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I had prostate cancer and have many prostate exams. I have never enjoyed a Doctors finger
up my butt. I went through proton radiation treatment at M.D. Anderson and before each of
the 52 treatments a balloon was placed in your butt and inflated with water to push your
bladder out of the way before the radiation was applied. After going through all this I do not
understand how any one could enjoy ass play.
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I can address this a bit, I think, and understand your POV to a degree.
ALL Digital Rectal Exams I've had (and I'm 66) and do one each year, are not pleasant.
My doctor is a "she", and even with smaller fingers, its all business, and the goal is to go deeply enough so she can press into the prostate from the colon and feel for irregularities, size, and so on. Especially necessary in older guys with BPH.
If I'm lucky, its not painful... if not, it hurts.
One year my PSA was suddenly off the charts, she advised I see a urologist, and he advised a biopsy.
With this, a kind of flexible tube is inserted into the cleaned out rectum, and it stays in place, inflating the rectum a bit and is used for visual and instrument access.
Then with carefully applied local anesthetic, a long needle with a biopsy snipper on the end is inserted through the wall of the flexible tube, through the rectal wall, then into the prostate at which time this long needle device (about 12 inches long) then "bites" a tiny piece of prostate tissue at which time he extracts the needle biopsy tool, deposits the sample in a labeled container. Ultra sound guides the precision impalement of the gland.
He did this about 10 times, as I recall, corresponding to different sections of the gland in which he was interested.
It was really not painful, but was pretty uncomfortable. I took about an hour, and I medicated myself with a few valium before so I could relax.
I asked him while he was in mid-stick why the hell he couldn't just take me out for a drink or something... "We have to stop meeting this way," I said. Both he and his nurse had a good laugh.
And fortunately, I was cancer free.
This is the medical stuff... its no fun ever... in no way is it exciting or even pleasant.
Having said all this.... I also really like anal play... on me.
I'm going to guess that most providers that advertise "Prostate Massage" do NOT do a prostate massage, but simply penetrate the rectum and do an in an out motion with their finger or smallish toy.
To do an actual PM, she will have to press UP (if the male is on his back) after her finger passes beyond the dual sphincters, and do a small circular type motion where the prostate resides on the other side of the rectal wall.
So I've had a number of providers say they do a PM, but they really do NOT.
What they do is put their finger in your rectum and simulate intercourse.
Now this is pleasant, and I like it especially if they are gentle and get into it, while stroking me L1 or doing L2, etc.,
I do think a real PM done by a provider could be quite erotic and stimulating, but alas, this is the exception and not the rule.
Just sayin