through email as I rarely check my hobby email. Best way to check reference with me is via pm or call or text and have the guy contact me.

I will have to keep this in mind. I prefer to email the lady. I feel that calling is a bit too intrusive. I think that most providers would prefer to do reference checks via email than phone but I could be wrong.

[London Rayne]

Is this English class or a reference thread? Just asking but yes Naomi...hilarious! I would never fault someone for having no education but when you claim an advanced degree and can't even spell words from 6th grade...tends to look a bit transparent.

[Guest071711]

Not everything on the board is meant for a fight; come on we're all adults and can take a joke right?? Yes I guess a pm is more tactful but it takes away from the fun

[shorty]

Looks like some ladies need to chill out or be spanked!!LOL

[arianne]

Nice. Thanks, I have added it to my site.

[kendra kayy]

Thanks for the link! I too prefer email or pm vs phone call or txt.

[gigi_gypsy]

Thanks for posting this - I am adding it to my site as well.

[LynetteMarie]

Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

...while I don't give BCD details I do say more than "he is ok"...How do I add the tag? I will pm you...In addition I will give references or check out other providers for my guys to ensure they are safe and receive quality care

I recommend that any provider who does not yet have a website or blog simply add the badge to her/his signature line by linking on the "insert image" icon above and linking to http://missy-mariposa.com/images/reference.jpg

Cheers and I'm so happy to spread the word about the fabulous Missy Mariposa and her support for others in this little world of ours.

XOXOO
LM

[brandilynn]

Yes, I also include description details.
Always worried someone might piggy-back someone else’s reference. I check ids but many do not.

[Missy Mariposa]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

That must be quite a large SIM card you carry in your phone. Or a huge Access file. That's not very discrete, IMHO.

I don't know about others, but I have quite a good memory and most of my clients email ME (as a heads up) long before the lady emails me. Often times the client will also tell the lady something to pass along as in "Tell her I was wearing a grey shirt with black stripes and we met at the Lowes Vanderbilt". No log necessary for that.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Ansley

If a person wanted to truly help, wouldn't a PM be more tactful?

You would think so, but some people are a bit defensive when unsolicited constructive help/criticism is provided.

I've had the banner for over a year and try to get back with the ladies ASAP.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by Missy Mariposa

I don't know about others, but I have quite a good memory and most of my clients email ME (as a heads up) long before the lady emails me. Often times the client will also tell the lady something to pass along as in "Tell her I was wearing a grey shirt with black stripes and we met at the Lowes Vanderbilt". No log necessary for that.

You must be following me ha ha. That's usually what I ask them to do as well.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by M A X

You would think so, but some people are a bit defensive when unsolicited constructive help/criticism is provided.

I've had the banner for over a year and try to get back with the ladies ASAP.

Max, You are so RIGHT! Just last week I sent an email to a girl telling her that her tampon string was showing in her pictures. She sent me a really nasty email back. So much for being "helpful" and "tactful".